why nice guys finish last and get
dumped all the time
Did you do your best to please the
woman you love but got dumped in
the end?
Were you more caring and loving
than all other men then found that
she preferred some cold folk over
you?
Are you wondering why you got
dumped even though you were
really nice to her?
I know that this might be confusing.
After all, you did your best, you
cared like no one cared and you
were very supportive. Now how
come can an abusive man, who
might even be inferior to you, get
preferred over you?
Let me begin by telling you that
there is nothing wrong with you but
the problem is with your
understanding of women's needs.
Women don't like nice guys who
shower them with love because they
were biologically designed to prefer
the bad boy.
If you are still confused then read
this article to know what went
wrong.
Why women prefer bad boys over
nice guys
Here is the answer:
1) Biological makeup: Women
were hard wired to prefer the
strong, dominant and confident
man. Now because being needy
might a give false indication that
a person is helpless and weak
most women will be turned off by
the needy man. In short, instead
of showering your woman with
attention and love know when to
show affection and when to pull
back
2) Supply and demand: In my
book How to make someone fall
in love with you
i said that women find men more
attractive when they find that
other women like them as well. In
other words the more demanded
you are the more attractive you
appear to be. Now when you
become very nice to a woman she
might think that you are
desperate to get her just because
no one else likes you.
3) There is no challenge for her: In
my previous article why women
like twilight I explained how
women get turned on by
challenges. If the love seemed
impossible or if the man seemed
unreachable then women will
fantasize about him more than
ever and as a result they will fall
for him. Now compare this to the
needy man who showers the
woman with calls, flowers and
love. The more emotionally
unavailable you seem to be the
more will women get attracted to
you (see also Why is 50 shades of
grey so popular
)
4) You listened to women: Ask
any woman about the kind of
man she wants and she will reply
telling you that she wants the
kind,nice and loving man. Now
wait until she gets in a
relationship or falls in love and
you will discover that she fell in
love with an abusive emotionally
unavailable bad boy. The
woman's desire to tame that bad
boy and to win his impossible
love will motivate her to chase
him and this will lead to
developing more attachment
towards him. (see also Falling in
love with your abuser)
5) She put you on the shelf:
Human beings always want what
they can't get. In my previous
article why being mysterious
works i explained how people
keep thinking about unfinished
businesses all the time. If a
woman isn't sure whether you
truly love her or not then she will
keep thinking about it. Now if that
woman was 100% sure that you
can't live without her then she
might put you on the shelf and
seek a more mysterious partner
How to attract women
There is a great difference between
being a bad boy and a mean

Mey ah jst sidon dy watch dere comments b4 Ah drop ma own bomb...

The simple reason y they get dumped is bcoz they are just too boring and predictable.
Have you ever wondered why epl is more watched than la liga and bundesliga,it's simply because of the unpredictable outcome of matches and all the controversies that surrounds the league(na there u go hear say dem bite pesin hear,na there player dey screw I'm mate wife and some other racism stuff).la liga on the other hand even though it has arguably the 2 best team in the world,does not compare to epl in terms of fans,why?you can predict the result of almost all their matches and nothing much really goes on there in terms of controversy.
Believe me when I tell u nothing captures the heart of man like chaos or unexpected drama and this is where nice guys come short they say yes all the time,they rarely quarrel with their gf and this is just boring to women coz women on the other hand likes their emotion being stretched,they like drama,everybidy does actually.
And pls make no mistake being a "bad boy in a relationship" does not mean having conrows, tattoos all over your body or being a cultist,it's actually has to deal with your attitude towards a relationship and I think that misconceptions stems from the fact that those kind of people,like a cultist for example naturally are type of people that have a high tendency not to live their life pleasing people all the time.

Not again...