The answer might actually be in front of you and still yet, you refuse to see it!
When you have her on your contact either BBM, Whatsapp or even your phone and she frequently does the following, then dude! you need to be wise enough to know what you"ve lost or never will have.
1. she doesn't reply your messages
2. when she replies, its always short
3. when its not short, then she's making fun of you
4. she says "ok" even when its not applicable
5. she doesn't lol at your jokes
6. when you ask how she's doing, she replies OK and doesnt ask about you in return.
7. and she doesnt thank you when you appreciate her dp or write up
.....because you've seen her radiant smile, doesnt mean she wanted you to see it. she was probably smiling before sighting you or at your stupidity. The fact that she has a warm handshake doesn't mean her entire body is warming up to you. The reason she hasn't blocked you yet is because she is polite or doesn't want to explain herself cos she confronts you often. GET OVER IT!

No wonder

Mynd_44: No wonder

lol

geogeous: lol

I have been deceiving myself since with her

@gorgeous, in situations like this what do you think a guy should do? i have a lady i like but she 's portraying this kind of attitude towards me, infact exactly. but i 'm still trying to keep her perhaps one day she will like me in return.

I'm not a sage and i dont probably don't give the best of advice buh i think you should get a back up girl. so that if she doesn't ever come around you will do just fine without her. remember life is too short to be anyone's shadow.

Back-up girl! Egbe!!!

But girls do all these when they want to play hard to get

But my cousin does this with me ooooo. I thought it was cos of the money she owes me but now I know she just hates my guts

geogeous: I'm not a sage and i dont probably don't give the best of advice buh i think you should get a back up girl. so that if she doesn't ever come around you will do just fine without her. remember life is too short to be anyone's shadow.

Some guys still wouldn't get it. Okay, Here is a sample.

You: Hi gorgeous
Her: Hey.
You: How was your day dear?
Her:
You: Awww, Why the long face?
Her:
You: Okay, what happen to you?
Her: Nothing.
You: Have I offended you?
Her: No
You: I'm so sorry dear if I did.
Her: k
You: I'm serious!
Her: k
You: So, I'm I forgiven?
Her: k
You: Haba, say something now.
Her: later

Ceasar1: Some guys still wouldn't get it. Okay, Here is a sample.

You: Hi gorgeous
Her: Hey.
You: How was your day dear?
Her:
You: Awww, Why the long face?
Her:
You: Okay, what happen to you?
Her: Nothing.
You: Have I offended you?
Her: No
You: I'm so sorry dear if I did.
Her: k
You: I'm serious!
Her: k
You: So, I'm I forgiven?
Her: k
You: Haba, say something now.
Her: later

Ouch

That's why i like myself.. i don give a fvck about such girls.. My strategy is, whenever a girl replies mee with "'k, yup, etc, i will insult the hell out of her intentionally (but 2 some extent). Either she insult me back or she would want 2 find out d reason why i insulted her, atleast dah would mak her type longer words.....as d conversation continue i will apologised,and we will become best of friends.. The goodnews is she now knows that you don't give ah fvck about her... It works like hell....

Neldrizzy: That's why i like myself.. i don give a fvck about such girls.. My strategy is, whenever a girl replies mee with "'k, yup, etc, i will insult the hell out of her intentionally (but 2 some extent). Either she insult me back or she would want 2 find out d reason why i insulted her, atleast dah would mak her type longer words.....as d conversation continue i will apologised,and we will become best of friends.. The goodnews is she now knows that you don't give ah fvck about her... It works like hell....

lol!

Dygeasy: lol!

i tell you mehnnnn.. It works liek hell..