Sleekydee: in her defence....she claimed if she had told him, he wouldnt av allowed her...

sexymoma: The husband should stand his ground as the head of the family.
He should tell her if she still want to remain in his house she should sell the mansion.
He shouldn't bother about the amount she wants to sell it.
He should just make sure she sold the mansion.
He shouldn't even bother seeing the document of the mansion.




Divorce Is Not An Option.

Sleekydee: well am particularly more interested in whose name d documents of d house hold....if its d man's name, no lele...if its bth of dier names, good idea...but if its her name, wHala dey b dt

pickabeau1:


Most cases, The woman is reacting to something... which you may not know except you are the man in question

Akaraoku$:
@ OP: I feel differently about this cos sometimes we women see things our husbands may not be seeing at a time in terms of foresight. It is possible the woman had good intentions about the said property which can ONLY be confirmed if the property documents were purchased with both names(Mr+Mrs).
It is also possible, the husband has displayed some character trait that made the woman take such decision in the unlikely event that the document titles were registered in the woman's name only. Eg the man's affinity to cultural dogmas(in some cultures in Igbo Land the man's people take over his properties including the woman in the case of death of spouse eg Abiriba, Ohafia people, it could be the man has a child out of wedlock, it could be infidelity of the past etc etc
All in all, i believe in marriage two have become one and there should be openess and transparency to the core. The reason i dont believe in 50-50%, 70-30% ish ratios/boundaries people keep setting in thier homes. Both of your pockets are one regardless of who earns more!!QED
Give the best in your marriage and hope for the best! As a child of God i do not believe in preparing for the worst,YES i am naive like that even if if such a situation God forbid arises God will surely FIGHT for me and man dares not contend with God's anointed.
kapish

pickabeau1: Now you are providing more info


She wants them to sell the house. This is not necessary.. They can complete it and rent or sell

Not inviting the inlaws may mean she is not on good terms with them

Sleekydee:



well she doesnt seem 2 like dem in a way....which appears quit strange because no 1 has anyting against her.....

sexymoma: That is why it's not too good for a woman to be more wealthy than her hubby.... e too dey shark dem. why does she want to build a house when they are already building a family house

lady gogo: kulyie? where you dey get all these pisures?

bluuu: kulyie!!.u don dey do photography now abi wey u dey put ur clients pishures for NL

Sleekydee:

.dt dey shud move into her ous n sell dt one

sexymoma: The husband should stand his ground as the head of the family.
He should tell her if she still want to remain in his house she should sell the mansion.
He shouldn't bother about the amount she wants to sell it.
He should just make sure she sells the mansion.
He shouldn't even bother seeing the document of the mansion.




Divorce Is Not An Option.