Some of you,your relationship is going on smoothly, you are living happily and enjoying every moment until you deliberately choose to destroy it with your own hands by digging in areas where you are not suppose to dig,you start snoozing around your partners phone details,worrying over the password on their phone, checking their pockets and bags just to find something, you read meaning into their activities, suspecting them when they cough, wondering why you've not fought since they say there's no relationship without a fight, you just start looking for faults in them and creating fights just to make it look like its now a relationship.

"To you looking for fault is you making sure they are not cheating on you" forgetting that despite the fact that these things you are digging up have been there but yet you were happy with them.. Because you've chosen to start digging up things you should ordinarily overlook,every little thing becomes an evidence,you start noticing your partner isn't calling you like they suppose to of which they've been calling before your digging, you start noticing that he has to buy you ice cream or take you out on a date if he truly loves you, he hasn't been taking you out on dates but yet you were both happy but because you've choosen to dig is why you noticed he hasn't been doing so the way you think he should.

Why have you choosen to destroy yourself by digging up issues which are meant to be overlooked. When you dig up issues it will only create undue tension,you don't dig up issues just to make sure your partner isn't cheating on you when issues are dug it only leads to suspicion,infighting,worry and baseless accusations which will gradually destroy the happiness you've always had. Let the sleeping dog lie.. Always overlook what is meant to be overlooked if you want to sustain a better relationship,don't think something is wrong if your relationship is going on smoothly. Avoid self destruction and undue suspicion.

Ehn ehn
So u mean I don't have the right to my partners phone?
Its cos of d trouble I wanna mk that's why I will snoop
He will explain to me bits to bits cos he's agressively jealous too

love gone sour