Tpoup,

From the first time i read your post, I had this inference that you must have problem with men, i.e. you will not easily get your self adjusted to a guy. I felt you have broken up well.

How many hands have you changed?

When women have this I dont care attitude, If he doesnt want, let him go to hell now.

That is an attitude of a divorcee wife.

Relationship is a task that takes the two involved taking responsibility to make sure it works.

When there is an issue work it out together.

Try a few of these and may you may be fixed up(assuming you are not exceeding the age limit)

@ Forbidden.

True talk!

Onyinye,

You see, nairaland is not a forum for baby class where every kid makes their own rhythm.

Most times I discover you just reply off point to a topic. You absolutely have not had experiences in life and should really let people tell you.

Better still, stop winding aloof and come into the circle so you can see for yourself.

Learning and reasoning can never be subjective.

Some how we seem to have more prepared women than men. A woman is a cost centre and would on the average not worry about income.

A man without good income would not worry about marriage. Worse still is a situation where good pocket men are on the look out for gold diggers that disguise as good wives.

It is complique.

forbidden5:

Onyinye,

You see, nairaland is not a forum for baby class where every kid makes their own rhythm.

Most times I discover you just reply off point to a topic. You absolutely have not had experiences in life and should really let people tell you.

Better still, stop winding aloof and come into the circle so you can see for yourself.

Learning and reasoning can never be subjective.

Some how we seem to have more prepared women than men. A woman is a cost centre and would on the average not worry about income.

A man without good income would not worry about marriage. Worse still is a situation where good pocket men are on the look out for gold diggers that disguise as good wives.

It is complique.

r u married?

chikend

why do you want to know if i am married?

forbidden5:

chikend

why do you want to know if i am married?

you know now!

d way u talk and all.

No,
I am not married.

Single and seriously searching. I learn a lot about live then I share what I think I have observed.

be good
Men are not scarce

@ post

For where? Nor be men dey Ghana, Pakistan, Iran, India, GB, ect, ?

I'D say YES - in the sense that a good, faithful man is in the minority. Very much the same way a good, virtuous woman is becoming an endangered species.
It is also with some disappointment that one observes that being a good guy doesn't necessarily qualify you to get a good girl & vice versa.
     May God help us.

WELL,,,,, all of the above

MEN ARE SCARCE. . . PERIOD!

I hav com 2 accept a sad,sad truth-men r like parking spaces,d good ones r al taken.
Back 2 d topic,i dnt tink gud men r scarce,its jst dat a lot of gud grls,lik urs truly,hav had d mis4tune of meetin d rong ppl.most of d time,some women dnt evn knw wat dey want,i mean dey go into a r/ship wit pre-conceived ideas,dey hv dis image in dia heads of a perfect guy & a perfect r/ship & wen tins dnt wrk out dat way,dey quit,losin som1 who might hv bn dia mr. right.

nope, just that good ones just like good people generally are scarce

ima1: men are not scarce, all ready made men are scarce n thats what most women are looking for, they want to reap where they did not sow.

touche!

The kind of replies some of the guys are giving on this thread trully shows that real men are scarce. Men are not scarce, they are everywhere. But responsible, intelligent and focused men are not too many. Sad