If you found out that your current boy/girlfriend's last relationship ended because they had cheated on their ex, would you stay with them regardless, or would you be afraid to trust them?

Is there a reason they could give that you might accept?

boyfriend cheat??
i will walk out stra8
once a cheat always a cheat

what happens if u are the reason she/he cheated on the "ex"?
@syren how u dey?

You should ask them the reason behind the cheating and avoid that same pitfall.

doe82:

what happens if u are the reason she/he cheated on the "ex"?
@syren how u dey?

Then your in big trouble because what goes around comes around.  

Hi doe i'm ok, but im not well at the moment.

Hope you're ok?

sistawoman:

You should ask them the reason behind the cheating and avoid that same pitfall.

There's no garauntee they wont cheat on you, but I guess it's possible, If they were feeling neglected in their previous relationship.

eya
ope ur new job isnt stressfull, been like a century since we met last online
ve u 4gotten what we agreed?

syren:

There's no garauntee they wont cheat on you, but I guess it's possible, If they were feeling neglected in their previous relationship.

neglected?, dont really understand

syren:

There's no garauntee they wont cheat on you, but I guess it's possible, If they were feeling neglected in their previous relationship.

Or the d,ck was just small. Men with overdrawn d,ck accounts will always get cheated on.

doe82:

eya
ope your new job isnt stressfull, been like a century since we met last online
ve u 4gotten what we agreed?

It is a little, its far from where I live so the travelling is tiring and i'm not eating well but I like the job though so i'm not complaining.

doe82:

neglected?, don't really understand

neglected as in, their partner was too busy with their career or other things and wasn't spending enough time with them. Then someone else comes along who they'd be much happier with, so they cheat.  

sistawoman:


Or the d,ck was just small. Men with overdrawn d,ck accounts will always get cheated on.

sistawoman:


Or the d,ck was just small. Men with overdrawn d,ck accounts will always get cheated on.

Lol, reason being "he just didn't measure up"  

syren:



It is a little, its far from where I live so the travelling is tiring and i'm not eating well but I like the job though so i'm not complaining.

u ll come over it wt time, the most important thing is the passion u have for the job

syren:



neglected as in, their partner was too busy with their career or other things and wasn't spending enough time with them. Then someone else comes along who they'D be much happier with, so they cheat.

Whose fault?these are some of the details u consider before going in in the first place, when u dont get the basis rigth u ll surely hit the rocks

thanx, doey what did we agree?

doe82:

Whose fault?these are some of the details u consider before going in in the first place, when u don't get the basis rigth u ll surely hit the rocks

Maybe, but their relationship could have been great at the start and then things went bad, isn't that how these things happen?

syren:

If you found out that your current boy/girlfriend's last relationship ended because they had cheated on their ex, would you stay with them regardless, or would you be afraid to trust them?

Is there a reason they could give that you might accept?

If she cheated in her last relationship. . . . .many factors coulda been responsible so u can't hang a babe for that!!!
I don't really care what a babe has dipped her hands into in the past. . . . I care about what she does WHILE WITH ME.

doe82:

Whose fault?these are some of the details u consider before going in in the first place, when u don't get the basis rigth u ll surely hit the rocks

What if they flip the script on you after? What if they pull the ole bait and switch sceame?

Hannibal:

If she cheated in her last relationship. . . . .many factors coulda been responsible so u can't hang a babe for that!!!
I don't really care what a babe has dipped her hands into in the past. . . . I care about what she does WHILE WITH ME.

 I trust you  

Doesn't matter if she cheated . . . that's the past . . . she may have changed. As long as she's not cheating on me, I really won't trip off of that. Like someone said, I could be the person she was cheating on him with.

How Do I Know He/She Wont Cheat On Me Too?

Even if she's a saint ever since she's been born. . . . . . . .I still would not trust her!. . .
Let alone someone who has cheated before. . . . . . . . .Lai Lai!

Hmmm it's not a good sign if they've cheated before but there are never any gaurantees no matter who your with. Atleast then you know what to expect.

Just because she cheated before dosent mean she'd do it agian. Infact if the last r/ship ended cos she cheated, I'm sure she has learnt her lesson by now, so the probability of doing it again is very slim.

Who does not cheat?

Abeg, all this disciples of I will send him packing should please sit down somewhere jare.

For every action, there is always a reason behind it, whether it be cogent or senseless, the fact is, there should always be room for understanding each other.

Som1 said somtin abt findin out d reason 4 cheatin and try 2 avoid d same pitfall.u see,dats d problem wit many relationships 2day.d faithful partner tries 2 make excuses for d cheater just so he/she wont hav 2 deal wit d fact dat d cheater(who in most cases is d guy)is an irresponsible oaf.d trut of d matter is dat there is no justification 4 cheatin.if u have a problem wit me,do d mature & responsible tin,com to me & talk it out.if dat dont work out,den take a walk.and if i find out dat u brok up wit som1 because of cheatin,den i'l tak a walk.once a cheat,always a cheat.

Pataki:

Who does not cheat?

Abeg, all this disciples of I will send him packing should please sit down somewhere jare.

For every action, there is always a reason behind it, whether it be cogent or senseless, the fact is, there should always be room for understanding each other.

i already gueesed you will say something like that

tope2000:

i already guessed you will say something like that

I am saying the truth as it is.

syren:

thanx, doey what did we agree?

we agreed that u ll slow down and take things one step at a time!

syren:

Maybe, but their relationship could have been great at the start and then things went bad, isn't that how these things happen?

yes it happens,but if pple learn how to look b4 they leak, it ll b avoided to a large extent

doe82:

we agreed that u ll slow down and take things one step at a time!

ok, I'm trying to do that now, but its not easy.

How's life?

life is good!
been like a century!!!

cheatin only occurs in game, what you should say is how do i know he/she wont want to see other people other than me.

doe82:

life is good!
been like a century!!!

what does that mean?

well u sound happy so that's nice to hear.