I am a young man in port harcourt and i want to know if it is wrong for a guy to be in love with his fellow guys.I am always in love with my fellow guy.

You are gay

What's wrong in admiring sm1?Whether he/she is same sex wit you doesn't count.

I admire my pastor's lifestyle

I think admiring someone is different from being attracted to them sexually

Quit hiding in the closet, As soon as u accept you are gay then its OK to admire your fellow guy

dudu-bobo:

I admire my pastor's lifestyle

I think admiring someone is different from being attracted to them sexually

Tell 'em jare.

Pple jst have a way of linking sex to errtyn.What's wrong in admiring smtin in sm1 that is of same sex wit u?Nah wah!

tope2000:

Quit hiding in the closet, As soon as u accept you are gay then its OK to admire your fellow guy

Na wa for you! There are certain trhings I do not understand. Why is it a crime to say wat is good when one sees it esp here in the UK. If you see a guy with a nice haircut, and you guy i dig that your cut, you will seen as gay. I like your suit, you are gay. why? In nigeria you could tell a girl you look cute with no closet intention but here such is seen as sexual overture.
I for one do not have even the slightest feeling for guy. I wonder why it is a crime say that something is good when one sees it.

Tope so if you see a beautiful and say she is beautiful or she dresses cute, it means you are lesbian? Girls do this and majority are far frombeing lesbo why should guys be termed gay cos they do what women are guilty of? Different strokes for different folks

mechengin:

I am a young man in port harcourt and i want to know if it is wrong for a guy to be in love with his fellow guys.I am always in love with my fellow guy.

Lol!

@Tope, you are a pretty girl but. . . I'm getting scared of you

mechengin:

I am a young man in port harcourt and i want to know if it is wrong for a guy to be in love with his fellow guys.I am always in love with my fellow guy.

young man who is lusting after another man's coc.k, and butthole is nothing but a coc.k slurping homo-thug!

Brash!:

young man who is lusting after another man's coc.k, and butthole is nothing but a coc.k slurping homo-thug!

Brap Brap!

dudu-bobo:

@Tope, you are a pretty girl but. . . I'm getting scared of you

lmao but why scared oo

agaba123:

Na wa for you! There are certain trhings I do not understand. Why is it a crime to say what is good when one sees it esp here in the UK. If you see a guy with a nice haircut, and you guy i dig that your cut, you will seen as gay. I like your suit, you are gay. why? In nigeria you could tell a girl you look cute with no closet intention but here such is seen as sexual overture.
I for one do not have even the slightest feeling for guy. I wonder why it is a crime say that something is good when one sees it.

Tope so if you see a beautiful and say she is beautiful or she dresses cute, it means you are lesbian? Girls do this and majority are far frombeing lesbo why should guys be termed gay because they do what women are guilty of? Different strokes for different folks

The poster just said he was in love with his fellow guy, abi u no read the poster's question very well

this dude is in love with another dude

he is gay

end of discussion

mechengin:

I am a young man in port harcourt and i want to know if it is wrong for a guy to be in love with his fellow guys.I am always in love with my fellow guy.

mechengin:

I am a young man in port harcourt and i want to know if it is wrong for a guy to be in love with his fellow guys.I am always in love with my fellow guy.

are u crazy ?

simply create a topic saying i need a Gay Lover simple.

Its not that you are crazy considering the situation of gays around the world but I dont think you will derive anything from loving your fellow man. you need to grow up.

As other posters have so eloquently mentioned,d OP said that not only was he in luv wit a fellow guy,he was always in luv wit his fellow guys.come on ppl,dat says it all;he's gay,or at least he's on his way 2 being gay.som ppl see bein gay as a matter of personal choice,i see it as a disease,an illness.OP, u need help! ur sexual orientation is nt yet clearly defined.Now is d tym 2 seek dat help!

i think the dude already knows the answer to the ques he is asking. he just wants confirmation so he can rest his demons

why would you hold hands with a fellow guy?

Why wouldn't a man hold hands wit a fellow man?

@ Missy B and Thomas85

are you both gay? What do you mean by what is wrong with guys holding hands. If you see your husband holding hands with another man, don't say anything about it, just encourage him to continue, very soon that hand he his holding will turn to something else and i hope you won't say we didnt tell you.
Its okay for girls to hold hands but guys, its totally unacceptable.

mechengin:

I am a young man in port harcourt and i want to know if it is wrong for a guy to be in love with his fellow guys.I am always in love with my fellow guy.

I'm guessing of none of y'all read the post. The title is totally not related to the topic. Forget about the admiration part, he said is it "wrong for a guy to be in love with his fellow guys"? That was just gay and I don't care what no one has to say about it.

bigboyslim:

@ Missy B
are you both gay?

Nah!!

bigboyslim:

@ Missy B
What do you mean by what is wrong with guys holding hands.

Exactly what i meant wen i said it.I repeat;What is wrong in a man holding another man's hand?
Don't you shake men/guyz?

bigboyslim:

@ Missy B
If you see your husband holding hands with another man, don't say anything about it, just encourage him to continue, very soon that hand he his holding will turn to something else and i hope you won't say we didnt tell you.
Its okay for girls to hold hands but guys, its totally unacceptable.

Why would i say anything simply bcuzz he's holdin a man's hand?Nah wa o.
If you are comfortable wit readin meanings into sm irrelevant things,kool but dnt encourage others to.

PS:If you're observant,you'll notice the poster has two ques der.One d heading and d other d body.Read ma first post on dis thread,i replied in reference to the heading.I still say there's nuttin wrong in admiring sm1 of same sex wit u.

@ topic

Yeah!

buh 2 an extent!!

anything deeper than mare admiration. . . . . . . una done turn gay b dat!!

LOL! I think there is a semantics problem here. I don't think the poster is saying he is in love with a guy, just that he likes them very well. Remember when you were young and your mind was still innocent, how you felt about your friend? I believe that's what OP mean.

@ Topic
Sadly, from the responses. . . it's obvious society does not allow guys will be free with their emotions for other guys, except guys who are really secure in their manhood like my brothers and their friends.

GUYS TAKE THE SHACKLES OFF YOUR FEET AND DECLARE YOUR GUY LOVE! ^{You'll feel better, trust me}


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lL4L4Uv5rf0

OP here, I got the lyrics for you and made the neccessary adjustment to fit your need. My comments are in the upper Subscript.

GUY LOVE
Let's face the facts about me and you, A love unspecified.
Though I'm proud to call you "Chocolate Bear,"
The crowd will always talk and stare.

I feel exactly those feelings, too
And that's why I keep them inside.
'Cause this bear can't bear the world's disdain,
And sometimes it's easier to hide,


Than explain our Guy love,
That's all it is, Guy love,
He's mine, I'm his,
There's nothing gay about it in our eyes.

You ask me 'bout this thing we share,
And he tenderly replies,
It's guy love Between two guys.

We're closer than the average man and wife,
That's why our matching bracelets say ^{[Your name and your guy friend's name]}
You know I'll stick by for the rest of my life.

You're the only man who's ever been inside of me.
Whoa, I just took out his apendix ^{(or however else he's been inside of you )}
There's no need to clarify,
Oh no?

Just let it grow more and more each day.
It's like I married my best friend,
But in a totally manly way.

Let's go! It's guy love, Don't compromise,
The *feeling* of some other guy,
Holding up your heart, Into the sky.

I'll be there to care through all the lows.
I'll be there to share the highs.

It's guy love, Between two guys.

And when I say, "I love you [insert friend's name here],"
It's not what it impies.

It's guy love Between Two Guys!!!!

Good Luck my brave Naija brother who is not afraid the express his love for another guy. God Bless you! 

I don't think the poster is saying he is in love with a guy, just that he likes them very well. Remember when you were young and your mind was still innocent, how you felt about your friend? I believe that's what OP mean.

Moremi, alias Senior Advocate, OP said he IS IN LOVE WITH A GUY, and you say thats not what he meant. Please tell me thats one of your sarcasm at work

Mechengin, your opening statement is muddy, please clarify.

fucking gay

Sisikill:

I don't think the poster is saying he is in love with a guy, just that he likes them very well.

What?! Are you being sarcastic again cause he clearly said he was "always in love with [his] fellow guy".

Sweetheart you are GAY! Its normal for a guy to admire another guy like ''man, i like your style where did you buy that shirt", or "dude how do you get d ladies flinging themselves at you" better yet, " man, you're so successful, gt a sexy wife how lucky can you get(then they laugh)" , thats manly admiration, bt being inlove like you are with other guys, uh uh, aint no beatin arnd the bush , you're gay!

Admiring and Loving are two different thing. Your topic say is it wrong to admire a guy, Then your stressed out explanation says you are in love with guys.




Thats gay, so You are Gay