Hey Guys.
I need serious help.
Men will not just leave me alone. I am tired.
Every now and then they keep coming and I know what they need.
Its obviously sex. Even guys from my office.
Am I now a sex symbol or what?
Gosh am confuse.
How do I handle them?

Go and have a plastic surgery.

Gosh, some cases on Nairaland sha. A woman that needs help in handling men who approach her - Others are looking for men to approach them and you're complaining? Dont let God work any miracles with u oh.

Seriously yeah,i think it's because u're beautiful. If u were f'ugly,i know very few men would approach ya. U just need to put ur head in the game,dont get carried away by the sweet nothings they tell u.

Hey dont be confused it's just the natural order of things It must mean u are beautiful enough to turn heads but I think u're responsible enough to make ur decisions about wat to do, Ignore most of them unless u're quite sure about their intentions and keep ur head High. U're so lucky

whitelexi:

Gosh, some cases on Nairaland sha. A woman that needs help in handling men who approach her - Others are looking for men to approach them and you're complaining? Dont let God work any miracles with u oh.

Buhahaha  

Bluesteps,Be happy and be glad u're beautiful!

tomaagy:

Hey don't be confused it's just the natural order of things It must mean u are beautiful enough to turn heads but I think u're responsible enough to make your decisions about what to do, Ignore most of them unless u're quite sure about their intentions and keep your head High. You're so lucky

.

nana:

Buhahaha  

Bluesteps,Be happy and be glad u're beautiful!

Which kind beautiful? Is it because she said so? Make she post picture naaa - even as a guy i go still fine pass am

Bluesteps:

Hey Guys.
I need serious help.
Men will not just leave me alone. I am tired.
Every now and then they keep coming and I know what they need.
Its obviously sex. Even guys from my office.
Am I now a sex symbol or what?
Gosh am confuse.
How do I handle them?

haha

u need serious help indeed if men now see u as an object of sex!!!

chei ur own don finish!!! _{doggy object}

tomaagy:

Hey don't be confused it's just the natural order of things It must mean u are beautiful enough to turn heads but I think u're responsible enough to make your decisions about what to do, Ignore most of them unless u're quite sure about their intentions and keep your head High.

well said

whitelexi:

Which kind beautiful? Is it because she said so? Make she post picture naaa - even as a guy i go still fine pass am

Nna mehn. No fall the babe's hand nah. Na encouragement she need o. If she post her pic for here,na kasala be that. I trust NL guys to start dropping their 080s

Brash!:


haha

u need serious help indeed if men now see u as an object of sex!!!

chei your own don finish!!! _{doggy object}

Brash!

nana:

Nna mehn. No fall the babe's hand nah. Na encouragement she need o. If she post her pic for here,na kasala be that. I trust Nairaland guys to start dropping their 080s

forget that thing, na today? No matter as u fine reach, no be to come dey pose for here oh, Nairaland has some outstanding beauties wey fine from the hair on their skin reach the nails of their toes

_{Confirmed oh, i have seen with my own 2 eyes}

@post

You are going to have to get over this. You will experience pretty much for majority of your life.
So just sit back, relax, and take it for its stride.

onyinye2:

@post

You are going to have to get over this. You will experience pretty much for majority of your life.
So just sit back, relax, and take it for its stride.

Point of correction - at 30 you will start to notice drastic changes

nana:

Brash!

Na me be dat oo NANA _{wetin dey shelle?}

i no wan yab too much today

whitelexi:

Point of correction - at 30 you will start to notice drastic changes

Errmmm. . . . . it depends on the lady. Some ladies can keep themselves looking good way up into their forties.

onyinye2:

Errmmm. . . . . it depends on the lady. Some ladies can keep themselves looking good way up into their forties.

Amen to that

Brash!:

Na me be that oo NANA _{wetin dey shelle?}

i no wan yab too much today

Nothing much o. How ur side?

whitelexi:

forget that thing, na today? No matter as u fine reach, no be to come dey pose for here oh, Nairaland has some outstanding beauties wey fine from the hair on their skin reach the nails of their toes

_{Confirmed oh, i have seen with my own 2 eyes}

True yarn

It has nothing to do with beauty but has everything to do with the fact that you are a woman and you have a vagina.

nana:


Nothing much o. How your side?

good o!
kicking it like m supposed to u know wat it is!
hope u had a safe wkend?!

Riskie:

It has nothing to do with beauty but had everything to do with the fact that you are a woman and you have a vagina.

Oh Gyal!  

Brash!:

good o!
kicking it like m supposed to u know what it is!
hope u had a safe wkend?!

Cool. Yeah,had a safe one bro'.

onyinye2:

Errmmm. . . . . it depends on the lady. Some ladies can keep themselves looking good way up into their forties.

Then why did u say "Rest of their lives"?

whitelexi:

Then why did u say "Rest of their lives"?

Quote me where i said this.

Riskie:

It has nothing to do with beauty but has everything to do with the fact that you are a woman and you have a vagina.

STRAIGHT UP!

nana:

Seriously yeah,i think it's because u're beautiful.

Is wah!!!
So because she's beautiful,men see her as sex object and run after her?
In another phrase,men see beautiful girls as sex object abi?

Poster
You may be beautiful but PHULEAZE tha's not the reason
men come after you jst because of sex.You must have appealed to them like a sex object.
Search urself and ur actions wen you're around guyz.

Missy B:

Poster
You may be beautiful but PHULEAZE tha's not the reason
men come after you jst because of sex.You must have appealed to them like a sex object.
Search yourself and your actions when you're around guys.

Sometimes it aint even what the woman is doing. Sometimes it all falls back into That there are men out there who act like over sexed hounds.

onyinye2:

Sometimes it aint even what the woman is doing. Sometimes it all falls back into That there are men out there who act like over sexed hounds.

It normal for guys to come after EVERY [/b]girl
and its also normal for some to have good intentions while others jst wanno get down
but when [b]EVERY guy that walks up to you wants JUST sex,there is a prob
and its certainly from the girl.

@poster
Let's go back a little and ask a few questions

To know if you've contributed to the whole thing
- Have you ever had sex with any of your colleagues (Believe me, stories spread)
- If yes, was it a one-night stand?
- Do these men act the same way towards other women in your place of work?


- Do they make it obvious that what they want is sex? (Or how did you figure out that they jst want to get you laid)
- Do they actually harass you sexually (We could be talking bout how to make money here )
- Have you in any way implied anything that might trigger this behaviour?

Missy B:

It normal for guys to come after EVERY [/b]girl
and its also normal for some to have good intentions while others jst wanno get down
but when [b]EVERY guy that walks up to you wants JUST sex,there is a prob
and its certainly from the girl.

You've got a point there. . . . . it is either she is wearing very provocative clothing or she is hanging around the wrong folk/area.

onyinye2:

You've got a point there. . . . . it is either she is wearing very provocative clothing or she is hanging around the wrong folk/area.

At times we do things witout knowing it
till we are corrected.She might jst be showing dem green light
witout knowing it.And her dress sense has a role to play as well.

@bluesteps _{everfing about you is provocative,even ur username sef}
Remember the saying! "she lived a virgin she died a vvirgin, what she could not give to man ,she gave to maggots"


why cant you give to ceasar what belongs to ceasar