crious:

we like the man who can not only cater to our bodies n our hearts, but most importantly, our needs.

sistawoman:

enough said!!!!!!

Love does not pay the bills

topup:

Well, you may be right about them!
All I'll say is a girl needs finance, support, without someone bringing home the bacon for her how else is she able to maintain herself?

However.

A woman is a whole different case. A real woman, is independent, and doesn't live off anybody, she is willing to compromise for the sake of family etc,
But she is resourceful and can support herself, she is her own person and if she is committing herself into a relationship she would rather much prefer to add to the man's life rather than subtract.

I advise you quit wasting your time with the girls and look for a real woman

topup:

Well, you may be right about them!
All I'll say is a girl needs finance, support, without someone bringing home the bacon for her how else is she able to maintain herself?

However.

A woman is a whole different case. A real woman, is independent, and doesn't live off anybody, she is willing to compromise for the sake of family etc,
But she is resourceful and can support herself, she is her own person and if she is committing herself into a relationship she would rather much prefer to add to the man's life rather than subtract.

I advise you quit wasting your time with the girls and look for a real woman

sistawoman:

I agree but the reality is I am not going to support a man.  I have and will always work.  I will always take care of my children and myself but will not consider a man if he has nothing to offer or bring to the table.  So finances do count.

@OP

We evaluate many things when looking for our mate.  Money management is one of those things.  [b]If you have no mone[/b]y to mange then we can't evaluate you on that, thus making you ineligible.

Caliente:


[size=13pt]I wasn't implying not having money rather having money and not giving it. This thread was written to balance another thread https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-166768.0.html
Just like you can't stand 'no finance' some guys can't stand 'no sex'
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sistawoman:


my bad

victorian:

its impossible to have romance without finance, do you know that even to send love text message , few minutes phone calls of "i love you", "miss ya" costs money especially in nija. and with the high transport fares staring at us! and top of that we have to look good, smell good, for God's sake it cost money!!

[size=13pt]So. . .? If nobody is in your romance radar you won't look good and smell good? [/size]

hunniebomb:

@ mesmya: abi o
no more surulere for romance, na olorunshogo. 

why do girls confuse romance with finance?