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Why Do Girls Confuse Romance With Finance? by Caliente(m): 10:40am On Sep 04, 2008 |
[size=13pt]I've come across many girls who claim they love romance and practically show how much, but as soon as they don't smell the word ''FINANCE'', they try everything possible to get it or otherwise and when ythey FAIL, their so called romance turns into vengeance. Then inevitably, ways part. Isnt it possible to have a romance without finance or is finance the underlying meaning of romance? *sound familiar?* [/size] |
Re: Why Do Girls Confuse Romance With Finance? by Baxilexi(m): 12:11pm On Sep 04, 2008 |
finance + romance = potential fiance. |
Re: Why Do Girls Confuse Romance With Finance? by crious: 1:43pm On Sep 04, 2008 |
then it ain't real, its just for the fun of it. |
Re: Why Do Girls Confuse Romance With Finance? by Busta(f): 1:48pm On Sep 04, 2008 |
Not in the year 2008 |
Re: Why Do Girls Confuse Romance With Finance? by crious: 1:54pm On Sep 04, 2008 |
we like the man who can not only cater to our bodies n our hearts, but most importantly, our needs. |
Re: Why Do Girls Confuse Romance With Finance? by sistawoman: 2:29pm On Sep 04, 2008 |
crious: enough said!!!!!! Love does not pay the bills |
Re: Why Do Girls Confuse Romance With Finance? by ikamefa(f): 2:41pm On Sep 04, 2008 |
sistawoman: that is to say: aint no romance without finance |
Re: Why Do Girls Confuse Romance With Finance? by topup: 3:08pm On Sep 04, 2008 |
Well, you may be right about them! All I'll say is a girl needs finance, support, without someone bringing home the bacon for her how else is she able to maintain herself? However. A woman is a whole different case. A real woman, is independent, and doesn't live off anybody, she is willing to compromise for the sake of family etc, But she is resourceful and can support herself, she is her own person and if she is committing herself into a relationship she would rather much prefer to add to the man's life rather than subtract. I advise you quit wasting your time with the girls and look for a real woman |
Re: Why Do Girls Confuse Romance With Finance? by ikamefa(f): 3:13pm On Sep 04, 2008 |
topup: i agree a real woman no matter how independent she is, would not be looking for a man she has to spoon-feed in any area! she wants a man who has " it " together too. |
Re: Why Do Girls Confuse Romance With Finance? by sistawoman: 3:19pm On Sep 04, 2008 |
topup: I agree but the reality is I am not going to support a man. I have and will always work. I will always take care of my children and myself but will not consider a man if he has nothing to offer or bring to the table. So finances do count. @OP We evaluate many things when looking for our mate. Money management is one of those things. If you have no money to mange then we cant evaluate you on that, thus making you ineligible. |
Re: Why Do Girls Confuse Romance With Finance? by Caliente(m): 4:14pm On Sep 04, 2008 |
sistawoman: [size=13pt]I wasn't implying not having money rather having money and not giving it. This thread was written to balance another thread https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-166768.0.html Just like you can't stand 'no finance' guys can't stand 'no sex' [/size] |
Re: Why Do Girls Confuse Romance With Finance? by iice(f): 4:26pm On Sep 04, 2008 |
People in general like confusing stuffs. |
Re: Why Do Girls Confuse Romance With Finance? by sistawoman: 4:42pm On Sep 04, 2008 |
Caliente: my bad |
Re: Why Do Girls Confuse Romance With Finance? by victorian(f): 4:57pm On Sep 04, 2008 |
its impossible to have romance without finance, do you know that even to send love text message , few minutes phone calls of "i love you", "miss ya" costs money especially in nija. and with the high transport fares staring at us! and top of that we have to look good, smell good, for God's sake it cost money!! |
Re: Why Do Girls Confuse Romance With Finance? by Caliente(m): 4:59pm On Sep 04, 2008 |
sistawoman: [size=13pt]Now you know[/size] |
Re: Why Do Girls Confuse Romance With Finance? by Nautillus(m): 5:02pm On Sep 04, 2008 |
Dude, THE CHICs knw the difference (Trust Me). . .BUT . . .They ALWAYS want TO combine IT . .& the actually have a sixth sense Sniffing at the Loot. |
Re: Why Do Girls Confuse Romance With Finance? by Caliente(m): 5:09pm On Sep 04, 2008 |
victorian: [size=13pt]So. . .? If nobody is in your romance radar you won't look good and smell good? [/size] |
Re: Why Do Girls Confuse Romance With Finance? by ssRhino: 5:11pm On Sep 04, 2008 |
No finance, No romance. How u gonna romance a woman without money? |
Re: Why Do Girls Confuse Romance With Finance? by victorian(f): 6:37pm On Sep 04, 2008 |
@ poster, of course i will look good , smell good even without a romance in my radar. But . lets say, am still a student and i have a dad and mum, who takes charge of their responsibilty of making me look good at all times. So, is it then bad /wierd to expect the guy am dating to spend on me, like going out to nice restaurants, movie spots, recreational places that you will have no choice than to SPEND THAT MONEY! Or you expect the girl to just watch other guyz buy things for thier babes with all sense of delight at such fun spots? While she mope around, or with shameface spend her own money, while you are there ? C'mon stop being selfish and take care of your responsibility. Because its the guy responsibilty since he started the wooing game and most probably sleep with her some times , if not most times thank God, my boyfriend is not like that. |
Re: Why Do Girls Confuse Romance With Finance? by hunniebomb(f): 4:00pm On Sep 05, 2008 |
its easy: for better for stay for worse for go that should be added to the vows. lol |
Re: Why Do Girls Confuse Romance With Finance? by Nobody: 4:07pm On Sep 05, 2008 |
no money no love |
Re: Why Do Girls Confuse Romance With Finance? by hunniebomb(f): 4:12pm On Sep 05, 2008 |
@ mesmya: abi o no more surulere for romance, na olorunshogo. |
Re: Why Do Girls Confuse Romance With Finance? by k1banty(m): 4:14pm On Sep 05, 2008 |
Money! Money!! Money!!! the root of a solid foundation for a long lasting romance. Make sure you have enough to last a life time and you won't have much problem. |
Re: Why Do Girls Confuse Romance With Finance? by k1banty(m): 4:16pm On Sep 05, 2008 |
money can buy love money can buy happiness (from 50% happiness and above, do u really have to be 100% happy? ) money can build dreams. money! money!! money!!! and some women don't care about the source of such money. It's a strange world |
Re: Why Do Girls Confuse Romance With Finance? by Scopium: 4:59pm On Sep 05, 2008 |
[size=13pt]. . . . even if you were broke, my love don't cost a thing. [/size] |
Re: Why Do Girls Confuse Romance With Finance? by Nobody: 5:07pm On Sep 05, 2008 |
hunniebomb: my sister tell them jare who wan suffer?who no like berra thing? |
Re: Why Do Girls Confuse Romance With Finance? by superstan(m): 6:44pm On Sep 05, 2008 |
they are confused because the two words end with "ance". |
Re: Why Do Girls Confuse Romance With Finance? by victorian(f): 9:16pm On Sep 05, 2008 |
yeah,of course its money! Tell me have you seen a poor guy who has caring friends, NONE! Even guys themselves don't like associating with a broke-assed/ stingy guy. So, guys don't blame money issues on babes alone,most guys are guilty of this so called MONEY ISSUE. |
Re: Why Do Girls Confuse Romance With Finance? by gentysho(m): 12:53pm On Sep 06, 2008 |
money to many is everything, that is not good for relationship sha |
Re: Why Do Girls Confuse Romance With Finance? by victorian(f): 2:27pm On Sep 06, 2008 |
i know its not good and it shouldnt be the basis for relationships, but different strokes for different folks. |
Re: Why Do Girls Confuse Romance With Finance? by woodboi(m): 4:48pm On Sep 07, 2008 |
victorian seems you have extra passion for money, no hard feeling what you see is what you get. but let try to see each other as one,since we both need one another. |
Re: Why Do Girls Confuse Romance With Finance? by victorian(f): 9:34pm On Sep 07, 2008 |
woodboi, i have passion to want to live a great life and i know it takes vision,hardwork, dedication,and creativity to become sucessfully financially and live such lifestyle. I am a very realistic person but reasonable in spending money, i have a good job that satisfies most of my needs but i believe that a man should take care of his responsibilty financially when it pertains to his lover/wife even if she is financially stable or not. I have two brothers and i notice between them and their friends, that anytime they are broke , their friends disappear, guys O! but when they have dough, the same guys troop around, why? I also notice that most guys are so lazy to think and create a better plan for their lives. Instead, they groan everyday that their is no job and that babes demand too much. I agree some greedy babes do demand so much , its crazy. But guys in naija should step up and come up wiht a realistic plan to be producers of labour, hence bettering the lives of other people; which will result to living a comfortable lifestyle instead of groaning about greedy babes, Even upon my materialism , i can't marry a man if i don't love him for who he is and not what he is. and its the honest truth. |
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