You dated him/her for long and still remained friends after break up but lo, he/she invited you to his/her wedding. Will you attend that wedding especially when his/her significant other knew about you?

Apart from attendance, if he/she asks for your help in his/her wedding preparation, will you oblige?

Of course not. What use is there me coming? I have better things to do then wage in the past.

Of course not. What use is there me coming? I have better things to do then wage in the past.

Even when you were the person that broke up with him and he invited you specially to the wedding?

i can never attend an ex's wedding,unless the bride is ugly

i can never attend an ex's wedding,[b]unless the bride is ugl[/b]y

Roflmao; That means you are going there to mock them.

No.

I will definitely attend. The fact that we've broken up for a considerable period of time indicates that we have both moved on and I see no reason why I shouldnt want to attend a friend's wedding. But i'm a guy anyway. I guess ladies tend to see things differently in these circumstances

Hell to de big NO
What for

Assuming it was convenient for you to attend but you still refused, could it be because you haven't gotten over him and is hating on his bride? Why the "hell to the BIG no" which literally means that nothing on earth will make you attend that wedding?

No.

What if he's marrying your blood relation who hooked up with him without any knowledge that you were involved with him?

DeepZone:

Even when you were the person that broke up with him and he invited you specially to the wedding?

Don't really care. Better off doing something productive.

onyinye2:

Don't really care. Better off doing something productive.

I smell some bitterness in your post. The question clearly states that after your break up you and the ex maitained a cordial relationship before the invite. Does his friendship not mean anything to you?

Don't really care. Better off doing something productive.

arrrghhhrrh , attending wedding is no more productive? But, you will attend other weddings even though you were supposed to be doing something productive?

Will you rather attend his funeral?

@DeepZone: yes to mock them

@DeepZone: yes to mock them

LOLOL, actually an EX invited me to his wedding this evening but i don't know his bride. Something is telling me not to go, but on a second thought, I said, what d heck. We've been friends after the break up and it wasn't his fault that we broke up either.

DeepZone:

arrrghhhrrh , attending wedding is no more productive? But, you will attend other weddings even though you were supposed to be doing something productive?

I usely only go to weddings for the cake and the leisure.

bigboyslim:

I smell some bitterness in your post. The question clearly states that after your break up you and the ex maitained a cordial relationship before the invite. Does his friendship not mean anything to you?

All friendships have boundaries.

DeepZone:

Assuming it was convenient for you to attend but you still refused

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could it be because you haven't gotten over him

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Btw, that wedding will not be taking place,if i still have feeling towards him
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hating on his bride?

Why hate on his bride, i got no business with her or their relationship

Why the "hell to the BIG no" which literally means that nothing on earth will make you attend that wedding?

[size=13pt]Sweetie it all about principles.
It does matter if our relationship ended on a good or note

Got a question for you
Would you invite your EX to your wedding[/size]

DeepZone:

LOLOL, actually an EX invited me to his wedding this evening but i don't know his bride. Something is telling me not to go, but on a second thought, I said, what d heck. We've been friends after the break up and it wasn't his fault that we broke up either.

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Even if it wasn't the guy faults i would still never go, i might be paranoid i would think his friends/relatives were talking about me, its worst when you are still single.

Got a question for you
Would you invite your EX to your wedding

That will be my greatest wish whether we broke up peacefully or not as long as he'll not be violent there.

Btw, that wedding will not be taking place,if i still have feeling towards him

e fit take placeooo.

DeepZone:

That will be my greatest wish whether we broke up peacefully or not as long as he'll not be violent there.

[size=13pt]more grace to your elbow[/size]

Even if it wasn't the guy faults i would still never go, i might be paranoid i would think his friends/relatives were talking about me, its worst when you are still single.

Now you are coming clean. Will you go with your guy especially if your new guy is tighter than your EX?

more grace to your elbow

Thank You.

Yes i would

Even when he's marrying a close relation that didn't know about your relationship with him?

DeepZone:

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e fit take placeooo.

[size=13pt]Lai Lai, i go kidnap him before his wedding
Take him somewhere he will never find his way back home
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DeepZone:

What if he's marrying your blood relation who hooked up with him without any knowledge that you were involved with him?

There's no inbetween with my extended family. They're either too old or too young so it's not possible

DeepZone:

Now you are coming clean. Will you go with your guy especially if your new guy is tighter than your EX?

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I will with the new guy, and i'll make sure i'll be looking hot so that his friends/relatives he would see what he missed out on,

Lai Lai, i go kidnap him before his wedding
Take him somewhere he will never find his way back home

That is if you know his house. He may be dodging you if he suspects you are scorned and may scatter his wedding. Pray tell he won't be marrying me because i'll still fight you in my wedding gown.

tRoOE:

[size=13pt]Lai Lai, i go kidnap him before his wedding
Take him somewhere he will never find his way back home
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take am easy now,there are too many fishes in the river

There's no inbetween with my extended family. They're either too old or too young so it's not possible

Both paternal and maternal?

DeepZone:

LOLOL, actually an EX invited me to his wedding this evening but i don't know his bride. Something is telling me not to go, but on a second thought, I said, what d heck. We've been friends after the break up and it wasn't his fault that we broke up either.

What a trusting ex.
People have been known to put "otapia pia" in the refreshments if they were jilted.

What a trusting ex.
People have been known to put "otapia pia" in the refreshments if they were jilted.

I guess he knows how I am but even at that, i'm a little bit concerned and felt somehow after the invitation.

@Bold

Depends.Does the wife want me there?

I believe ettiquette would say NO.

This is an intimate affair and the ex has no place there.