Thank God say e no dey serious. Say them no talk of DNA.

Na wa oh! Children are not properties like cars or TV. God gave both parents the priviledge of looking after the children in this life, so I'd say both mother and father have responsibility for children and one is no more important than the other.

of course very one know is the father

please pardon

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it reli funny, because i knw a couple that does that as well,
neway, they both own d kids, there d nufin u can say bout that,
as a mum u can say i carried him/her for 9 month n brough 'em up,
as a dad u can say, they bear my surname, but to be honest a family is a family if they stick
together n be 1 n show sum love so that the kids can be better ppl in future, n that i wnt affect the kids in future,

nw to d beatin, i personally wnt beat my kids because thats is what they will think is right, d boy will grow up n beat his
wife because he thinks its right, or d girl becomes a wife n dsnt fear d hubby, or shows respect,

however my point they both own d kids no matte what,

Na mama get the children when they grow but whe they are kids,na papa get them.when they start making money,then mama will know that they are her children alone,she carried them for months,but when they were been trained,paying of bills,,na papa get them.this is by the way.
The man should just send his wife home and marry another wife or stay single for now on after all he has tested both sides of that thing, so we can now know who get the children.
That woman na she make me never marry till date

The woman owns the children, if she decides that she wants the man to share in owning the children she will say you are the father of my children they are also your children,

a child belongs to both parents but since im the mother i own the child more than the father untill he or she turns 18 .period.

it takes the egg n a sperm to produce a baby. therefore biologically both mother and father own the child. spiritually none own the child, they are just caretakers assigned by God who is the real owner of the child.

bluntpis - true talk

hey,
My submission is that both of them owns the child, period!

NOBODY OWNS THE CHILD!!!
this is why children end up being the losers in divorce or break up situations because both parents use them as a bargaining chip or to get at the other party not thinking about the children as individuals, according to my religion GOD owns the child and the parents are only temporarily responsible for the upkeep

God owns the child, they are both caretakers

nobody owns any child, even d law tries 2 make us know dis, if there is an issue of who is 2 take custody of a child, d law usually considers who is more capable of taking care of the child in terms of safety and comfort. it does not try to find who owns d child. nobody owns any child that is why u have are punished if u kill a child, b'cos u don't own him

If the boot got married, any child the give birth to, will bear the name of the father as a surname. If they seperated, the child still belong to the father of the child, niether Boy or girl.

Thanks.

well the case of ownership or preference is only valid till the child is 18years, then he owns himself.

both parents have joint but as-symmetric responsibilities to the the child

The father.