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| Would You Marry a Spouse like your Father or Mother? by Matthewbriggs(m): 7:05pm On Sep 11, 2014 |
I recently stumbled on a thread that asked the question Why are you single, that got me thinking because I have never give that question any thought. I think the reason was because I am your typical career focused young man who rarely has the time to really invest in a relationship. Moreover I discovered also one key problem is that I am very picky. I discovered that over the years I had used a certain set of criteria to screen potential love interests criteria that where some how embedded in my subconscious. On a closer look I discovered that these criteria where identical to traits possessed my mum. Moreover it is important to note that these criteria leaned towards character and behavior and less on physical look. For eg I detested weak women, women who needed to pushed, who cannot take initiative, and clearly do not have a clear plan and focus for life and I find my self turned on by the go getting type of woman, the ones we call strong women. The kind that does not just have the ability to plan but also has the strong will and dedication to execute on them just like or even better than my mum. I might be attracted to a woman but one's I get closer and discover she lacked these attributes no matter how beautiful she is my interest dies automatically Now back to the purpose of this thread. To you reading this piece Especially if you are already married Did your parents character traits influence your choice of a spouse ... did who they are as an individual define your expectation in regards to your choice of spouse... #Mathewbriggs 9 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Would You Marry a Spouse like your Father or Mother? by Nobody: 7:11pm On Sep 11, 2014 |
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| Re: Would You Marry a Spouse like your Father or Mother? by RoyalRoy(m): 7:11pm On Sep 11, 2014 |
Mr Matthewbriggs, its only natural to want a life partner who will give you much happiness like the man/woman you have known earlier in life. Most people will approach a lady simply because "she looks like their mum" while some ladies will trip for a guy simply cos "he reminds them of their dad". Our parents are heroes to us in most situations and this is what most of us look forward to reciprocate in our new family too. I would like my future wife to be a copy of my mum but with a slight adjustment. Obviously we can't want a 100% copy of someone else cos no one is 100% perfect . 25 Likes |
| Re: Would You Marry a Spouse like your Father or Mother? by beeevan: 7:22pm On Sep 11, 2014 |
No, my dad is better off as dad not spouse. 13 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Would You Marry a Spouse like your Father or Mother? by RoyalRoy(m): 7:24pm On Sep 11, 2014 |
beeevan: No, my dad is better off as dad not spouse. Lollz.... Beev....will it make you a happy spouse if your husband is an exact copy of your dad? 2 Likes |
| Re: Would You Marry a Spouse like your Father or Mother? by Nobody: 7:27pm On Sep 11, 2014 |
I will like to marry a man who will treat me the way my Dad treats my Mum. 31 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Would You Marry a Spouse like your Father or Mother? by tpia1: 7:28pm On Sep 11, 2014 |
spouse is spouse and parent is parent. the two are not the same. 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Would You Marry a Spouse like your Father or Mother? by Nobody: 7:28pm On Sep 11, 2014 |
An Absolute No. Its not a must that my specs of men will have the personality of my father. 3 Likes |
| Re: Would You Marry a Spouse like your Father or Mother? by tpia1: 7:29pm On Sep 11, 2014 |
Most people will approach a lady simply because "she looks like their mum" while some ladies will trip for a guy simply cos "he reminds them of their dad". really?  |
| Re: Would You Marry a Spouse like your Father or Mother? by beeevan: 7:29pm On Sep 11, 2014 |
RoyalRoy: I would be divorced before 6months of marriage  .16 Likes |
| Re: Would You Marry a Spouse like your Father or Mother? by stevolinkon40: 7:29pm On Sep 11, 2014 |
Again |
| Re: Would You Marry a Spouse like your Father or Mother? by Jimfender(m): 7:30pm On Sep 11, 2014 |
Someone better than my mom would be SUPPER awesome! ... 3 Likes |
| Re: Would You Marry a Spouse like your Father or Mother? by naturally: 7:31pm On Sep 11, 2014 |
Father and husband are different 1 Like |
| Re: Would You Marry a Spouse like your Father or Mother? by Nobody: 7:31pm On Sep 11, 2014 |
Calling Mum... 16 Likes
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| Re: Would You Marry a Spouse like your Father or Mother? by Babyboy1986(m): 7:31pm On Sep 11, 2014 |
Why not, Na so we dey do am for europe here. |
| Re: Would You Marry a Spouse like your Father or Mother? by rattlesnake(m): 7:31pm On Sep 11, 2014 |
Questions for ifa |
| Re: Would You Marry a Spouse like your Father or Mother? by drnairalov: 7:31pm On Sep 11, 2014 |
naah!! brb with reasons for now leme keep ma self occupied with sweet Monalisa 5 Likes
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| Re: Would You Marry a Spouse like your Father or Mother? by Nobody: 7:31pm On Sep 11, 2014 |
I married a man just like my father because to me my dad is the perfect example of a man Every suitor I got,I automatically compared to my dad Excellent and meticulous planner , hard worker,great provider, loves family and adores his children I have the same complaints my mom has however Lol Whenever I tell her stuff,she will say,he is just like your father  22 Likes |
| Re: Would You Marry a Spouse like your Father or Mother? by Superstar007(m): 7:31pm On Sep 11, 2014 |
Absolutely not. Everyone have a different taste. So, we ain't the same  |
| Re: Would You Marry a Spouse like your Father or Mother? by freshness2020: 7:32pm On Sep 11, 2014 |
My mummy is just one rare super mum... I will ask for her kind again and again! 11 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Would You Marry a Spouse like your Father or Mother? by Davijunson: 7:32pm On Sep 11, 2014 |
That has been ma prayer na..... Mother is the no1 person in ma life after God. |
| Re: Would You Marry a Spouse like your Father or Mother? by Nobody: 7:33pm On Sep 11, 2014 |
Nope. I don't want a guy like my father. Personal reasons. I'd rather prefer the guy to be like my mum though. Ideas keep popping off her head every damn minute. 2 Likes |
| Re: Would You Marry a Spouse like your Father or Mother? by DollyParton1(f): 7:33pm On Sep 11, 2014 |
Yes!!! And I want to be the type of wife and mother my mum was to my dad and us. 1 Like |
| Re: Would You Marry a Spouse like your Father or Mother? by slimdiggi: 7:33pm On Sep 11, 2014 |
No way in hell! 1 Like |
| Re: Would You Marry a Spouse like your Father or Mother? by muskham(f): 7:33pm On Sep 11, 2014 |
None of them. Why, dad too strict and stingy. Mum too soft to take any concrete decision. 20 Likes |
| Re: Would You Marry a Spouse like your Father or Mother? by Jaygrl(f): 7:34pm On Sep 11, 2014 |
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| Re: Would You Marry a Spouse like your Father or Mother? by Arsenalholic(m): 7:34pm On Sep 11, 2014 |
Positive |
| Re: Would You Marry a Spouse like your Father or Mother? by Dramadiddy(m): 7:35pm On Sep 11, 2014 |
Mscheeeew boring topic 4 Likes
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| Re: Would You Marry a Spouse like your Father or Mother? by jugomma(f): 7:35pm On Sep 11, 2014 |
though i love my dad i wouldnt want to marry someone like him,he is a troublemaker 4 Likes |
| Re: Would You Marry a Spouse like your Father or Mother? by holyboss: 7:36pm On Sep 11, 2014 |
If dem attempt to charm me for dis kind tin, e no fit work, laye, neva  Why do people marry sef mtchewJesus get wife according to d bible? 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Would You Marry a Spouse like your Father or Mother? by Pretyangel25(f): 7:36pm On Sep 11, 2014 |
NO my dad is too strict but my mum is the best 1 Like 1 Share |
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