a friend of mine has a big challenge,but cant just help him. he met this calabar chic,20 on his way travelling.invited this girl in his house. she came.
She later confessed that she fell for him cos of first impression of gentility he created.now the guy cant put this girl off his mind;she's nice etc.the pro is that he is always suspecting the girl may be wt someone else.gush!!!! jelousy. i'v been advising him to forget this girl, what do you say?

Your friend needs Jesus

whitelexi:

Your friend needs Jesus

a shrink u mean?

Insecurity na disease oo
but curable, as mesmya said he need a shrink

the poor girl must be in hell

tope2000:

Insecurity na disease oo
but curable, as mesmya said he need a shrink

A disease? yes

curable? i dont think so

if the dude accept he has the problem and invest good money in a shrink, i think he can be cured slowly but surely

Your friend is suffering from not only jealosy but insecurity,personally i think the remedy is simple he should just rid his mind of all the ungodly thought about that girl and he should believe the girl is faithful to him, Because the way you see yourself will determine what you think about someone else, So the remedy is simple let him take that thought of insincerity on the girls path from his mind, Simple

he needs to think how he will feel when she says she does not want to see him again. Because this is what is going to happen if he keeps it up.
He will start to smother her and she will hate him and call it quits.

Thanks. will get to him. more opinions would also be appreciated,cos there are lots suffering this syndrome,but pretend.
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