a day i went to a friend house and he is complaning to me that one day he wake up from sleep and saw his wife phone ringin, and his wife was not around, he pick up the phone and a man ask him about his wife,that he is a family friend,but his wife has told him about the boy as his ex-boyfriend,please what do i tell him because i am confuse on what to advice him.

Make him relax,see am see hypertension

It's not your problem. Let him solve his own problem. See now, you already confused.

Na wetin concern you man?

Its not your headache. Tell him to solve that issue on his own with his wife.

Why are you confused?

If your friend is confident about his suspicion

Let him ask his wife how the said guy becomes a family friend/ his family friend that his not aware of.

If he can't

Take your mind of the issue

tell him to patiently wait till he catches her "green-handed", then you will be advised properly . just joking

please dont make your wife a prime suspect just because an ex is in a love fit, and besides you dont expect the man to say "I am ex-boyfriend", since its a man's voice he is hearing on the other end, he automatically become a family friend na. And you could be sure now that you have picked the call, he wont dare call again. He wants out of trouble too.

Please tell your friend that he should have more than speculation to go to his wife about this.

Your friend should be able to handle this issue in a more matured way . He shouldn't just jump into conclusion.

Just tell ur friend to handle things the way he can,
becos it's a family matter, if u turn out to give him an advices that could course divorce the sin will be in ur head so brother stay completely out they should work things out themselves.

thank you all for the advice,they say two head is better than one,

achoudeh:

thank you all for the advice,they say two head is better than one,

two good heads!!!

sweetmum:



two good heads!!!

your right sweetmum

What was the outcome?

do you realy want to know?