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| Borrowing Money Or Selling Property To Marry by chykeo(m): 5:32pm On Sep 23, 2008 |
I bought a piece of land from someone who used the money to get married and i know of a guy who borrowed money to get married. I am wondering if it is right for someone to borrow money for marriage when he is tight |
| Re: Borrowing Money Or Selling Property To Marry by iice(f): 5:41am On Sep 24, 2008 |
Starting a married life with debt. How nice. |
| Re: Borrowing Money Or Selling Property To Marry by MP007(m): 7:50am On Sep 24, 2008 |
none of the above |
| Re: Borrowing Money Or Selling Property To Marry by chisomquee: 2:16pm On Sep 24, 2008 |
it is wrong,will you borrow to take care of your family after marriage? |
| Re: Borrowing Money Or Selling Property To Marry by Aladunni(f): 2:59pm On Sep 24, 2008 |
its one of the stupidiest things people do these days. borrowing money to marry a woman. i actually do pity some guys though, when their "sweetheart" wants a gown of #102,000.00, why wont they borrow? |
| Re: Borrowing Money Or Selling Property To Marry by rubi(f): 4:22pm On Sep 24, 2008 |
cut your coat according to your size simple!!!!!!!! |
| Re: Borrowing Money Or Selling Property To Marry by bigfather(m): 4:26pm On Sep 24, 2008 |
If you ain't ready,then don't play the game to win fame ! |
| Re: Borrowing Money Or Selling Property To Marry by ssRhino: 4:46pm On Sep 24, 2008 |
The woman will dump the man, when the man cant afford to take care of her or when he stop living a pretence, cos that is what he is doing, he is trying to do what he cant afford. |
| Re: Borrowing Money Or Selling Property To Marry by Godalone(m): 5:36pm On Sep 24, 2008 |
Don't borrow money because of marriage,plan for life after marriage. |
| Re: Borrowing Money Or Selling Property To Marry by plappville(f): 6:08pm On Sep 24, 2008 |
does it means that the woman will not paticipate in the marriage expenses? if she really want to show big she should be able to surport, abi na by force to do wedding, just go and pay her diary and that is all than paying debt to marry her, that is not what marriage desires. if u are rich u can do a wedding in a big way. like he said, cut your coat according to your size simple!!!!!!!! |
| Re: Borrowing Money Or Selling Property To Marry by ifyalways(f): 1:20am On Sep 25, 2008 |
iice: |
| Re: Borrowing Money Or Selling Property To Marry by chika98: 1:35am On Sep 25, 2008 |
Whatever happened to the courthouse? I swear some people are dumb! |
| Re: Borrowing Money Or Selling Property To Marry by JustGood(m): 10:29am On Sep 25, 2008 |
You will fast compulsorily to pay back the debt |
| Re: Borrowing Money Or Selling Property To Marry by billyall(m): 6:31pm On Oct 30, 2008 |
nono of the above |
| Re: Borrowing Money Or Selling Property To Marry by kokoye(m): 7:19pm On Oct 30, 2008 |
No biggie. sebi na just to borrow again after the wedding night - and forever  borrowing money to wed is living a false life and these are the poeple who steal when they have no access to money. Imagine borrowing money to do burial - the same person you did not take care of when he / she was alive. |
| Re: Borrowing Money Or Selling Property To Marry by spikedcylinder: 7:39pm On Oct 30, 2008 |
Borrow money to marry? You will just run down.   |
| Re: Borrowing Money Or Selling Property To Marry by Flakybaby(f): 10:30pm On Oct 30, 2008 |
 Wonders shall never end, hw long will he keep borrowing, he should better cut his coat according 2 his materials. |
| Re: Borrowing Money Or Selling Property To Marry by damiso(f): 12:32pm On Oct 31, 2008 |
What a foundation to build a life on?Debt is something one should avoid at all costs especially for frivoulous stuff.I learnt one good thing for my husband and that is if i cant afford it now,il save for it and if i can t that means i don' t really need it.I remeber having a budget for everything for my wedding and decided not to exceed it(at least not considerably) and maybe it was just God's grace i actually got alot of things far less than i budgeted.We just made up our minds that we still had loads of other things to do after the wedding and debt was not something we wanted hanging around our necks. |
| Re: Borrowing Money Or Selling Property To Marry by JJYOU: 12:38pm On Oct 31, 2008 |
foolishness. he probably was born april 1st |
| Re: Borrowing Money Or Selling Property To Marry by bababuff(m): 12:57pm On Oct 31, 2008 |
What's the big deal?  Why all these sermons because people borrowed money for their wedding. Lets's face the fact, it is done everywhere, and we don't have to pretend. Wedding day is a memorable day in a couples life, and if they have to borrow some money to make it a grand day for themselves let them do it. My younger brother's friend who got married last year had to borrow some money from his bank (he works there) for the wedding. He nets about N300k every month and we needed about N800k to finalise the wedding, so he borrowed N1m form the bank, and we had a classic wedding that was the talk of the town. He will finish paying the loan by December. I believe that if you have a good job and a solid plan to pay back the loan, please go ahead and borrow to give yourself the best wedding. After all, are we not borrowing to by cars, house, and even pay rents nowadays? So why not borrow to marry a man/woman if you really love him/her? |
| Re: Borrowing Money Or Selling Property To Marry by JJYOU: 1:17pm On Oct 31, 2008 |
he should not be a banker with his mentality. people living in the ocean of debt is ruinning the economies of US and UK as we speak. borrowing to pay rents? nice one |
| Re: Borrowing Money Or Selling Property To Marry by Godalone(m): 1:27pm On Oct 31, 2008 |
bababuff:Lol Your brother is indeed a loving husband who went to the extent of borrowing money for marriage just to impress people.He will balance the debt by december,this guy is funny.This is a waste of resources.I wanted a very big wedding but my wife did not want it so we have to make it minimal.My brother it is not a good thing to be paying debt after wedding. |
| Re: Borrowing Money Or Selling Property To Marry by bababuff(m): 1:28pm On Oct 31, 2008 |
JJYOU: What mentality? So bankers don't borrow money?  Do you for once, think that the world economies are been run by cash and carry methods we use in Idumota or Yaba? |
| Re: Borrowing Money Or Selling Property To Marry by ud4u: 1:32pm On Oct 31, 2008 |
Borrowing is borrowing whether to buy a car or to marry. If you can borrow to buy a car that can be snatched away by armed robber tomorrow then why not borrow to marry. |
| Re: Borrowing Money Or Selling Property To Marry by bababuff(m): 1:47pm On Oct 31, 2008 |
Godalone: Yes you said it, you listened to your sweetheart. The deal is don't get a loan, if you have no plans of paying back or cant afford it. Why are people so afraid of taking loans? Most sound businesses are built on loans or facilities from banks. I am sure you see new cars on the road nowdays, because guys can now afford to take loans and buy good cars. The generations before us had to save for years to even afford tokunbo cars, whereas new graduates employed last year are already cruising around in new cars because banks know they have the potentials to pay back. "Let your future pay for what you want today" - authentic BabaBuff quote |
| Re: Borrowing Money Or Selling Property To Marry by JJYOU: 1:52pm On Oct 31, 2008 |
bababuff:i wont sit here and argue this with you. if he was a banker he would never approve such loans to others because it does not make good lending sence. not even lending on compassionate grounds. Do you for once, think that the world economies are been run by cash and carry methods we use in Idumota or Yaba?solid economies lend to people and businesses with viable proposals. check out the economies in trouble at the moment you will find cheap and irresponsible lending and borrowing. it is always boom and borsts economies. you have seen how much banks need to cover the irresponsible lendings. i am all for big weddings. i just had one myself but i am seriously against buy now pay later. it is an irresponsible lifestyle. what is wrong in doing small weddings which you can afford? who are they trying to please? just in case you are not aware money wahala is the number 1 thing that stresses most marriages towards divorce and you know this is how it starts. who sets the standard of how your marriage should be other than your wallet and brains. what next borrowing to pay dowry? |
| Re: Borrowing Money Or Selling Property To Marry by JJYOU: 1:57pm On Oct 31, 2008 |
Godalone:thank you. you married a good and sensible wife. wedding is a day marriage is for life time |
| Re: Borrowing Money Or Selling Property To Marry by abujabooks(f): 10:31pm On Oct 31, 2008 |
Wrong thing 2 do. Use whatever u hv to get married. Don't borrow. |
| Re: Borrowing Money Or Selling Property To Marry by desthan(m): 4:42pm On Nov 22, 2008 |
if na ikwerre man for Rivers state do am i no go surprise, na their typical way be dat, dem fit sell one land / property 100 times . After dem go buy one 190benz join put to enhance their movement, problem dey ooooo  |
| Re: Borrowing Money Or Selling Property To Marry by Angolobabe(f): 7:44pm On Nov 22, 2008 |
non of the above. |
| Re: Borrowing Money Or Selling Property To Marry by lucabrasi(m): 8:12pm On Nov 22, 2008 |
desthan: r u sure you r not ali baba or i go die lol lol |
| Re: Borrowing Money Or Selling Property To Marry by MrCrackles(m): 8:19pm On Nov 22, 2008 |
I think people should only get married when they can afford to and spend within thier means! |
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