It makes sense in Economics not to pay for what you can get free. Somehow this thought seem to be prevailing in many romantic affairs (especially live-in lovers). When men get all the benefits of having a woman with the option of dumping her for another at their whim, then marriage seems a bore and an unnecessary burden.

Women, in such situations, ultimately lose out in many of such affairs that pack up.

What is the mindset of these men who will not commit? Please perish the thought of 'no money', it's a ploy...YES!

Inside the mind (sometimes it's expressed too) of many men are:

* We have something good going, why interrupt it?

* I love you as you are but you are no good for the next level of my life

* There is still plenty of time to find out more of each other

* I’m scared of marriage responsibility

* There is somebody else who already has my commitment

* It’s not time yet

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