Since women happen to most often be at the receiving end of a bad relationship, these 10 pointers are very necessary in order to avoid any unjustified emotional damages.
#1. Never fall for his height without checking his heart. There's no point in good looking when he's horrible at heart.
#2. Where a man is going is far better than where he stands in life. Look beyond the present and zoom your foresight like an Eagle.
#3. Age has nothing to do with maturity. Growing old and growing up is never the same. Dating older guys does not guarantee perfection  in a relationship. There's no age benchmark for wisdom or foolishness in life. But if he's not wise @40 he might be a fool for life.
#4. If he is GOD fearing (i.e he makes effort to keep you from sin or anything that'll seperate or decline your relationship with your Creator) you are good to go.
#5. If He's not meant for YOU he can NEVER be for YOU. Don't keep him longer than he should stay when already he's one-foot outside. Anything less than the best is not good for you.
#6. Never accept a man without seeking God's opinion. The fact that he's in church does not make him a saint. There're things you can't see beyond your eyes that only God can fathom. That's why today, so many heartbreaks are blessings in disguise.
#7. Never present yourself as too cheap. A man will learn to treat a lady the way she treats herself. You don't need a man to be happy; what you need is a man to share your love and happiness with who's ready to reciprocate. Nobody in his right frame of mind disposes gold without counting the cost.
#8. Whoever is used to freedom will surely hate control. Men love freedom while women love attention. Never deprive a man of his freedom. Give him his space and never choke him.The reason why many men are afraid of commitment is because they are afraid a woman who is very possessive during courtship or dating can make his life miserable when he finally settle down with her.
#9. Marriage is not a career while relationship is not a job. No man wants a liability. It doesn't matter how beautiful you look, do something with your life. Marriage doesn't mean your life has to stop.
#10. When you rely on a man for everything, be ready to accept anything he throws at you.Be financially independent. Decision making can be very difficult if your man is your only source of income in life. Many women are stuck in miserable situations because they are relying on their man for everything in life.
REMEMBER A RELATIONSHIP IS FOR TWO. ALWAYS CHECK TO KNOW IF YOU ARE ALONE! Source: http://uniportforum.com/index.php?topic=675.0

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