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How To Use Social Proof To Attract Women Anywhere - In 3 Easy Steps by dtito(m): 11:40am On Jul 04, 2014 |
Consider these two situations: Situation #1: A group of three men walk into a bar. The men look around and find a table. They sit down and spend a good hour drinking beer and following every girl that passes by with their eyes, nudging each other every time. The girls give them strange look and seem to walk faster when they pass by the trio's table. Afterward, they approach a group of women seated nearby and they dish out their best openers. The girls look at each other, stand up and move out. Situation #2 : A group of three men go into another bar and immediately greet the people around before moving to a table. For an hour, they spend their time mingling with the people passing by (men or women), and girls seem to appear out of nowhere to stop by their table for a round or two. Afterward, they approach a group of women seated nearby, and the girls immediately hit the dance floor with the men. What's the difference between the two groups? The answer: the group in the second scenario had social proof, while the first one did not. The first group did not have social value. They were withdrawn and acted like they were in their own world. The vibe they created with their isolation had a negative effect on everyone around them. In the second, the group is more social and approachable. A girl will not feel awkward passing by their table because they were completely social. Having friends around, and showing the ability to make friends will increase your social value in the eyes of women you want to attract. You become "preselected" by the women you have already interacted with. The best thing about this concept of getting social proof is you can do use it even when you're alone. As soon as you enter the social scene, make friends and mingle. Don't go to a corner, sulk and expect the girls to approach you; they won't. Here's the "Instant Social Proof" blueprint for that instant social recognition: Step #1. Walk over to the bar and smile at the girl next to you. If you see a group, approach and open immediately. Spend a few minutes exchanging pleasantries and take off. If you're with a friend, you can send him to another group. Step #2. Mingle and befriend each group then rest awhile in a quiet section of the bar with a new friend you met in one group. Chat and say hi whenever you see someone you already met awhile back. Step #3. Don't be picky. You must open a group even when the girl you want to meet isn't in it. The idea is to be as social as you can be to increase your social value and to meet more people. By the end of the night, you will be chatting and exchanging high fives with almost every guy and girl there. In the process, your demeanor and the way you interact with others will help you attract the girls you have not met yet. You see, nailing the social proof technique is as easy as 1-2-3... and once you mastered the technique, it would not matter how you look or how much money y :Dou (don't) have - women anywhere will find you mysteriously attractive as you've been "pre-selected" by other women. Call it a "seduction mind hack" if you will. 1 Like |
Re: How To Use Social Proof To Attract Women Anywhere - In 3 Easy Steps by DrObum(m): 3:27pm On Jul 04, 2014 |
Interesting! |
Re: How To Use Social Proof To Attract Women Anywhere - In 3 Easy Steps by dtito(m): 5:43pm On Jul 04, 2014 |
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