The following 18 secrets will help you know and
understand your man very well and will surely
leads to a lasting and fruitful relationship.
1. Men Will Talk About Feelings
It may be easier for your man to talk about
feelings indirectly. Ask what he’d do during a
romantic weekend. Or what he thought the
first time he met you. His answers will reveal
how he feels and bring you closer.
2. Men Say “I Love You” With Actions
Some men prefer to express their feelings
through actions rather than words. Your guy
may say “I love you” by fixing things around
the house, tidying up the yard, or even taking
out the trash — anything that makes your
world a better place.
3.Men Take Commitment Seriously
Men have a reputation for being afraid to
commit. But the evidence suggests men take
marriage seriously. They may take longer to
commit because they want to make sure they
are onboard for good. In a survey of currently
married men, 90% say they would marry the
same woman again.
4.He Really Is Listening
When you’re listening to someone talk, you
probably pipe in with a “yes” or “I see” every
now and then. It’s your way of saying, “I’m
listening.” But some guys don’t do this. Just
because a man isn’t saying anything doesn’t
mean he’s not listening. He may prefer to
listen quietly and think about what you’re
saying.
5. Shared Activities Form Bonds
Men strengthen their relationships primarily
through shared activities more than by sharing
thoughts or feelings. For many men, activities
like sports and sex make them feel closer to
their partner.
6. Men Need Time for Themselves
While shared activities are important, men
also need time for themselves. Whether your
guy enjoys golf, gardening, or working out at
the gym, encourage him to pursue his hobbies,
while you make time for your own. When both
partners have space to nurture their
individuality, they have more to give to each
other.
7. Men Learn From Their Fathers
If you want to know how a man will act in a
relationship, get to know his dad. Some say
men learn about their relationship role by
watching and listening to their fathers. How
they are with each other and how the father
relates to the mother can predict how a man
will relate to his wife.
8. Men Let Go Faster Than Women
Women tend to remember negative
experiences longer and may have
lingeringfeelings of stress, anxiety, or
sadness. In contrast, men are less likely to
dwell on unpleasant events and tend to move
on more quickly. So while you may still want to
talk about last night’s argument, your guy may
have already forgotten about it.
9.Men Don’t Pick Up on Subtle Cues Men are
more likely to miss subtle signals like tone of
voice or facial expressions. And they are
especially likely to miss sadness on a woman’s
face. If you want to make sure your guy gets
the message, be direct.
10.Men Respond to Appreciation
Showing appreciation for your guy can make a
big difference in the way he acts. Take
parenting. Studies show that fathers are more
involved in care-giving when their wives value
their involvement and seethem as competent.
11.Men Think About Sex … A Lot
OK, so maybe this one is no secret. The
majority of men under age 60 think about sex
at least once a day, compared with only a
quarter of women. And that’s not all.Men
fantasize about sex nearly twice as often as
women do, and their fantasies are much more
varied. They also think more about casual sex
than women do. But thinking is not the same as
doing.
12.Men Find Sex Significant
It’s a myth that most men think sex is just
sex. For many, sex is a very important act
between two committed people. And just like
most women, men find intimate intimacyto be
most satisfying in the context of a committed
relationship. One reason is thatlong-term
partners know how to please one another
better than strangers do.
13.He Likes It When You Initiate Sex
Most guys feel as though they’re the ones who
always initiate sex. But they also like to be
pursued and wish their partner wouldtake the
lead more often. Don’t be shy about letting
your guy know you’re in the mood. Initiating
sex some of the time may lead to a higher level
of satisfaction for both of you.
14.Guys Aren’t Always Up for Sex
Men, much to many women’s surprise, aren’t
always in the mood for sex. Just like women,
men are often stressed by the demands of
work, family, and paying the bills. And stress
is a big libido crusher. When a guy says, “not
tonight,” it doesn’t mean he’s lost interest in
you. He just means he doesn’t want to have sex
right then.
15.Men Like Pleasing Their Partner
Your pleasure is important to your man. But he
won’t know what you want unless you tell him.
Too many women feel uncomfortable talking
about what they likeand don’t like. If you can
tell him clearly in a way that doesn’t bruise his
ego, he’ll listen. Because he knows he’ll feel
good if you feel good.
16.Guys Get Performance Anxiety
Most men get performance anxiety on
occasion, especially as they age. Your guy may
worry about his physique, technique, and
stamina. If you can help him learn to relax and
stay focused on the pleasures of the moment,
sex will become less stressful.
17.Men May Stray When Needs Aren’t Met
If a man doesn’t feel loved and appreciated in
his relationship, he may turn elsewhere for
satisfaction. For one man, that may mean
burying himself in work. Another may develop
a fixation on sports or video games. And some
men cheat. To avoid this, partners need to
work together to meet each other’s needs.
18.He’s Vested in You
Most men realize there’s a lot to lose if a long-
term relationship goes sour — not just each
other’s company, but the entire life you’ve
built together. If you’re willing to work to
strengthen your marriage, chances are your
man will be, too.
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