One of my female chum wedded some weeks back, a close one at that. Does that mean that we can't roll like we use to people say one has to respect her privacy, know boundaries blah blah. I bet she doesn't feel that way but societal values beg to differ. Would I be doing wrong by still keeping in touch with her

Prowizy2: She's married now. . stay away. U dig?

Hmm you wouldn't tell me to stay away if I was a female. So that means our friendship has ended just cos she's married now. I find that kinda tacky

Bros I dey suspect u o... U have other intentions... U love her..

constance500: Bros I dey suspect u o... U have other intentions... U love her..

Lol get your mind out the gutter jare. She's my padi now BTW u've not answered the question

CodeineJunkiee:
Hmm you wouldn't tell me to stay away if I was a female. So that means our friendship has ended just cos she's married now. I find that kinda tacky

Even if she is female bro she can't be friends with you anymore.
I wonder why friends nolonger have time for each other immediately after. Marriage. Soo apart with ma GF's after their marriages.

3cycle:
Even if she is female bro she can't be friends with you anymore.
I wonder why friends nolonger have time for each other immediately after. Marriage. Soo apart with ma GF's after their marriages.

It baffles me too *sigh

I think see anyhing wrong with it, as far your not doing anything silly and her husband knows that you and his comfortable with you. No big deal

Some men can be jealous ooo
Watch out for ur head

Tannie: I think see anyhing wrong with it, as far your not doing anything silly and her husband knows that you and his comfortable with you. No big deal

Well as for the husband knowing me, maybe she could have discussed that with him that I can't tell. I could not make it to her wedding for reasons beyond me, and tannie you have to define what you mean by silly o I'm a cool guy by default

You can but try as much as possible to reduce it to the barest minimum. Not all those morning, afternoon and night calls anymore. So make it once in a while.

dytbabe: Some men can be jealous ooo
Watch out for ur head

Lmao ese fun advice yin

Valentinooo: You can but try as much as possible to reduce it to the barest minimum. Not all those morning, afternoon and night call anymore. So make it once in a while.

That I can adjust to. I was thinking we could still hangout as usual

CodeineJunkiee: Well as for the husband knowing me, maybe she could have discussed that with him that I can't tell. I could not make it to her wedding for reasons beyond me, and tannie you have to define what you mean by silly o I'm a cool guy by default

Since your a cool guy by default, u don't need to know the meaning of silly

Call her everyday,visit her at home whenever she's alone and send her gifts jare......#straight ticket to the afterlife

Tannie:

Since your a cool guy by default, u don't need to know the meaning of silly

morhsuud22: Call her everyday,visit her at home whenever she's alone and send her gifts jare......#straight ticket to the afterlife

*takes advise with a pinch of salt*

CodeineJunkiee:
That I can adjust to. I was thinking we could still hangout as usual

Nah. Go n find a girlfriend or marry your own wife if you want to hang out.

Valentinooo:
Nah. Go n find a girlfriend or marry your own wife if you want to hang out.

that's the problem with Nigerians, pardon my western mentality. I see no harm in hanging out with a married woman, it's not like I'm going to whip out my tool and unleash it on her publicly