Blockus:


I like the style wey you use dey find fhuck online.

May God bless your hussle.

Mr. Ladies man.

GlorifiedTunde:

See this PERVERSE thing! You think say everyone be like you?

DIRTY MIND!

Like I said, May God bless your hussle.

Na people like you most of these Disney babes and MTV babes dey find. A Man who is 2014 compliant and abides by the new rules of the Geneva convention. A man that would put his hands into their punny and pullout their tampons.

No worry, in 24hrs, your PM box go full with mails.

#HussleHard.

Kanwulia: Please, stop making them to feel 'all important'!
I DO IT MYSELF!
A husband's role is for PROCREATION only.
The rest, I can do FOR/BY MYSELF!

I nor sen am o! Hiahnn!

fijiano202: not all is abt low self-esteem,u are right abt fear though..every housewife wanna look young so that her husband wont call her fat or ugly,i have a close aunt who once complain abt her husband lack of action in the Bedroom,that made her feel unwanted and ugly....As a lady am sure u understand that men are born with lust but we learn to control it but some cant....what i dont really understand abt we men are how we may be dating ladies like omotola and yvonne nelson but end up lusting after ladies like enjema Emperess i.e ugly ladies

GentleMimi:
@ bolded,indeed baffling! But i do not judge such cases. Sometimes even the woman is to blame,other times both parties carry the blame. True talk. Most women aim to retain youthful appearance. It does not help matters that the man is not restrained by age,and most men undergo mid-life crises.
Its a crazy world out there. But i do not advice women to let go of their appearance after child birth. Try your best to look good always,not smelling of fried fish when the man comes home. At least,u'll always know u did ur best if he decides to mess up.

GlorifiedTunde: *Please Don't Quote If You Can't Understand *

House chore is nobody's sole duty! It baffles me when a guy thinks its the woman's duty to do chores. Who laundered your clothes, did your dishes, swept your room, etc before you got married?

You come marry finish, carry your leg for chair like say na househelp you marry. shioo!

Any man who thinks in such way is still living in the STONE AGE!

Now me clamour for our wives to also work and bring in some income, she goes to work and comes back tired and you expect her to do all that herculean chores and also make love to u? HAAA! YOU MUST BE A WICKED MAN!

Even if you can't cook, you should be good at doing dishes, washing her clothes and pressing them.

Ladies better know the Kain man dem go marry, and don't spoil him immediately after wedding. Make him assist before babies start rolling in so that he gets used to it.

After now, some OLD SCHOOL PUNKS be like "I can't wash my wife's undies"

SHIOOOO!!!

Godmystrength: what if she sells fried fish?

worksmart: The best answer and simple truth

Blockus:

Like I said, May God bless your hussle.

Na people like you most of these Disney babes and MTV babes dey find. A Man who is 2014 compliant and abides by the new rules of the Geneva convention. A man that would put his hands into their punny and pullout their tampons.

No worry, in 24hrs, your PM box go full with mails.

#HussleHard.

teeo:
You are a confirmed glorifiedtunde because no right thinking babatunde will write the rubbish you just wrote.

smartchoice:

You sound married

VenusBetty: Naaaa, its not the same

egopersonified: We all complain about house chores becos we can complain, y not ask yr spouse to com share in your work-place-chore or in carrying pregnancy and delivery. Marry someone who loves you unconditionally, he will go to the moon for you. There is no chore my husband doesnt do when he is around, I ve had breakfast in bed severally, at a time, he washed our clothes, with two kids ohh, when the laundry man stopped coming before we got a washing machine, becos of his sacrifice that period, I dont allow him wash ordinary hanky now, he doesnt even still know how to operate the machine after six years. Some of his cookin taste better than mine and I have to sweet talk him to make them, but I help with slicing, blending, rinsing, etc if need be. All am trying to say is, do to him as you would want him to do to you and there would be no need complaining.

GentleMimi:
Then he should be ready to make his input. I'm not the type to talk too much or nag about home matters. I have a job and career. I believe in contributing towards family finances. If he thinks being a provider is an excuse to be lazy,then i'm allowed to be partially lazy.
I'm not gonna ever ask my hubby to cook or scrub the toilet. Infact,i find it difficult to be impressed by another person's meals. All i'll ask for his help in some heavy duty back-breaking work. If possible,he can help wash some clothes in the washer and iron,weed,arrange the sitting room,garage,store,wash the cars....i can handle the kitchen,room,toilet and bath,cook,market stuff...blablabla. Just an example. Is it too much to ask?
No reasonable and loving man will see his wife down on her knees,slaving away,and still sit his azz on the couch!

moderatorr: If she can't keep my house heavenly clean and still cook a very nice dish on top of it while i watch TV, then she should leave and let a woman who can do it take her place.

I need to eat and leave the plates there, remove my shoe in the palour then go to my room on barefoot
Play with my kids and scatter everywhere!
Only to wake up the next morning and see everywhere clean again. If she can't do it, she should leave.
Do you know what we men face everyday? And you expect us to comeback to the house and start helping you with chores again, why did i marry you in the first place? If na s*x, ashawo full every where nah.

While we were young, you were using all your money for samsung galaxy S39 and brazillian hair, blackberry nails, long eye lashes and dating multiple older men. while we were reading motivational books, investing in series and series of failed business just to get the experience, being an apprentice for years with all the insults involved just to make it, boycotting parties and shows to save time and money, learning painful computer language after language, learning to pastor a church, lead a team, work all night, solicit for funds, perfecting our use of spoken and written english etc
Now when we finally make it and marry you, you want us to come and help you with house chores, if i suuulaaaaaaaaaaaaap you!

This is how many marriages fail
Option 1
Woman == Lazy with house chores
Man doesn't care
Woman invites househelp
Man gets househelp pregnant!

Option 2
Woman == lazy to cook
Man == eats at the cafeteria everyday after work
Man impregnates cafeteria woman's daughter!

Option 3
Woman == lazy to fork
Man == realizes his secretary is actually s*xy
Man impregnates secretary!

Ngokafor:



....erhmm Madam ofcourse you shouldnt complain because your post indicates that your husband is the understanding and hands-on type of man.
...some women are not that lucky,and i believe that those are whom this thread is meant for..Therefore reprimanding them for complaining is not right..It is much better to advise them on how to get around such issue.


P.S..it is not in all cases that lack of love for their wives is reason for not helping out with house chores.Some are simply not wired for house chores...Female relatives did everything for them growing up.Paid domestic,laundryman and Restaurant did for them when they had jobs and became independent..so why would one suddenly expect them to become chefs and bathroom-scrubbing husbands when they get married?..Think about it.

unearthed:


U r totally daft!....R u in nid of a wife or househelp? Who taught u dt women r slaves..? bush man thinking!

The same person who taught me that Men are Laborers.

Its called division of labour;

Man = Money

Woman = Household.

unearthed:


U r totally daft!....R u in nid of a wife or househelp? Who taught u dt women r slaves..? bush man thinking!

Ngokafor:



....erhmm Madam ofcourse you shouldnt complain because your post indicates that your husband is the understanding and hands-on type of man.
...some women are not that lucky,and i believe that those are whom this thread is meant for..Therefore reprimanding them for complaining is not right..It is much better to advise them on how to get around such issue.


P.S..it is not in all cases that lack of love for their wives is reason for not helping out with house chores.Some are simply not wired for house chores...Female relatives did everything for them growing up.Paid domestic,laundryman and Restaurant did for them when they had jobs and became independent..so why would one suddenly expect them to become chefs and bathroom-scrubbing husbands when they get married?..Think about it.

GentleMimi:
@ bolded,indeed baffling! But i do not judge such cases. Sometimes even the woman is to blame,other times both parties carry the blame. True talk. Most women aim to retain youthful appearance. It does not help matters that the man is not restrained by age,and most men undergo mid-life crises.
Its a crazy world out there. But i do not advice women to let go of their appearance after child birth. Try your best to look good always,not smelling of fried fish when the man comes home. At least,u'll always know u did ur best if he decides to mess up.

Ngokafor:



....erhmm Madam ofcourse you shouldnt complain because your post indicates that your husband is the understanding and hands-on type of man.
...some women are not that lucky,and i believe that those are whom this thread is meant for..Therefore reprimanding them for complaining is not right..It is much better to advise them on how to get around such issue.


P.S..it is not in all cases that lack of love for their wives is reason for not helping out with house chores.Some are simply not wired for house chores...Female relatives did everything for them growing up.Paid domestic,laundryman and Restaurant did for them when they had jobs and became independent..so why would one suddenly expect them to become chefs and bathroom-scrubbing husbands when they get married?..Think about it.

Kanwulia: Please, stop making them to feel 'all important'!
I DO IT MYSELF!
A husband's role is for PROCREATION only.
The rest, I can do FOR/BY MYSELF!

I nor sen am o! Hiahnn!

egopersonified:

there are ladies too who had house helps, drivers, laundry men, cooks, etc while growing up, how do u too expect them to cope?

princefunmi:

Wait till you get married and have children. Then come back and comment on the thread.