I followed the thread on friend zoning recently with passion not knowing I would become a victim very soon.
I have been madly in love with this girl for eleven months now.
We've been through thick and thins with me being faithful all through (even though she can't be said to have been that faithful on her part).
All of a sudden she changed telling me her Exs have been disturbing her for a return and it's been weighing her down emotionally. I tried on several occasions to array her fears and build her confidence in me but was shocked when she dropped the bombshell on me.
She said she no longer feels love for ANY of us. She added that the best thing that can be between us is to remain as FRIENDS without any intimacy. This is a girl I've been with for a year and have been nursing plans to marry.

I've been hurt badly and I don't see this playing out well in the end
What do I do? .

She neva be your fi an ce na,you still dey plan to propose

Ouch! That hurts. Since you've been loyal to her, she would always come back if you were meant to be together. The problem is that you might have moved on when she would realize what she has missed. Sorry dear.

Odilafta: She neva be your fi an ce na,you still dey plan to propose

What's up with this friend zoning thing gan?

*Runs out to friend zone my father*

Bholutife18: Ouch! That hurts. Since you've been loyal to her, she would always come back if you were meant to be together. The problem is that you might have moved on when she would realize what she has missed. Sorry dear.

That's my greatest fear dearie

MzMariah: What's up with this friend zoning thing gan?

*Runs out to friend zone my father*

Badt girl
Doesn't profer any solutions

Odilafta: She neva be your fi an ce na,you still dey plan to propose

Danhumprey:

Re u online?

Odilafta:


Re u online?

No. I will flash you when I want to come online. Once you see my flash,just log in.

korel9:

Badt girl
Doesn't profer any solutions

She is not even your fiance yet, I just went through your post. I did not read it then because I had to go friend zone my father before he leaves for work.

OK.....Op, she said she doesn't feel love for both of you again abi? since she has friend zoned you please take it like that. you can't force her to love you my dear. a broken relationship is better than a broken home.

Hmmmmm, just wondering sha. what if una don marry, she go pack comot for your house because of her ex? I feel she loves her ex better than you if not she won't let go of her relationship just like that. Nobody leaves a man or a woman he or she loves just like that and that easy. bro she is not yours, allow her be.

Wow, It won't be easy knowing the fact that you love her but just take things easy biko.

*i have a lot of people to friend zone. let me start now.

Danhumprey: No. I will flash you when I want to come online. Once you see my flash,just log in.

I will hack into your phone and collect all these contacts, when you see your phone reboot 3 times, just relax cos it's me finalising the transfer.

Danhumprey: No. I will flash you when I want to come online. Once you see my flash,just log in.

Aiit

MzMariah: She is not even your fiance yet, I just went through your post. I did not read it then because I had to go friend zone my father before he leaves for work.

OK.....Op, she said she doesn't feel love for both of you again abi? since she has friend zoned you please take it like that. you can't force her to love you my dear. a broken relationship is better than a broken home.

I actually said Exs (about 3 of them) and what's all this "she's not your fiance yet" that you all are saying?

ITbomb:
I will hack into your phone and collect all these contacts, when you see your phone reboot 3 times, just relax cos it's me finalising the transfer.

You fit? Taaaaah!

ITbomb:
I will hack into your phone and collect all these contacts, when you see your phone reboot 3 times, just relax cos it's me finalising the transfer.

Please you are derailing and polluting my thread

Danhumprey: You fit? Taaaaah!

Can you please open another thread for this?

korel9:

I actually said Exs (about 3 of them) and what's all this "she's not your fiance yet" that you all are saying?

Omg, I just saw it. You mean her Exs ( 3 of them) is asking for her return at the same time? Korel9, if we will tell ourselves the truth let's do please.she doesn't want you if not she won't be bothered about some Exs, she already have a good relationship going for her and after 11 months, she starts talking about her Exs and just like that, she quits her relationship. can't you read the handwriting on the wall? Bros, let her go. you will find true happiness but if you say you won't then keep trying.

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MzMariah: Omg, I just saw it. You mean her Exs ( 3 of them) is asking for her return at the same time? Korel9, if we will tell ourselves the truth let's do please.she doesn't want you if not she won't be bothered about some Exs, she already have a good relationship going for her and after 11 months, she starts talking about her Exs and just like that, she quits her relationship. can't you read the handwriting on the wall? Bros, let her go. you will find true happiness but if you say you won't then keep trying.

A funny and confusing part of it all is that she's been nice on fone to me of recent.

korel9:

A funny and confusing part of it all is that she's been nice on fone to me of recent.

Hmmm.

Odunharry: .

You feel ma pain brother

Straight from the heart

Odunharry: .

You feel ma pain brother

Straight from the heart