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Child Having A Child by origina9ja(f): 1:25pm On Oct 10, 2008
my little sista is pregnant  shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked
what should i do cry cry cry
Re: Child Having A Child by MissyB1(m): 1:26pm On Oct 10, 2008
Nothing!!
B.T.W how old is she?
Re: Child Having A Child by arramyjay: 1:30pm On Oct 10, 2008
Nothing just pray and be supportive.Yea how old is she?
Re: Child Having A Child by origina9ja(f): 1:36pm On Oct 10, 2008
14 gona be 15 soon

i rekon she should tel her mama tho embarassed
Re: Child Having A Child by arramyjay: 1:40pm On Oct 10, 2008
14yrs old is very young yea pls tell her mum and you all be supportive.
Re: Child Having A Child by origina9ja(f): 1:44pm On Oct 10, 2008
the thing is that she was crying and telling me that if i tell her mum shez gana hate me 4eva sad maybe i should tell another adult
Re: Child Having A Child by MissyB1(m): 1:47pm On Oct 10, 2008
You said she's your sista and now you are sayin' her mum?
How old are you?
Do you both live together?
Re: Child Having A Child by origina9ja(f): 1:48pm On Oct 10, 2008
lol i'm call her my sis coz we do things 2gether
we tell each other stuff
Re: Child Having A Child by arramyjay: 1:50pm On Oct 10, 2008
origina9ja:

the thing is that she was crying and telling me that if i tell her mum shez gana hate me 4eva sad maybe i should tell another adult

Oh pls she will thank u later,if u dnt tell her mum and anything happens to her do u think they will ever forgive you? And one more thing if she lives with her parents they will get to knw soon so either way they will knw,And u knw wht dnt tell the mum directly just give her clues.
Re: Child Having A Child by Nobody: 1:52pm On Oct 10, 2008
origina9ja:

the thing is that she was crying and telling me that if i tell her mum shez gana hate me 4eva sad maybe i should tell another adult
please make her understand that she can't go
through this alone she's too young she will need support
especially that of a mother
Re: Child Having A Child by MissyB1(m): 1:55pm On Oct 10, 2008
origina9ja:

lol i'm call her my sis because we do things 2gether
we tell each other stuff
I see she's your friend and if I'm right
you are still a teenager.The earlier you tell her mum
the better for you both and she shouldn't dare think of havin' an abortion.

Teens of these days! when I was 15 I reported every love letter to my principal and mum.
Re: Child Having A Child by cooldud62: 2:04pm On Oct 10, 2008
9ja, this is where you are right?
who is the father of the baby?
thats what i wanna know first.
a 14 yr old like you guys or an adult?
Re: Child Having A Child by spikedcylinder: 2:06pm On Oct 10, 2008
Missy B:


the better for you both and she shouldn't dare think of havin' an abortion.




Why not?
Re: Child Having A Child by MissyB1(m): 2:16pm On Oct 10, 2008
spikedcylinder:


Why not?
Just for the simple fact that its against some laws.
What are these laws?Law of christendom,law of humanity.
If you don't dig that,scratch it and face this. . . . .

She has every right to face the consequences of her actions.
If she could divide her legs to have fun with the knowledge of its result afterward
then she should also be ready to divide her legs to bear the consequence of that
same pleasure but through pains this time around.
Re: Child Having A Child by carmelily: 2:16pm On Oct 10, 2008
This is sad. So juno. Is she in touch with the guy who impregnated her? who is he? Where are you guys? Nigeria or abroad? I think you have more options, as in support or social services abroad (UK, US)  than here in naija. Also, she should get tested for STIs and HIV. Abortion shouldn't be an option for many reasons. no matter what, TELL HER FAMILY!!!!! Better to lose her friendship than to lose her altogether.
Re: Child Having A Child by MissyB1(m): 2:21pm On Oct 10, 2008
carmelily:

Also, she should get tested for STIs and HIV.
To think that I even missed this part.
Pregnancy shouldn't be her only fear.HIV and STDs  . . . hmmm . .hmm. .it's complicated actually. cheesy cheesy
carmelily:

Abortion shouldn't be an option for many reasons. no matter what, TELL HER FAMILY!!!!! Better to lose her friendship than to lose her altogether.
Thank you jare.
Re: Child Having A Child by jaybee3(m): 2:27pm On Oct 10, 2008
It's a good time to be on the dole so why not let her have the baby.
She will also join the single mother's forum/movement whereby their life/survival depends solely on taxpayers like me
The stigma will soon diminish as young mothers is a norm in today's society
Prospect of having a good/fulfilled life becomes just a lil bit harder
Re: Child Having A Child by Busta(f): 2:31pm On Oct 10, 2008
totally . . . absolutely speechless by some of the response and advice y'all are giving them. lipsrsealed
Re: Child Having A Child by Easybaby(f): 2:32pm On Oct 10, 2008
poor girl tongue tongue tongue
she has tasted the forbiden fruit tongue
instead of reading her books she was busy reading dicks tongue sad angry
Re: Child Having A Child by Busta(f): 2:37pm On Oct 10, 2008
Easybaby:

poor girl tongue tongue tongue
she has tasted the forbiden fruit tongue
instead of reading her books she was busy reading dicks tongue sad angry

more like riding em'
Re: Child Having A Child by Easybaby(f): 2:45pm On Oct 10, 2008
Busta:

more like riding em'

you can say that again wink cheesy grin cool
Re: Child Having A Child by smooooooth: 2:51pm On Oct 10, 2008
W.T.F is going on, i am sick and tired of kids getting pregnant everywhere i turn, are there no more values or control. whats going on, i know lots of them that either pregnant or got babies, and they so young and inmatured for the challenges involved. look i think u need to tell your mama about this okay, its no use, she will get to know soon, when her tommy gets growing and she didnt eat a house.
Re: Child Having A Child by origina9ja(f): 2:55pm On Oct 10, 2008
LISTEN this is my sister were talking about here so mind your language angry
Re: Child Having A Child by origina9ja(f): 2:59pm On Oct 10, 2008
Missy B:

I see she's your friend and if I'm right
you are still a teenager.The earlier you tell her mum
the better for you both and she shouldn't dare think of havin' an abortion.

Teens of these days! when I was 15 I reported every love letter to my principal and mum.

that was back in the days darling
what do you mean teens these days that being stereotypical sad
because she can trust me to tell me stuff doesn't mean we are age mate
Re: Child Having A Child by smooooooth: 3:01pm On Oct 10, 2008
oh pls, first u say she is your sister,then u say her mama, then again u say u friends, men i am beginging to think u the ''agbaya'' that got the kid pregnant.
Re: Child Having A Child by MissyB1(m): 3:02pm On Oct 10, 2008
origina9ja:

LISTEN this is my sister were talking about here so mind your language angry
Do yourself a favour sweetie;delete this thread if you
don't wanno hear the truth.It may hurt but take it.She's TOO young
to know what a manliness is used for. tongue You two should face your books as its obvious
you are in same age bracket lest you'll be the next on  line.

origina9ja:

that was back in the days darling
what do you mean teens these days that being stereotypical sad
because she can trust me to tell me stuff doesn't mean we are age mate
You dey show me sad smiley?For werrin? undecided
Plus whether back in those days or towards the days to come,
I said and I repeat 'A 14 yr old girl isn't meant to know what a manliness is used for' tongue
I find it hard to believe you both aren't in same age bracket but what does it matta?
So 'fashi' it and look for money to buy baby sturvs cheesy kiss
Re: Child Having A Child by idupaul: 3:04pm On Oct 10, 2008
Missy B:

Do yourself a favour sweetie;delete this thread if you
don't wanno hear the truth.It may hurt but take it.She's TOO young
to know what a manliness is used for. tongue You two should face your books as its obvious
you are in same age bracket lest you'll be the next on  line.

tell em mummy.

missy hw ur side? kiss
Re: Child Having A Child by Busta(f): 3:04pm On Oct 10, 2008
origina9ja:

LISTEN this is my sister were talking about here so mind your language angry

you should have thought about that before crating this topic . . .besides, whats wrong is wrong. She should be facing her books and not riding em d**ks.

origina9ja:

that was back in the days darling
what do you mean teens these days that being stereotypical sad
because she can trust me to tell me stuff doesn't mean we are age mate

In other words, you are in support of what she did? so these days, it is ok for a 14 years old baby to go and get herself knocked up?
Re: Child Having A Child by MissyB1(m): 3:08pm On Oct 10, 2008
idupaul:

tell em mummy.

missy hw ur side? kiss
I'm good dear.How body? kiss kiss
Re: Child Having A Child by origina9ja(f): 3:08pm On Oct 10, 2008
smooooooth:

oh please, first u say she is your sister,then u say her mama, then again u say u friends, men i am beginging to think u the ''agbaya'' that got the kid pregnant.

i call her my sister thats my issue
and thats all you need too know
sad
Re: Child Having A Child by origina9ja(f): 3:12pm On Oct 10, 2008
Busta:

more like riding em'

thats not the issue i need advice
so stop bad mouthing the girl
coz we are all sinners angry
Re: Child Having A Child by Busta(f): 3:14pm On Oct 10, 2008
origina9ja:

thats not the issue i need advice
so stop bad mouthing the girl
because we are all sinners angry

no advice in this that to tell an adult about it. . . . even if any bad mouthing is going on . . she deserves it and the deed is already done.
I am not against abortion but I am for a 14years old girl. what if she dies in the process or destroys her womb or anything can go wrong.

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