snowpe: I have been married for 4years now,recently my wife listened to a preaching on the issue of jewelries,trousers and makeup.suddenly she changed and since then she have been making her self unattractive in the name of church activities.sincerely she is making me to loose interest on her,I have spoken to her about it and she refuses to change.what should I do?l am seriously trying not to cheat on her.please I need advice on what to do to save this marriage.
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snowpe: hei not the make up issues alone,she now looks unkempt and refuses to make her hair and refuses to even look attractive.

akraym: Hey, another HIV victim lurking around the corner

Chai

snowpe:
My question still standsif you have advice please give and don't interview me cos am in dilemma

snowpe: hei not the make up issues alone,she now looks unkempt and refuses to make her hair and refuses to even look attractive.

xynerise:
And if she doesn't make-up you will have no choice than to cheat on her?

alabiyemmy:

Did He Say so.

alabiyemmy:

Did He Say so.

xynerise:
Did you read his post at all?

ammyluv2002: I understand your point....I sugguest you find a way to still love her like that cause if that's the way she has chosen to worship her God, it won't be fair for you to start cheating on her. I know guys have areas that gets them attracted to ladies but you don't really have a choice here rather you should support her and makke her feel loved.

Btw, thatz why is always good to fall in love with the someone from the inside and not because of the physical apperance cause you may get married to a queen today and by tomorrow her beauty is gone.

snowpe: I have been married for 4years now,recently my wife listened to a preaching on the issue of jewelries,trousers and makeup.suddenly she changed and since then she have been making her self unattractive in the name of church activities.sincerely she is making me to loose interest on her,I have spoken to her about it and she refuses to change.what should I do?l am seriously trying not to cheat on her.please I need advice on what to do to save this marriage.
please moderator move this to front page for advice

alabiyemmy:

NO I didnt. Read it out to me. Let me hear.

snowpe: Sincerely she is making me to loose interest on her,I have spoken to her about it and she refuses to change.what should I do?l am seriously trying not to cheat on her. Please I need advice on what to do to save this marriage.

Dygeasy: There!!!

flipflop: Sir, I'm sure you did not marry her just for beauty alone. Your wife has acted on faith, you criticizing and demanding for her to change may destroy her faith. Give her your support as her husband and friend. If you feel she looks unkempt, it just because you are still looking for that woman she used to be. You suggesting cheating on her is absolutely absurd and terribly wicked. Your wife is your wife, stop loving her for the outside "beauty" and start focusing on the inward beauty that does not change or fade. *#shrugs shoulder

Provie: Op it's not all about her orientation;its about urs too.She's not really looking dirty or unkempt,is she?

Women tend to be fanatical wit new-found Christian faith. All u need to do is alow her some time.Just help her kip out of troble. She'll b bak.

ChrisChino: Chai!! She has been brainwashed

Dygeasy: Bluntly speaking, No advice anyone gives the OP will be sufficient to change his orientation cos for a man to have TRIED to consider cheating on his WIFE for a reason as absurd as what he's stating here, trust me he is just wasting our time.

It's either she changes or he cheats.

Provie: Op it's not all about her orientation; it's about yours too. She is not really looking dirty or unkempt, is she?

Having noted the above, know that women tend to be fanatical wit their new-found Christian faith. All you need to do is allow her some time. The steam will definitely blow off. Just help her kip out of trouble.

Secondly, u must upgrade yourself in terms of Christianity/Bible knowledge and make out time to have a chitchat with her on biblical principles as different from what is really taught these days. I'm sure your wife will be back.

Op ask me how sure I am: My wife was like dat too. Incidentally Op, you and I married about the same time!!!!

Dygeasy: Bluntly speaking, No advice anyone gives the OP will be sufficient to change his orientation cos for a man to have TRIED to consider cheating on his WIFE for a reason as absurd as what he's stating here, trust me he is just wasting our time.

It's either she changes or he cheats.

snowpe: I have been married for 4years now,recently my wife listened to a preaching on the issue of jewelries,trousers and makeup.suddenly she changed and since then she have been making her self unattractive in the name of church activities.sincerely she is making me to loose interest on her,I have spoken to her about it and she refuses to change.what should I do?l am seriously trying not to cheat on her.please I need advice on what to do to save this marriage.
please moderator move this to front page for advice

OP!!

Spare the rod, spoil the child.

One day, take her by surprise, looosen your belt and whip her like a child that she is. And when you are done, give her an ultimatum; Return to factory default setting or move out.

Dont let any pastor become the head of your family. If your biitch isnt acting right, whip her or cut the biitch off.

And its okay if you cheat now, God would understand. If Virgin Mary looked like that, she would not had been God's babymama.