Pls,I rily nid u guys 2 help so I won't mak mistake. The issue is,my bf sleeps off weneva he s chatting wit me.He's always busy so most tyms we chat only in d 9yt.say around 9pm...buh I ll jez notice he s nt replyn ma msgz again.I ll ping no reply.I ll kal no 1 wil pik it.The 1st tym he did dt,he sent a msg around 2am dt he slept off nd jez woke up nw dt he is sori.I undastnd he z tired so I tld him its ok buh dt he shuld av tel me so I wuld allw him rest.Buh nw,he does it frequently.Diz 9yt again same tin nd dtz y am provoked nd decided 2 create this topic.Am begining 2 doubt his luv despite knwing well dt he showz he does..Dis is so frustrating nd am rily getting tired of al dis...Dunno if I shuld continue wit him or jez conclude he s a Player nd move on...

Do u visit him often?
If yes, how is his sleeping patterns?

Well,I avnt slip dia ova nyt b4@partorn

Maybe he's work is getting tedious. So you wanna move on and conclude that he's a player just because of that?

pasqal09: Maybe he's work is getting tedious. So you wanna move on and conclude that he's a player just because of that?

Nt rily...Itz jez too frequent.I do complain buh he doesn't change either.I undastnd his work is kinda stressful nd most tymz am d 1 wu does tel hm 2 go rest...buh I alwayz expect hm 2 tel me he z tired nd wuld lyk 2 rest buh he won't until he slips off@pasqal

If you don't want me again talk now.

krall: If you don't want me again talk now.

Lolz...tank God u r hia Krall...plz talk on diz issue...nd be serious o,nt ur jokin tinz again.

MissMalia: Pls,I rily nid u guys 2 help so I won't mak mistake. The issue is,my bf sleeps off weneva he s chatting wit me.He's always busy so most tyms we chat only in d 9yt.say around 9pm...buh I ll jez notice he s nt replyn ma msgz again.I ll ping no reply.I ll kal no 1 wil pik it.The 1st tym he did dt,he sent a msg around 2am dt he slept off nd jez woke up nw dt he is sori.I undastnd he z tired so I tld him its ok buh dt he shuld av tel me so I wuld allw him rest.Buh nw,he does it frequently.Diz 9yt again same tin nd dtz y am provoked nd decided 2 create this topic.Am begining 2 doubt his luv despite knwing well dt he showz he does..Dis is so frustrating nd am rily getting tired of al dis...Dunno if I shuld continue wit him or jez conclude he s a Player nd move on...

well well... Move on. life is too short to start dating a boifriend dat wud sleep on U.. without ruling d fact that he myt be tayad watch his progress..if e no change...move on..*catwalksout

MissMalia: Lolz...tank God u r hia Krall...plz talk on diz issue...nd be serious o,nt ur jokin tinz again.

alright. How often do you see each other say in a week?

drnairalov:

well well... Move on. life is too short to start dating a boifriend dat wud sleep on U.. without ruking d fact that he myt be tayad watc his progress..if e no change...move on..*catwalksout

Lol! What an advice!

krall: alright. How often do you see each other say in a week?

Its a distance relatnshp

Distance relationship?
Lady, the relationship has expired!

MissMalia: Its a distance relatnshp

just as I thought. It know the exact solutin but... please I want to sleep nor vex..

pasqal09: Distance relationship?
Lady, the relationship has expired!

who told you. Stop saying what you don't know

pasqal09: Distance relationship?
Lady, the relationship has expired!

:-i dnt sim 2 undastnd u...plz tel me sumtn,aw do u min?

MissMalia: :-i dnt sim 2 undastnd u...plz tel me sumtn,aw do u min?

Ok, when was the last time u've seen him in person?

krall: just as I thought. It know the exact solutin but... please I want to sleep nor vex..

Ummmm,@least u said it out,dtz stil beta...*dragz him bk 2 cum ansa me*

pasqal09:
Ok, when was the last time u've seen him in person?

say 2months ago

MissMalia: Ummmm,@least u said it out,dtz stil beta...*dragz him bk 2 cum ansa me*

are u sure u joined today? You have to pay for consultancy first

krall: are u sure u joined today? You have to pay for consultancy first

iffa hia...dtz true anyway.deactivatd ma former acct...Oya no derail na...

MissMalia: say 2months ago

Well you need to go see him in person soon

MissMalia: say 2months ago

are u sure the problem is not from you? What are you even chatting him In the dead of the night?

MissMalia: Well,I avnt slip dia ova nyt b4@partorn

Ok then what.

Come, cut him some slack okay!!!

pasqal09:

Well you need to go see him in person soon

Ok...buh I dnt rily undastnd y I av 2 rush down 2 c him...I ve alwayz bin complainin nd he doesn't change.Nw do u tink itz all abh gng 2 c him?

alexdellafonte:

Ok then what.

Come, cut him some slack okay!!!

Lolz...as in?

Obviously, he's too tired to chat...who wouldn't after a stressful day. I guess, he's just trying so hard to please cause ordinarily he won't even bother to chat up. As ladies, we love attention and all that but sometimes we have to be considerate. There's something you must sacrifice in every relationship, it can't be rosy, there are things you can let go....things we can't control, nobody can cheat nature besides he might not really be the chatting type.

Nne, if you truly love him then please find a way around it. ...you can skip the chat in place of call since he's comes back 9pm. Calls are not too expensive these days, you guys can talk for like 30mins then you allow him to rest but if he's not tired then you guys can chat. Visiting him is also cool especially if he doesn't work during weekends
If you don't love him, please take a long walk without looking back

MissMalia: Ok...buh I dnt rily undastnd y I av 2 rush down 2 c him...I ve alwayz bin complainin nd he doesn't change.Nw do u tink itz all abh gng 2 c him?

I've been in a long distance relationship before and I know what's happening in your case.
You've been away from each other long enough. The pings and messages are beginning get boring to him. He's losing interest.

MissMalia: Ok...buh I dnt rily undastnd y I av 2 rush down 2 c him...I ve alwayz bin complainin nd he doesn't change.Nw do u tink itz all abh gng 2 c him?

I just read your original post with my eyes open.
You say he is busy Yet you still ping/ call him at night when he is meant to be asleep
You say you want him to change. Change what?
You say its is long distance. More problem
Why not call him during the weekends?
Does he call you at all?

Leaving his required sleeping time aside, does he spend any other time on you?

It seems you are not even interested in him

Advice: it is not by force to have boyfriend.

ammyluv2002: Obviously, he's too tired to chat...who wouldn't after a stressful day. I guess, he's just trying so hard to please cause ordinarily he won't even bother to chat up. As ladies, we love attention and all that but sometimes we have to be considerate. There's something you must sacrifice in every relationship, it can't be rosy, there are things you can let go....things we can't control, nobody can cheat nature besides he might not really be the chatting type.

Nne, if you truly love him then please find a way around it. ...you can skip the chat in place of call since he's comes back 9pm. Calls are not too expensive these days, you guys can talk for like 30mins then you allow him to rest but if he's not tired then you guys can chat. Visiting him is also cool especially if he doesn't work during weekends
If you don't love him, please take a long walk without looking back

Yea,u r so ryt Miss...I undastnd nd apreciate ur point.Av alwayz bin considerate nd Most tymz am even d 1 wu does tel him 2 go rest b4 diz startd appening.4 d fone kals,we do talk on fones often.Am jez scared coz he doesn't tel me he z tired nd wuld lyk 2 rest.If he does,am nt so cruel I ll definately give him d chance... Anyway,tnx so much...

MissMalia: Yea,u r so ryt Miss...I undastnd nd apreciate ur point.Av alwayz bin considerate nd Most tymz am even d 1 wu does tel him 2 go rest b4 diz startd appening.4 d fone kals,we do talk on fones often.Am jez scared coz he doesn't tel me he z tired nd wuld lyk 2 rest.If he does,am nt so cruel I ll definately give him d chance... Anyway,tnx so much...

He doesn't have to say it, my dear. There are some things we just have to find out ourselves then use it to score a point

MissMalia: Lolz...as in?

Let him be. U re jst pushing things. I believe u re d nagging type.
Is nt an abligation to chat wit u @ night, u can talk on fone after work.