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Tymax: I hope you know you're under active manipulation

sean123: Please explain? I have thought the same as well

Tymax: This is manipulation. She's teasing your emotions man. Don't let any smally bait you. Forget her 'cos there are millions (literally) of better women around you.

....Or do you want to be friend zoned?

Tymax: ....Or do you want to be friend zoned?

Prowizy2: This is what we preach everyday.

#SayNoToFriendzone

sean123: Was i been friend zoned? How? didnt see that one

Prowizy2: You have feelings for her, spends money and quality time with her. Yet she has the guts to mention her ex in your presence

Not to talk of the silly excuse she gave on wanting to shagg her on your first date

harffie: Haba, no be so o. Certainly she likes and respects you buh I think u lost that on the 1st date! Give her space don't message her for 3weeks nt even fb nor skype! She will contact you soon! Jes lock up aπϑ see what happens!

sean123: What silly excuse? Yea i knw that was bad and i have learnt. She told me about her ex even before she came to jand and that cheated on him so mentioning him seemed like a way to make me jealous and that came after i told her to leave the house.To be fair that should have been a red flag but na me follow am talk too much which is actually a friend zone recipe. She seems to talk a lot. What do u advice i do? Ps i have pussied up since she has gone to naija but ignore for a couple of weeks. Why did she keep in touch when she was in naija? You do have a point though. She friend zoned me without even knowing it

Prowizy2: She'll keep in touch because you guys ain't enemies, but the feelings are not there.

You're just suffering yourself, she sees you as a friend.

mencade5: #team_say_no_to_friendzone

my brother, if you like yourself and your heart, just forget that girl and move on. What happen to you having a girlfriend down there at jand? Our naija girls wahala plenty ooo.
If na me, na since i for don leave her.

Do yourself good, and forge ahead. What kind of mentality do our naija girls possess? Always mentioning their ex like mumu.

Guy avoid her forever, May you get a better girl.

Signed

PRO No friendzone Committee

sean123: I understand you people. everyone has said that but for some reason i am still not forgetting her. I want to somehow get revenge even if na one shagging to close the case. Is it even possible? or has she totally zoned off me. The worse thing is she always said starting a relationship wont work but kept leaving that tiny bit of hope for me to pursue when she was here. I think my wanting to shag her so bad blinded me well. How she managed to escape is killing me cos it seems she was open to it when she came but then i turned her off one way or another. Jand girls dey i am just a guy with a big ego and it has been burnt well. Respect dan go as well. Why do u think i should just free? I also wanna have a girl for naija for regular shagging. It seems she was the one then i messed up somewhere

andromida: Looks like this was just a passing thing for you as well why do you want respect from someone who well is just passing through? Learn the lessons and move on now you know what not to do on a first date and you know to keep your cool so what do you want from her?

Maybe I see it this way because I am not a guy.

mencade5: you will hurt yourself more and more and more trying to get your revenge on her. The best revenge you may get is to move on, accept that you have been defeated, dust yourself, and try to love again. There is no known champion on top toto matter.

Its true she made you look like a fool, always leading you, and you may have fvcked up, but revenge will take u deeper into that quick sand of sorrow. Ignore her, leave her, even if you guys will later be together let her be the one chasing and wanting you. If she dont, then you shouldremian the way you are.

Signed

P.R.O. No Friendzone Committee

sean123: It actually was not. I liked her alot (dont know why) We will see again this xmas and we kind of know each other abit much. Is there anyway to get back. Yes lessons have been learnt and in a hard way but she is just still on my mind even after 2 months. As a girl do you think she came with good intentions and i messed up or was it bad all along

sean123: Very true point. I should have joined this forum immediately she left. I would have moved on by now. Instead i spent weeks analysing what happened. I just felt like a babe that was not on my level (no boasting here) just finished. From her basically disturbing me all the time when she first came to me acting like a pussy infront of her at the end all because of toto. Do u think she was always leading me on when she was here or she had genuine intentions (even if na just to Bleep). I need to know so when i meet the next unilag babe my game go better haha. Is there also a chance we good get together again cos from my experience once you lose respect and dignity like i did thats the end

andromida: This gal is looking for something serious. Waka pass. You've learnt enough lessons to up your game.

sean123: And i seriously was/am. No jokes. It is just the way it has played out. I still like her but i need to also learn from the bad experience for next time incase she was just playing with me. But who when you are looking for something serious do you tell the guy you have make out buddies, cheated on your ex and tell him you had a condom on the first date + plus make references to your toto? She is 21 so maybe just imature

pickabeau1: dude.. move on

Since you say she was just a girl you wanted to lay.. it didnt work out

You dont have feelings for her.. rather beef

Move on

sean123: I do/did have feelings but i get strong head. My ego is bruised but deep down i still like her. You dont spend that much time, effort and money on someone you just want to shag.

pickabeau1: you do have feelings or you did? which is which?

sean123: I definitely did alot. Its obviously not as much now.

You dont spend that much time, effort and money on someone you just want to Romance.

sean123: And i seriously was/am. No jokes. It is just the way it has played out. I still like her but i need to also learn from the bad experience for next time incase she was just playing with me. But who when you are looking for something serious do you tell the guy you have make out buddies, cheated on your ex and tell him you had a condom on the first date + plus make references to your toto? She is 21 so maybe just imature

andromida: Yeah she was immature and when she realised what you wanted,that she had given you the impression she is cheap she pulled back.Forget her and move on.