Sunshinelady: . Let me tell u wat a woman wants. : take control, as in be in control, be d man (I don't mean boss her around unnecessarily o), just be confident & in control. Den love her, truelly & sincerely love her ( u don't need to buy her d whole world, a man wit 50,000 income can be more lovin dan a guy wit 5million income, true love isn't all about spendin), pls be faithful 2her & respect her, listen to her, talk wit her, listen to her opinions, & correct her maturely wen she errs. Pls don't nag! Don't be a sissy! Don't be a mumu (u can show love witout acting weak/stupid). Buy her stuff from time to time to show u hav her in mind. Pls don't 4get her birthday, vals' day etc, it will make her feel u don't care. PS:u ll do all dese provided both of u like/love each oda. Its not wen u shower love on a woman dat doesn't love u, u ll complain dat she doesn't reciprocate, somtimes u can't force som1 to love u, if its there u won't need to force it

i see shouting respect here. men find it hard to respect women that have spent their whole lives sleeping around with different men.

olubukato:

na every time u dey ask that.. I dey my corner joo. Baba casey

which corner b dat 4 nairaland wey i no de see u? Abi na ur corner off nairaland u mean?
https://www.nairaland.com/irishkez
i jst de hunt 4 hia

caseless: which corner b dat 4 nairaland wey i no de see u? Abi na ur corner off nairaland u mean?
https://www.nairaland.com/irishkez
i jst de hunt 4 hia

How u go know when u no dey follow me

dytbabe: Hahahahahahaha
Buhahahahahahahahahaha
Hhhohoohohohohoohoho
Hehehheheheheehehehehehehhe

Na to comment no be to dey laugh like person wey smoke papaya leaves

#seriously grumbling# all these NL girls wey sabi dream go begin wish say all their guys go carry all these traits . Make una use google search begin search ooo....

Nice post...

Onyinyechimara:

Hater! She's happily married.
Don't convulse on your venomous bile obscuring your brain neurons from working properly

damn!!! see finishing

Op permit me to say I LOVE YOU for this wonderful piece, kip it up

Nice Epistle. A guy can do all this for a lady but can a lady do the same for a guy?? I Don't think so.

Ladies of nowadays are nothing but BITCHES. I can't trust any1 no matter how much I love her. You treat her right @the end she bleeps u up and dumps you for another guy.


I've dated only 2girls all my life. None of the relationships ever lasted past 7months. And the 6months were not even cool.

I'm someone that LOVES FOR REAL. When I say I love you , I love you forever. Nothing can change that.

The last time I dated was January last year. I loved her so much that I could give my life for her. She knows I loved her deeply but never took me serious. I did everything right for her yet she still decided to leave me for another guy. We broke up july last year and up till now I still miss her coz I really love her.

The thing is , most girls are very stupid. They know the guy loves them to death yet they still treat him like shit and when they meet the real player they'd say "all guys are the same".

olubukato:

How u go know when u no dey follow me

*runs to my followers page to check 4 his id*
oboy, see eff up. U mah too de deactivate. *follows him*

You made nice points @ Op, glad I read it...

Eya! Maybe they left for the best. One day,you'll find someone who appreciates you. Keep being who you are.

Kelvindwaplord: Nice Epistle. A guy can do all this for a lady but can a lady do the same for a guy?? I Don't think so.

Ladies of nowadays are nothing but BITCHES. I can't trust any1 no matter how much I love her. You treat her right @the end she bleeps u up and dumps you for another guy.


I've dated only 2girls all my life. None of the relationships ever lasted past 7months. And the 6months were not even cool.

I'm someone that LOVES FOR REAL. When I say I love you , I love you forever. Nothing can change that.

The last time I dated was January last year. I loved her so much that I could give my life for her. She knows I loved her deeply but never took me serious. I did everything right for her yet she still decided to leave me for another guy. We broke up july last year and up till now I still miss her coz I really love her.

The thing is , most girls are very stupid. They know the guy loves them to death yet they still treat him like shit and when they meet the real player they'd say "all guys are the same".

softsparkyy:
Lol thanks.

Vivipop: Eya! Maybe they left for the best. One day,you'll find someone who appreciates you. Keep being who you are.

I don see my fine fine lady aaah

softsparkyy:
Lol thanks.

Tell him U have gotten 1 already na.

caseless: *runs to my followers page to check 4 his id*
oboy, see eff up. U mah too de deactivate. *follows him*

Oga case, where U dey follow Chief go??

Kelvindwaplord: Nice Epistle. A guy can do all this for a lady but can a lady do the same for a guy?? I Don't think so.

Ladies of nowadays are nothing but BITCHES. I can't trust any1 no matter how much I love her. You treat her right @the end she bleeps u up and dumps you for another guy.


I've dated only 2girls all my life. None of the relationships ever lasted past 7months. And the 6months were not even cool.

I'm someone that LOVES FOR REAL. When I say I love you , I love you forever. Nothing can change that.

The last time I dated was January last year. I loved her so much that I could give my life for her. She knows I loved her deeply but never took me serious. I did everything right for her yet she still decided to leave me for another guy. We broke up july last year and up till now I still miss her coz I really love her.

The thing is , most girls are very stupid. They know the guy loves them to death yet they still treat him like shit and when they meet the real player they'd say "all guys are the same".

Kum date my sister na, i promise she won't dump U 4 anoda guy.
Iam sure she won't do it if U r a true lover as U stated above.

Na kuz of say U be my namesake make i dey give U dis better offer o.

Coming from a lady? Good.
There's more to the fish brain isn't.. Nice.

DestinedSharon:
I agrees with U that women loves challenges. We unconsciously take it upon Ourselves to refine a crude man. This is because we philosophically believes the word ''all that glitters is not gold''. When a guy is too soft and too good, we see him as ''a wolf in sheep clothings'', we hardly believes in him. You might be the type that hardly have time for women, U do not cheat or flirt around, just a nice guy. Ladies perceives U differently, we logically put it that it's either u ar yet to find another or U ar not really ladies choice so U were being turned down. A once loving lady might just quit U for a more handsome sweet mouthed playboy. Not that her intuition didn't tell her that he isn't good for her, but she'd rather believe ''I can change him''. That is where we go nuts. Some get to succeed, while many get to regret for the rest of their lives.

So tell me...is that the best?

So true

Decryptor:

So tell me...is that the best?

lik I wrote earlier ''that is where we go nuts''. Many who had made d wrong choices reference themselves as an example to others to take correction.

Barselonia:
lol... That's tautology..... 200 hundred... u mean 200 or 2 hundred.... ... u mean u went to check my profile.. What d fΠck

That was a typo.

I send you an e blow if you do not leave me alone....You aren't all that, so don't let the fact that I mentioned I checked your profile, get into your head.

korres00: speaking of friend zone, ma bestt fwend became ma galfwend, after a year, she changed we broke up and she want us to b fwends again.....do u think I shld give ha dat

Well...Your friendship is never going back to the way it was, before you two began dating. ( most especially if sex was involved). Its either you still remain casual friends ( with benefits..that's if you both had sex.....(Which I think someone might end up getting hurt from at the end of the day), or you end both the relationship and friendship for good, whereby you refrain from any means of communication, until you both come across each other in person; I do think its going to go that route at some point.

Sweetlemon:

A very beautiful writeup,
I got to the 4th point, and den scroolled up to check if twas a M/F, wu made dis post.
A woman knows love wen she sees it, only dat som of us take it for granted.

Looking for honest and trustworthy lady for a serious relationship and you can reach me through my phone number lol 07066280522 Femi...

koredey: I understand .. Most guys change from that good guy dey used to be when u are just close friend wen u start a relationship.. Cos friendship and relationship are two different institution.. tho na inside ship dem build d two of dem sha..

Exactly!!... That is very true

@ "Na inside Ship dem build d two of dem sha"

This is a really great tutorial. I think ladies should take a clue with that.

glitest:

Exactly!!... That is very true

@ "Na inside Ship dem build d two of dem sha"

u don get am.. Smart gurl..!!

koredey: u don get am.. Smart gurl..!!

DestinedSharon:
lik I wrote earlier ''that is where we go nuts''. Many who had made d wrong choices reference themselves as an example to others to take correction.

So how can we identify the ones that go nuts? And what can we do to avoid them? And by the way, you seem to be very matured in your opinions. It's hard to see a lady admit what you just did about women going nuts. I love a woman who says it as it is without gender sentiments.

Sweeeeeeetlemon.....

Onyinyechimara:

Hater! She's happily married.
Don't convulse on your venomous bile obscuring your brain neurons from working properly

i have no business with a mere office messenger like you. EEDiot

nekede11: Hmmmm,ladies check urselves

guys check yourselves