Nashville:

It is not contrition; she cannot marry two people so she has to choose one. So she is in a dilemma. If she could legally marry both, I am sure she will but now she is looking for the smartest thing to do.

bettydee: A friend of mine dates two guys....It started while in the university,d first guy came along but just wanted companionship,it was a mutual thing,the second one also came along,she agreed because she believed d first will soon leave but till now none of them has refused to go oooo.The both have them has really invested a lot in her,d first has been a dear friend providing moral n spiriyual support while the second one has been financially active over the years...Now they have both proposed marriage,she has had sex with both of them also and lost her virginity to the second.She loves the first so much and wants to marry him but she doesn't want to hurt the second one. Pls,nairalanders what should she do,cos this don pass my wisdom oooo.

*matured advice please,tnx.*

Mynd44: "These bîtches ain't loyal"

bettydee: Bros Mintayo,I hail o.

Nairalanders,una harsh o,showing my friend all dis comments is making ha feel damn guilty.She loves d 1st one n he luvs ha bck sincerely,she is very fond of d 2nd bt he loves ha sincerely. The second 1 knows abt d 1st guy bt stil tinks he can win ha luv bt now she wan settle down. All she wants to do is balance the equation so the 2nd won't feel used and hurt. The first 1 will surely forgive ha,no mata wat,he told ha dat himself,so no problem with him.


*you know that part when the pastor says,if there is anyone that objects to this marriage,speak now or forever hold your peace......that's what she is scared of,make d 2nd guy no come crash the wedding*

Thanks for all the comments so far.

bettydee: Bros Mintayo,I hail o.

Nairalanders,una harsh o,showing my friend all dis comments is making ha feel damn guilty.She loves d 1st one n he luvs ha bck sincerely,she is very fond of d 2nd bt he loves ha sincerely. The second 1 knows abt d 1st guy bt stil tinks he can win ha luv bt now she wan settle down. All she wants to do is balance the equation so the 2nd won't feel used and hurt. The first 1 will surely forgive ha,no mata wat,he told ha dat himself,so no problem with him.


*you know that part when the pastor says,if there is anyone that objects to this marriage,speak now or forever hold your peace......that's what she is scared of,make d 2nd guy no come crash the wedding*

Thanks for all the comments so far.

pickabeau1: Have u done the compatibility check
It seems she has made up her mind

bettydee:
She is sticking to the first. She feels the chemistry is stronger with him.

bettydee: A friend of mine dates two guys....It started while in the university,d first guy came along but just wanted companionship,it was a mutual thing,the second one also came along,she agreed because she believed d first will soon leave but till now none of them has refused to go oooo.The both have them has really invested a lot in her,d first has been a dear friend providing moral n spiriyual support while the second one has been financially active over the years...Now they have both proposed marriage,she has had sex with both of them also and lost her virginity to the second.She loves the first so much and wants to marry him but she doesn't want to hurt the second one. Pls,nairalanders what should she do,cos this don pass my wisdom oooo.

*matured advice please,tnx.*

pickabeau1:


Just like that? A marriage compatibility check was done in seconds??..


She made her decision?

Ok...interesting...........

bettydee:
Would u term d time u posted to the time I replied,seconds? It was more than minutes sef. Buh dts wat she feels sha.

pickabeau1:

In my opinion, a decision to marry a person is not one to be taken lightly and considering she you have intimate and sexxual emotional ties to two different people.. it needs to be a holistic one

I mentioned earlier, there is a possibility she is not even meant to marry either of the two fellows

So i wish the lady the best... the decision is hers

HML to her

bettydee:

Lolssssss,its nt me oooo,m so fragile,I dnt av such heart. Its so confusing u know,most times I even feel she doesn't know what she wnts. How can u date 2ppl n feel comfortable sexing both....urrggghhhh. Babes sha.
Like someone commented,mayb she should just take time out away from both and sort herself out,identify what she wants and then choose or not choose. Most times our boyfriends don't neccessarily become our husbands.

tpia5: Op update nah.

1AngryBird: Bird's of the same feather, flock together. Both you and your friend, are extremely selfish.