I am a girl of 23 and I have a boyfriend who I love so much. He loves me too and he has even introduced me to his family and his parents know me very well. But the problem is that he cheats on me with another girl once in a while. In spite of this I still love him because it doesn’t happen all the time, unlike his friends that cheat on their girls daily.

But his cheating has pushed me to have feelings for this other guy I met recently and I just can’t get my mind off him. I have been tempted several times to cheat on my boyfriend with this new guy. I even tell myself that since my guy is cheating then I should do the same.

The issue now is that I have never cheated on my boyfriend all through our four year relationship and I don’t feel that it is right in a loving relationship. But now I find myself thinking that since he does his own then there is no big deal in me trying it out once.

I really do love my boyfriend and I know that we love each other, but I just can’t get the other guy off my mind. What should I do? Source: http://deartiti.com/bf-cheats-cheat/

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do wateva ur mind tells u...we might advice u not to cheat on him but ur mind might want anoda thing entirely....

I advice u dn't try dat simply because his doing it, remeber you said u guys both loves each other vry wel, and i guess he still gives u d respect u deserves as his gal, wheneva u guys are 2gada, if u try anytin funny wit d other guy, and u are been caught by him, believe me, u will totally lost d respect and trust he has 4 u!

nigeriantalent: I am a girl of 23 and I have a boyfriend who I love so much. He loves me too and he has even introduced me to his family and his parents know me very well. But the problem is that he cheats on me with another girl once in a while. In spite of this I still love him because it doesn’t happen all the time, unlike his friends that cheat on their girls daily.

A one-partner-cheater is not better than a cheater with multiple partners.

Both are wrong.

But his cheating has pushed me to have feelings for this other guy I met recently and I just can’t get my mind off him. I have been tempted several times to cheat on my boyfriend with this new guy. I even tell myself that since my guy is cheating then I should do the same.

You're already emotionally cheating on your boyfriend.

hum!!!!
Two can play the game



do what ur head tells you and what u won't regret later

That would be reducing yourself to a level that ain't worth it... you shouldn't allow what he has done change you from who u are dear.... I know you have heard this countless times but I jux got to say it... 2 wrongs don't make a right.

Go ahead ok,but wen kasala burst btw u nd ur boyfrnd,dnt come here 2 complain oooo

Why do you have to be in a relationship in the first place?

Your bf cheats on you regularly, and you're willing to overlook it because you "love him"? That's the real indication of a lack of self worth.

Personally, I'd rather a girl breaks up with me - than for her to cheat on me. It's not compulsory to be in a relationship...

*quotes op*""but d problem is dat he cheats onme with another girl once in awhile....inspite of this i still love him because it dosent happen all d time,unlike his frnds that cheats on their girls daily...."

Seriously
soo wat ur using to comfort ur self is dat he cheats once in a while nd as such ur thanking God because he doesn't behave lyk his frnds whu cheat daily.....is dat it

Girls sef!!mtchew*smh!!!

U don't need 2 cheat on him.two wrongs don't make a right

Free yourself and start dating other guys.

U don't need 2 cheat on him, two wrongs don't make a right.just pray if he's ur man

lets cheat on him together

Its lame to cheat coz he's cheating. Its obvious you'll still cheat(you already are sef) n ur relationship might be over so y not call it quits? Save ever1 the stress.

Don't try it o even if I had done it before o. .

BTW, It may be a trap set by your bf o. He may want to catch you and break up with you, rather than have you catch him and break up with him.

My advice is for you to ditch his bomboom! Because you're wasting your time defending him by saying "...he doesn't cheat on youall the time like his friends".

Hope you are not a learner?

His friends cheat on their girls daily?

Hmmm

op dont cheat on him, its not good.


Just pm me your number, lets take it from there.

It seems you came up with that idea about cheating on your boyfriend, because he caters for you;Or else, why in the world would you want to stay with someone who cheats on you...Also, to consider doing the same while sticking around?..Something isn't right.

After four years he pays you with cheating and you can leave cos you love him.
If you marry him tomorrow you'll start disturbing us with stories that touch.

[quote author=pweedyuz]*quotes op
Has he ever shown her to u, set ur eyes on dem, or u are only guessing dat?

Lets say the truth here,girl dat guy dnt love u,i know is hard to believe but that the reality here.a guy dat loves u will never cheat on u.

Lets say the truth here,girl dat guy dnt love u,i know is hard to believe but that the reality here.a guy dat loves u will never cheat on u.better move on with ur life

merieam16:
U don't need 2 cheat on him.two wrongs don't make a right

If two wrongs don't make a right,why nt try three. Ur boyfriend is cheating on yhu?here's my pin 26EF0925 letz cheat on him 2geda.

nigeriantalent:
I am a girl of 23 and I have a boyfriend who I love so much. He loves me too and he has even introduced me to his family and his parents know me very well. But the problem is that he cheats on me with another girl once in a while. In spite of this I still love him because it doesn’t happen all the time, unlike his friends that cheat on their girls daily.

But his cheating has pushed me to have feelings for this other guy I met recently and I just can’t get my mind off him. I have been tempted several times to cheat on my boyfriend with this new guy. I even tell myself that since my guy is cheating then I should do the same.

The issue now is that I have never cheated on my boyfriend all through our four year relationship and I don’t feel that it is right in a loving relationship. But now I find myself thinking that since he does his own then there is no big deal in me trying it out once.

I really do love my boyfriend and I know that we love each other, but I just can’t get the other guy off my mind. What should I do? Source: http://deartiti.com/bf-cheats-cheat/

Fellow NLers What do you guys think? You can drop your comments below but if you want this person to see your advice you can also post it at the source link: http://deartiti.com/bf-cheats-cheat/

if you do love your bf like u claim, u wouldn't love another or find it hard 2get him off you. And wen a girl decides to cheat, it means she doesn't really value her body, if u do u wouldn't sleep around cos ur bf does so.. Be wise and smart!!

You are not serious. What do u mean ur bf cheats once in a while unlike his friends that cheat everyday? Are u in anyway going 2 accept that behaviour from him? U are cheapening urself and ur boyfriend has already started taking u for granted.

U better meet ur boyfriend and warn him very seriously that d nxt time he cheats u will dump him and follow a guy u like very much. If ur bf doesn't change then dump him and move on 2 d other guy. STOP CHEAPENING YOURSELF IN THE NAME OF LOVE!

@op
If he has been cheating on you for 4 years he doesn't respect you he doesn't even like you. He is not your boyfriend, you are just some punny he has been hitting for years.

They say two wrongs don't make a right, but it sure makes it even. As far as the new guy goes, I say go where your heart leads you think about yourself, don't concern yourself about this fake boyfriend because he could care less about you and your feelings.
Just dump the loser, he'll be fine afterall he has the other girl to stroke his ego.

Nope!
There is something called integrity

I think its better to keep dt.

Buh if u can't just keep-up with ur bf cheating on u,,,just call it quit


‡my 2kobo

Have heart to heart talk with him. If he doesnt improve, just end it. Broken relationships are better than broken marriages

Tashamania:
Have heart to heart talk with him. If he doesnt improve, just end it. Broken relationships are better than broken marriages

just look at who showed up to advice.