Neldrizzy: hmmmmm

fijiano202: if i know the answer to that question i promise to answer cos shes also a grad

teeo: Guys should also start asking for allowance from their babes.
Operation gender equality.

angela98: if u can't meet her demands and she continues toif not, she might start cheating on you. Let's look at it from a bad girl perspective, 20k is not a lot considering the quality sex and attentions she gives you. If you patronised a prostitute regularly for one month and she charges you per pour, calculate it and u will see that it's going to be more than the money she is asking for. Not to mention the emotional involvement, the love and care you both share

Gratia: If this is true then I must be a learner o

@Op is she your wife? Do you give your Mum/sister monthly allowance?
If you don't know what to do open an insurance 20k monthly package.

NB: I am a lady so when I see unreasonable woman I will know.

angela98: you seem like a very nice person. I think u should call off the relationship if u can't meet her demands and she continues to insist. if not, she might start cheating on you. Let's look at it from a bad girl perspective, 20k is not a lot considering the quality sex and attentions she gives you. If you patronised a prostitute regularly for one month and she charges you per pour, calculate it and u will see that it's going to be more than the money she is asking for. Not to mention the emotional involvement, the love and care you both share

claireshan: hey Watsup?

Neldrizzy: am fine... Hw is ur day going

claireshan: just there, on my way home

U?

Neldrizzy: alright.... i av been busy since morning..... Hope ur day wasn't stressful?

claireshan: Not really

sameer1212: bt she is not a prostitute babe, y on earth will she hold hm in to ramsom is she nt tinking hw to setle wit hm? is even clear dat she dont love d guy jor.

xp17: can you hear your self? before I start my criticism, let me first do your lame maths.

eqn.......(1) Nigeria prostitute goes as low as #300/pour.
eqn .......(2)30days/month.

assuming you have sex every other 2days, let find the amount spent every month

soln....
300*30= #9000
9000/2= #4500/months.

but seriously, your bad girl assumption makes no sense to me on this case, because it's two unrelated scenarios. likening a girlfriend with a prostitute is like calling a pastor a witch doctor.


@op, I don't think it's idea to make that kinda commitment with a girlfriend , not even a wife. if you wanna give, let it be at your pace and let no one compel you to. if you start obliging to cheap blackmails from ladies, my guy you are doom for life.

let no one deceive you , sex is the cheapest thing on earth.check my maths up there , you see how #4500 can get you 15 different girls in a month. Hun?
so, anyone telling you to make some kinda lucre commitment for sex is still oblivious on it being the cheapest purchase hitherto.

disclaimer: I'm not saying you should not give financially to enhance your relationship, but saying do not , I repeat , do not let someone make it a mandatory ritual on you, especially telling you what to, instead of what you can.

good morning all.

angela98: exactly, that's is the whole point of this issue. I Dont want the moderator to feel offended if I call his babe a prostitute. Becos its only a prostitute that put a price tag in a relationship

jimmy4x:
CHAI!!!!!!

Adaeze003:
Dia riz god o!

xp17: can you hear your self? before I start my criticism, let me first do your lame maths.

eqn.......(1) Nigeria prostitute goes as low as #300/pour.
eqn .......(2)30days/month.

assuming you have sex every other 2days, let find the amount spent every month

soln....
300*30= #9000
9000/2= #4500/months.

but seriously, your bad girl assumption makes no sense to me on this case, because it's two unrelated scenarios. likening a girlfriend with a prostitute is like calling a pastor a witch doctor.


@op, I don't think it's idea to make that kinda commitment with a girlfriend , not even a wife. if you wanna give, let it be at your pace and let no one compel you to. if you start obliging to cheap blackmails from ladies, my guy you are doom for life.

let no one deceive you , sex is the cheapest thing on earth.check my maths up there , you see how #4500 can get you 15 different girls in a month. Hun?
so, anyone telling you to make some kinda lucre commitment for sex is still oblivious on it being the cheapest purchase hitherto.

disclaimer: I'm not saying you should not give financially to enhance your relationship, but saying do not , I repeat , do not let someone make it a mandatory ritual on you, especially telling you what to, instead of what you can.

good morning all.



wow bros u go for math ooo

egopersonified: Op, she knows u luv her so much and can get away with it. U ve put her on monthly pay already, she only wants u to increase it, say d truth. Next she will lie to u that she is preg and u ll plead wit her to keep it, this would now b a tool for emotionally blackmailing you, and you will b running from work to her house to pet her when d non-existent baby in d womb is disturbing her, u ll b introduced to d family who will also siphon u dry. When she meets a richer guy, she ll b going out wit him and u ll b aware of it, but love ll not let u leave her, she would leave yr house, sleep in his house for three days and com back to u and u will be content with this arrangement. Even after breaking up wit her, u ll still send her money becos d love would refuse to die no matter what.
This is not fiction ohh, it is happening to a guy I no, he does casual work during the day and security at night, on both jobs he receives 30k total and gives his girl 10k monthly, even when he has issues at work and he is not paid, he is one of the most caring guys I ve ever met but the girl has turned him into a mugu. I ve adviced him several times and even fasted and prayed just becos of him as I see him as a son though he is just a few years younger but once she comes crying, he just crumbles. No matter what we say here today, I no u will give her that money, my only advice is make sure u are always happy and healthy, all the best.

fijiano202: You know that awkward moment when u fell like a train just ran thru u,that was the exact feeling i had when she ask for a monthly pocket money of 20k..honestly i thought it was a joke until she stood her ground concerning her request...all i could murmur was WTF ur joking right? and she gave me the stink eye...till now i still feel like its a dream cos shes a kinda lady that doesnt demand for anything,i only buy her gifts and some ladies stuff at my own will and conviniece....pls help what should i do? cos i dont really know what to do cos its like my brain is malfunction at the moment and Love is not something u can turn off at will..i need mature advice?

chamboy: how much b ur pooner for one month....
Olosho osi

jennylove7575: chamboy a lot of people have been talking about ur rudeness to people on naira land.. I will just ignore ur insult. Because i believe u are still a child

fijiano202: Guy,am working and my salary is ok for me atm..giving her 20k a month would be the end of me

finditng:
My ex asked for 60k minus the regular outings and petty bills of needs....freakn ibo girl from imo...grown in calabar....when I declined she yarbed my life...a six year relationship...I was even saving to buy her a ring....God saved my life!...lol...saw her recently....she saw my nu wag and all...boi upgrade....shame catch am as she dey broke like bonga fish .....point keep no such woman...( She's even in your qualification range o...not a far lower smallie...thief.if it was that easy why can she earn too?).theyare pests an the orientation/ mindset is a disastrous one....dnt gt me wrong spoil ur woman when u hv cash...but the moment she constructs an alowance demand...delete her!...its a petty personell structured around the thought that she's doing you a favor by dating you ( sex, attention and all)...and demands to be paid....thus...you an item she's coping with.....delete the idiot....there are wonderfuly nigerian girls out there..

fijiano202: thanks bro..thats a wonderful advice

angela98: you seem like a very nice person. I think u should call off the relationship if u can't meet her demands and she continues to insist. if not, she might start cheating on you. Let's look at it from a bad girl perspective, 20k is not a lot considering the quality sex and attentions she gives you. If you patronised a prostitute regularly for one month and she charges you per pour, calculate it and u will see that it's going to be more than the money she is asking for. Not to mention the emotional involvement, the love and care you both share

fijiano202: You know that awkward moment when u fell like a train just ran thru u,that was the exact feeling i had when she ask for a monthly pocket money of 20k..honestly i thought it was a joke until she stood her ground concerning her request...all i could murmur was WTF ur joking right? and she gave me the stink eye...till now i still feel like its a dream cos shes a kinda lady that doesnt demand for anything,i only buy her gifts and some ladies stuff at my own will and conviniece....pls help what should i do? cos i dont really know what to do cos its like my brain is malfunction at the moment and Love is not something u can turn off at will..i need mature advice?