dear nairalanders please save a soul. I have a friend who is asthmatic. Sometime last year she met this guy who claimed to love her and they started a relationship. But my friend did not tell him that she is asthmatic. I encouraged her to tell him,thinking he would accept her because he claimed to love her. So she told him,when the guy learnt that she is asthmatic,he called it quits with her saying that he can't handle a sick partner. My friend has been crying all day,she is afraid no man will ever accept her,this was how her previous relationship ended. Am not at peace too,i don't know what to say to her,she might be thinking its all my fault because i encouraged her to tell him. Now he is gone,my friend is loosing control and am confused too,please advice!!!

K

My dear,you are a wonderful friend,no need for her to hide the truth,i believe he man that has true love for her has not come yet.she should take a brake in relationship,there is a way God surprises us,keep close to her,tell her what will make her happy,tell her she is special for someone,and she should pray over it.

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u dey book space?

emmyw: My dear,you are a wonderful friend,no need for her to hide the truth,i believe he man that has true love for her has not come yet.she should take a brake in relationship,there is a way God surprises us,keep close to her,tell her what will make her happy,tell her she is special for someone,and she should pray over it.

tnx alot dear

Decibel: K

oga is this space for sale?

faithugo64: oga is this space for sale?

Yea

Decibel: Yea

how much

faithugo64: how much

Would you like to pay in cash or in kind

faithugo64: tnx alot dear

You are welcome

Sometimes the toughest decision in d world is givng an advice to a friend.

Obviously, you did the right thing by encouraging her to tell the dude she is ashmatic. Tho in her present state of mind she wouldn't see that.

I believe the guy never loved her. He still was gonna dump her anyways. The only difference now is that it happened earlier than it would had he not found out now...

You can't explain urself to d babe now, it'd be an exercise in futility. I guess u just have to wait until she's in d right frame of mind, and then u can explain to her why u advised her so.

Truth is when the right man comes around for her... Her Asthmatic state would be the least of his worries.. Love will find her, if she hangs on.. Tell her so. #Goodluck

faithugo64: dear nairalanders please save a soul. I have a friend who is asthmatic. Sometime last year she met this guy who claimed to love her and they started a relationship. But my friend did not tell him that she is asthmatic. I encouraged her to tell him,thinking he would accept her because he claimed to love her. So she told him,when the guy learnt that she is asthmatic,he called it quits with her saying that he can't handle a sick partner. My friend has been crying all day,she is afraid no man will ever accept her,this was how her previous relationship ended. Am not at peace too,i don't know what to say to her,she might be thinking its all my fault because i encouraged her to tell him. Now he is gone,my friend is loosing control and am confused too,please advice!!!

. Trust me wen I say; dat guy has been looking for a means to dump her; he just got hold of 1 ; funny guy; oP u did d right tin; d guy would hv dumped her; anyway he was just looking for wat 2 hold...
Nobody dumps 1 cos of "asthma" dat excuse is too lame

Decibel: Would you like to pay in cash or in kind

kind

faithugo64: kind

Decibel:

ebullientV: Sometimes the toughest decision in d world is givng an advice to a friend.

Obviously, you did the right thing by encouraging her to tell the dude she is ashmatic. Tho in her present state of mind she wouldn't see that.

I believe the guy never loved her. He still was gonna dump her anyways. The only difference now is that it happened earlier than it would had he not found out now...

You can't explain urself to d babe now, it'd be an exercise in futility. I guess u just have to wait until she's in d right frame of mind, and then u can explain to her why u advised her so.

Truth is when the right man comes around for her... Her Asthmatic state would be the least of his worries.. Love will find her, if she hangs on.. Tell her so. #Goodluck

tanx dear,have been thinking of how to talk to her

faithugo64: tanx dear,have been thinking of how to talk to her

You've to give her sometime, I think. Cos in her current state, all you'd be telling her won't make any sense to her.