When I opened that thread like Many other Nairalander’s I expected to see cogent points that Points to the Fact that despite the Bible say we as Men are still subordinates to our Beautiful wives in many ways, now before you start throwing stones read this carefully

Hitting a woman is the strongest sign of a Man's weakness , forget the Fact that some women can turn the Pope into Mike Tyson , it is completely Unacceptable for any man to hit his wife or vice versa its simply crossing the red line.

There are several reasons why I strongly believe women are technically stronger than men.
Here is a scenario from typical Nigerian Village:


Scene 1 : Husband and wife wake up and Both head to the Farm ,husband on Bicycle ,wife on Foot

Scene 2 : Wife arrives late Husband starts complaining , wife explains she had to breast feed the child before leaving her with Grand Ma ,quarrel is resolved and they Both carry out the Farm work together


Scene 3 : Husband Complains he is tired, wife says she Needs time to gather more fire wood , Husband takes some rest under the Mango tree in the Farm while wife gathers more fire wood and picks some fruits for the Kids

Scene 4:
Farm work over, they both get set to head Home , husband mounts his bicycle and Pedal home with little or no Load , wife carrying a heap of farm produce, fruits and fire wood heads Home on foot


Scene 5: Wife on arrival Home sees husband drinking palm wine under the tree with his friends, greets them and head straight for the fire place to make Brunch

Scene 6: she finishes and serves the family food , Bath the children and wash their clothes but before she could clean up the kids and herself the sun was already setting

Scene : 7 as the sun sets , the Powerful woman already has her dinner on fire , before darkness falls she set the lamp and set dinner before the family, they eat and are all happy

Scene 8. As Night falls they all go to Bed, but while she was about to enjoy her sweet deep and well deserved sleep Oga ( "Head of the Home " taps her to complain about the ''konjititis'' and the Need to placate the one eyed Snake , again she rises up to the occasion and delivers:

It takes less than 3 minutes for head of the home to fall into slumber after discharging the white paint , but the woman takes more time to sleep because of the earlier interruption to her sleep .

When morning come the whole scenario is repeated


In Urban areas the scenario is not different

Scene 1 : Both wake up and Go to work , return by 5pm all stressed up ,

Scene: 2 on arrival wife moves straight into the kitchen while we the ''head of the home'' start changing channels from BBC to NTA , from CNN to Aljezeera flipping through newspapers and our phones in the process.

Scene 3: food is served we eat and go to Bed for some rest, she cleans up, and clear out all the rubbish in the house, But immediately she hits the Bed without even allowing her take a breath we pounce on Her, as loving as she is , she looks straight into your eyes and say ''OK but let me change "

On a lighter Note

1. You work for 30 days you collect your 10,000 Salary you carry 4,000 give woman to buy her cream!

Who is the head = the woman

2. You fought over a woman and you got beaten mercilessly and left unconscious by the road side !
Who is the head = the women

3. You feed your family Indomie, while you drink garri. But you buy fried rice and chicken + salad for that woman !
Who is the head = the woman

4. You Buy Okirika for your children, bend down select for yourself and Gucci for the Babe

Who is the head = the Babe

5. You send =N= 200 credit to your Mum, =N= 100 to your Dad and your own phone only has credit for flashing but you buy =N 3000 credit for the woman !

Who is the Head= the woman

6. Your Fathers Peugeot 504 is grounded, you just bought your babe a Rav 4!

Who is the head= the Babe

7. Your younger sister Needs 100'K for surgery you deny her, but paid 300''K for that woman to attend her best friends 30th Birthday in the Dubai !

Who is the head = the woman

Finally

God took extra time to make women ,to say they are beautiful is an understatement , he gave them extraordinary grace to cope with situations that could make a man commit suicide ,without women our homes will be in shambles !
However, God can never be wrong, He is just too Intelligent, How can the one who suspended the ball called earth Without strings be wrong , The Kabiyesi who uses the mouth of Fish as ATM Never fails !

He said Man is the head of the Home

Ephesians 5 Vs 22 -25 AMPLIFIED

5:22 Wives, be subject (be submissive
and adapt yourselves) to your own
husbands as [a service] to the Lord.
5:23 For the husband is head of the wife
as Christ is the Head of the church,
Himself the Savior of [His] body.
5:24 As the church is subject to Christ,
so let wives also be subject in
everything to their husbands.
5:25 Husbands, love your wives, as
Christ loved the church and gave
Himself up for her

Peter 3:1 - Likewise, ye wives, [be] in subjection to
your own husbands; that, if any obey not the word,
they also may without the word be won by the
conversation of the wives;

Lets stop destroying homes by promoting articles that divide the family and destroy society, if we respect our wives, and treat them as Queens , they will make us the Kings we truly are


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Ok

SINCERELY CAN YOU DO THIS ?

Whether you jump from pillar to post the man is still the head of the family.well not all men especially the ones that depend on their wives for money.

ochejoseph: SINCERELY CAN YOU DO THIS ?

What is the big deal about it?

All these yeye power toggle.

THERE IS NO HEAD , NOR TAIL, NOR NECK ABI NA INTESTINE.

When a man and woman come together in matrimony , you two become one for the benefit of the family.

All these power struggle una dey exhibit here, except you are in a master, zombie relationship, then carry go.

Every gender have their own responsibility and should be respected.

Una don quick do COUNTER THREAD?



nawa o



oya o forward match here if you hear your name




the following people are wanted in this thread as I spread my mat


Cococandy
damphurey
Sophyrocks
coogar
Relationship 101
Feraz


and other well wishers




you are wanted here o



co

Many people have been very FURIOUS for reasons I can understand



that their very own gender expose their yash outside


which abuse I no read finish including some people wishing him death




chaiiii




pop corn sellers wey una o



make I dress go back incase another missile one dey fly

Well written!

Times and times again, i have questioned who really is the HEAD OF THE FAMILY with the constant emphasis on women women women up and down to contribute sooooo much to making marriage work while the man is left alone to do nothing. Infact excuses are always provided for the man's irresponsibilty. This belief of men being babies whose faeces should be constantly cleaned up by their wives makes me laugh!! I dnt think people truly understand what being the head is. This is because people see being the Head as a Mere position, Like a position of the president, a military commandant, a position of power that must not be struggled/competed for and not as an exemplary role filled with responsibilties. A lot of people do not like to focus on the responsibilities being the Head brings. People who love to use the 'Man is the Head' national anthem to suppress women need to read their bibles properly as to what being the head really means. If a married woman is to do soooo much while her husband does so little, Why is he the Head?

Kudos to the Op. Nice one. You will only be treated as a king if you treat your wife as a queen.

kulyie: Una don quick do COUNTER THREAD?



nawa o



oya o forward match here if you hear your name




the following people are wanted in this thread as I spread my mat


Cococandy
damphurey
Sophyrocks
coogar
Relationship 101
Feraz


and other well wishers




you are wanted here o



co

You go fear roll call. Present Ma!!

ochejoseph: SINCERELY CAN YOU DO THIS ?

Mr. Bukatyne does

@OP;

The issues with the other tread was that he was too emotional with it and mixing abuse with been the head

Ok I've spread my mat.
Who's sharing the pop corn?


I don't drink alcohol on sundays so bar man bring coke come
Tenks

kulyie: Una don quick do COUNTER THREAD?



nawa o



oya o forward match here if you hear your name




the following people are wanted in this thread as I spread my mat


Cococandy
damphurey
Sophyrocks
coogar
Relationship 101
Feraz


and other well wishers




you are wanted here o



co

ochejoseph: SINCERELY CAN YOU DO THIS ?

Kini big deal?

Scenario 1: You can barely find such now, with girl child education, women liberation and empowerment, all those have changed now. Gone are those days you know.

Scenario 2: an improved and modernised version of scenario 1

Scenario 3: (the lighter note)
It will only take a highly irresponsible and foolish man to behave in such manner, a man who has little or no respect for his wife and children, driven by lust for some daughters of eve who if care is not taken may eventually ruin his home, fleece him and dump him.

And finally, you said 'God can never be wrong'...making the man head of the home. This has been mis-interpreted in many ways albeit deliberately by some for some reason.

You ended well by admonishing and i quote for emphasis:

Lets stop destroying homes by promoting articles and threads that divide the family and destroy the society, if we respect our wives, and treat them as Queens, they will make us the Kings we truly are. However the fact remains that: the man is the HEAD OF THE HOME.

That is the main essence of this thread and hopefully will not be lost on us.

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I was expecting this...

Not all men treat their wives with disrespect,..

Nice write up

I'm sori buh I neva understand wetin d op dey talk

Man is the head while woman is the neck that turns the head.

ochejoseph: SINCERELY CAN YOU DO THIS ?

I can only do this only if she's pregnant.

@OP, was all that the reflection of what u experienced or what you dont want to be?

In earlier tread, all i saw was a frustrated person, either that the person he loves was married to another man and that man treated his lady as he saw fit, but mr. Man watin consign u? Watin God don join together let no man put assunder.
If this guy is going tru the frustration of losing the love of his life to another and plan on takin his frustration on NL, why not find another woman marry and shower on her all the good tins u expect to see of how a man should treat his wife for Action speaks better than all this bottled up frustrated emotions u r letting lose by the second.

Be the change u want to experience.

I notice that ppl like u are the worst of all, u may think that u can neva cross those lines u've enumerated, but trust me, u would av gone a thousand miles past those lines before you know whats happening.

Before i commot, are you sure u no be Woman wrapper?

Hmmmm.Different kinds of opinions we go dey c 4 nairaland sha.make I siddon dey look ooo.

ochejoseph: SINCERELY CAN YOU DO THIS ?

Ma je ki ele ju e l'oju. Cos its a normal tin a responsible man can do for his lady.

ochejoseph: SINCERELY CAN YOU DO THIS ?

Ma je ki ele ju e l'oju. Cos its a normal tin a responsible man can do for his lady.O de fe so di babara.

Chillisauce: All these yeye power toggle.

THERE IS NO HEAD , NOR TAIL, NOR NECK ABI NA INTESTINE.

When a man and woman come together in matrimony , you two become one for the benefit of the family.

All these power struggle una dey exhibit here, except you are in a master, zombie relationship, then carry go.

Every gender have their own responsibility and should be respected.

Gbam but Man is still d head of d family.No matter what.

Man is the head of the family. Whatever you may think,that's your headache.

A counter


Its not about attacks and counter attacks.


If you start having such views, you are bound to have problems.

Just let it all flow.







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lonelydora:

I can only do this only if she's pregnant.

c mentality.Na wa oooo.U must av gone thru a lot oooo.

Whatever rocks your boat o.