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8 Love Lessons Nigerian Wives Need To Learn From Mistresses by realuz: 5:13pm On Jul 28, 2014
Do you agree with the list, guys?

To really benefit from this article, you’ll first have to get down from your high horse this instance. Stop bashing the mistress, the “other” woman, whatever you call her.
Whether you like it or not, mistresses exist for a reason. They thrive because they’re better than you in ways you refuse to acknowledge. There isn’t a fairer game than love. Says who. She’s a cheater. Well for one, nobody can force a man to love.
I’ve been a girlfriend, a wife and the contrary. None is better than the other but I can tell you this: a mistress brings vitality back into a man’s dying heart. On that accord, is there not something worthwhile for us to explore?
Still with me? Good.

*.1. Mistresses are fun to be around.
She’s always delighted to see him. It reflects in many subtle ways: a smile, a glance, a
gesture, a tone of voice and the response to his touch. She makes sure to wipe off her sour face after a bad day. That explains why he looks forward to seeing her again.

*.2. Mistresses show interest in a man’s hobbies.
Similar interest is what fuels a love affair in the first place. Sharing hobbies and interests breeds common ground for two people to grow closer.

*.3. Mistresses don’t judge.
He tells her everything: his secrets, his deepest desires, his aspirations and his darkest thoughts. He knows they’re safe with her. He is safe with her. She doesn’t turn around and make a fool of him. She accepts all that he is.

*.4. Mistresses look after their own bodies.
She works out, keeps her diet in check, does her hair right, puts on a nice dress and picks a scent that best suits it. Occasionally, she goes to a spa to calm her mood. She does things to make herself feel more feminine, more beautiful and more confident.

*.5. Mistresses affirm men.
When he gets a job well done, she compliments him. When he does something nice for her, she appreciates him. When he’s beaten down, she encourages him. She explicitly displays those forms of affection in action and in words.

*.6. Mistresses make men feel important.
She is submissive. I’m not talking about 50 shades kind of submission although that would be a plus. She listens to him and constantly seeks out his opinions regarding her thoughts and the things she wishes to pursue. Allowing him certain control over her life makes him feel needed and ultimately wanted.

*.7. Mistresses are very open to sex.
She almost never rejects him. She isn’t ashamed to initiate. She wears sexy lingerie. She is willing to try something new or forbidden: a place, a position or a toy. Continue www.uztalks.com/2014/07/8-love-lessons-nigerian-wives-need-to.html?m=1

Re: 8 Love Lessons Nigerian Wives Need To Learn From Mistresses by dapsy4u2(m): 5:15pm On Jul 28, 2014
Ok!
Re: 8 Love Lessons Nigerian Wives Need To Learn From Mistresses by jennylove7575(f): 5:40pm On Jul 28, 2014
They learn how to give their hubby thorough bj. Different sex positions, and also learn how to shave their armpit and eden..they should learn act of seduction and raw romance.
Re: 8 Love Lessons Nigerian Wives Need To Learn From Mistresses by Nobody: 5:58pm On Jul 28, 2014
realuz:
Do you agree with the list, guys?

To really benefit from this article, you’ll first have to get down from your high horse this instance. Stop bashing the mistress, the “other” woman, whatever you call her.
Whether you like it or not, mistresses exist for a reason. They thrive because they’re better than you in ways you refuse to acknowledge. There isn’t a fairer game than love. Says who. She’s a cheater. Well for one, nobody can force a man to love.
I’ve been a girlfriend, a wife and the contrary. None is better than the other but I can tell you this: a mistress brings vitality back into a man’s dying heart. On that accord, is there not something worthwhile for us to explore?
Still with me? Good.

*.1. Mistresses are fun to be around.
She’s always delighted to see him. It reflects in many subtle ways: a smile, a glance, a
gesture, a tone of voice and the response to his touch. She makes sure to wipe off her sour face after a bad day. That explains why he looks forward to seeing her again.

*.2. Mistresses show interest in a man’s hobbies.
Similar interest is what fuels a love affair in the first place. Sharing hobbies and interests breeds common ground for two people to grow closer.

*.3. Mistresses don’t judge.
He tells her everything: his secrets, his deepest desires, his aspirations and his darkest thoughts. He knows they’re safe with her. He is safe with her. She doesn’t turn around and make a fool of him. She accepts all that he is.

*.4. Mistresses look after their own bodies.
She works out, keeps her diet in check, does her hair right, puts on a nice dress and picks a scent that best suits it. Occasionally, she goes to a spa to calm her mood. She does things to make herself feel more feminine, more beautiful and more confident.

*.5. Mistresses affirm men.
When he gets a job well done, she compliments him. When he does something nice for her, she appreciates him. When he’s beaten down, she encourages him. She explicitly displays those forms of affection in action and in words.

*.6. Mistresses make men feel important.
She is submissive. I’m not talking about 50 shades kind of submission although that would be a plus. She listens to him and constantly seeks out his opinions regarding her thoughts and the things she wishes to pursue. Allowing him certain control over her life makes him feel needed and ultimately wanted.

*.7. Mistresses are very open to sex.
She almost never rejects him. She isn’t ashamed to initiate. She wears sexy lingerie. She is willing to try something new or forbidden: a place, a position or a toy. Continue www.uztalks.com/2014/07/8-love-lessons-nigerian-wives-need-to.html?m=1

Your mistress wouldn't even be able to do this herself for the long term that's why its easy for mistresses to be all these things you mentioned above. She will probably do it for 6months to a year then you will get bored and move to the next mistress. But a wife can:

1. Support you even when the going gets tough and stick with you

2. Bear children for you and bring up your family

3. Have sex with you even when she really knows she is not in the mood

4. Be faithful to you, mistresses by nature have many men because that's their livelihood

5. Cook and do domestic chores ect ( do you see any mistress doing any of these things )

6. Tolerate your in laws who she secretly hates

My point is a wife can do all the things you mentioned and even more but it gets harder if its meant to be for the rest of your lives and men shouldnt cheat as an excuse for a wife who isnt doing the above.

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Re: 8 Love Lessons Nigerian Wives Need To Learn From Mistresses by Whizpeter(m): 6:04pm On Jul 28, 2014
A mistress does all that cos she knows she has a rival.. THE WIFE
Marry her and see a magical change in her

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Re: 8 Love Lessons Nigerian Wives Need To Learn From Mistresses by Nobody: 6:26pm On Jul 28, 2014
Whizpeter: A mistress does all that cos she knows she has a rival.. THE WIFE
Marry her and see a magical change in her

You are right on point!

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