I dated this really hot and fine Caribbean guy in school about 4 years ago for 6 months. I asked him out first, to his surprise, and we went out on one of the best dates i had ever been on. He used to make me laugh a lot and i honestly cared about him. But after 2 months, i got bored. The relationship just flat lined. Calling and texting felt like a chore and i started to resent him a bit. When i travelled back to Nigeria for the summer, i didnt call or text him once. It was like he never existed and as far as i was concerned, i didnt have a bf. When i got back to school, i decided to rekindle things once more. After a week, i broke up with him. He was devastated, yes. But i couldnt see a future with him.
Now he wants me back. After 4 years. How do i break it lightly to him that our relationship is dead and gone, forever?

Guidette: I dated this really hot and fine Caribbean guy in school about 4 years ago for 6 months. I asked him out first, to his surprise, and we went out on one of the best dates i had ever been on. He used to make me laugh a lot and i honestly cared about him. But after 2 months, i got bored. The relationship just flat lined. Calling and texting felt like a chore and i started to resent him a bit. When i travelled back to Nigeria for the summer, i didnt call or text him once. It was like he never existed and as far as i was concerned, i didnt have a bf. When i got back to school, i decided to rekindle things once more. After a week, i broke up with him. He was devastated, yes. But i couldnt see a future with him.
Now he wants me back. After 4 years. How do i break it lightly to him that our relationship is dead and gone, forever?

take him to jerry springer show

which one is super hot....dont raise his hopes...just tell him its over....thats all and if he his responsible he would give in i think.

FÜCKING tell him straight to his face. Let him know you FÜCKING feel nothing for him any more & as much as FÜCKING possible be nice about it #my take

First of all,u asked a guy out?? Mmmmm.. Anyway no point deceivin him,it will hurt him more if afta a long tym he realize u are jus pretending, tell him straight,u will only hurt him if u com bak bcz u dnt love him anymore.and pls dnt do dis again.

Guidette: I dated this really hot and fine Caribbean guy in school about 4 years ago for 6 months. I asked him out first, to his surprise, and we went out on one of the best dates i had ever been on. He used to make me laugh a lot and i honestly cared about him. But after 2 months, i got bored. The relationship just flat lined. Calling and texting felt like a chore and i started to resent him a bit. When i travelled back to Nigeria for the summer, i didnt call or text him once. It was like he never existed and as far as i was concerned, i didnt have a bf. When i got back to school, i decided to rekindle things once more. After a week, i broke up with him. He was devastated, yes. But i couldnt see a future with him.
Now he wants me back. After 4 years. How do i break it lightly to him that our relationship is dead and gone, forever?

I dont think is dead, if it was truly dead, you wouldn't have even opened this thread in the first place.

rokiatu:

I dont think is dead, if it was truly dead, you wouldn't have even opened this thread in the first place.

thank you.

But rokiatu na only you carry that hip? Chia