Asek1:
FriendZone

What's so bad in friendzone

pasqal09:

I guess that answers your question then

the two cases are totally different .

Tallesty1: If a girl comes and say bro or Tally I dey broke o, abeg find me something, haba.... We all nah human being nah so I go give am wetin I get but if she try any of these koni koni things women dey take get things from guys then nah no no no. E no dey work reach wia I dey.

which kind koni koni things?

Senator1974: Its you girls that cause it...you will ask for a favour from someone, and if he happens to do you the favour..you girl will be like.."dat guy is a mugu!!"..and many guys have learnt from it..even those that haven't encounterd somthing like that...you girl should check it out its not good

I don't do that .

ULSHERLAN:
dont get me wrong please, I didnt say I cant help but am only trying to say the lvl of help differs. I sure av been a blessing to some and a curse to none

is okay

Richy4: OP I don't really understand what you mean by any thing.
Is it financial wise or moral support?

If it is finance, are you willing to pay back because he is not father Christmas. experiences has shown some guys that ladies don't pay back after giving them financial assistance.

That is why it is common for guys to point at the direction were you hanged your towel.

pay back? , God pls don't allow me end up with friends like this when am in need 'amen'

hopelink1: When you are not a begger

what's wrong in asking for help in time of need ? does that makes one a begger?

okparaugo: I have spent more on ladies I had nothing intimate doing with than those that I did it with.

I don't really know why but if I see you are really in need and I can help you, I do it. Man or woman.

I asked one girl same question just this morning, what of your boyfriend ? Anyway it was out of pity.

I hope you aren't the one writing because I am interested.. lol...

That's the question I hate even though he ends up helping me I won't appreciate it much .

2sExy1: it's not about sharing. Some of these your sisters her heartless...

The one wey deal with me for NYSC later dey seek help and she felt I would be stupid enough.

Hungry scatter my belle one time, I tell the babe say I dey hungry o and even followed her to go and buy stuff and back to our hostel at the PPA.

I was with her...

Guess what?

She finished cooking and started waiting for a boyfriend that had no plans for her...

While I was hungry. She called/ flashed him to signal that food is ready.

I dey dia dey hungry o.

When the dude came, she put the food on plate. They had even taken 2 spoons then she asked me to come and join them. I just told her not to worry and I left them.

But today the reverse is the case... Thanks to God. Where is her boyfriend? Whom has she been calling on for help? I have been to PH severally this year and I just signal her to know i am around but never bother to see her.

She exclaimed last time she saw my picture. Where is her boyfriend today?

That's life!

hehehe not all girls are like that sha.

Things like?

Why should you ask a guy for something?

How close are you two?

Would you give to him also if he asked you?

Now to your question. If I'm close to a lady and I notice she's principled I won't hesitate to give - no strings attached.

However, if I sense her to be the type that feels like I'm some ATM machine then I can choose not to give at all or give her off my excesses. Don't worry, I want nothing in return

gal: load card for me nah.
me: I get 100 for phone, ma transfer 50 give you.

I can do something for a gal I don't know rather than one that I know.

Burningstar:


pay back? , God pls don't allow me end up with friends like this when am in need 'amen'

You will never have a friend like me because I believe in dignity and self respect. How do you expect a guy to respect you when you go to them with the attitude of not returning what you took and you expect them not to ask for a favor in return.

In part of the world where I live girls pay back what they took and if a guy mess up, they call police for assault and harassment. Sorry I guess this might be too much for you to swallow.

it depends on the kind of friend she has been initially..
sum gurlz r stingy, dey don't bother about giving, all they know is taking and taking.. And d tin wey dey vex me pass be say dey v make it an attitude and dey see it as a social norm for ladies to ask for help frm men. they always ask norni, dem no dey give.

@op.. Reason why guys always want something in return 4rm girls is dat most girls are ungrateful. And majority of them have nothing to offer u in return other than their body.

Another point is, girls expect that they dnt have to pay u back the money. Cuz they feel they are "girls" dey can jst collect it nd walk away like dat. It doesn't work dt way.