Make him miss you. Offering a man every bit and piece of you will potentially extinguish his interest in a shorter period of time than if he were fed bread crumbs along the way. Limiting your availability at the onset will also raise your value in his eyes, as it indicates that you have a sense of independence. The elements of surprise and mystery work well in keeping him intrigued. Making him seem like an enhancement to your life by “taking time out of your busy schedule” to spend with him will make him feel special. Or What do you think?

U seem to be contradicting yourself

how is that?

biberrie:

how is that?

I'll explain what she meant but first:
Do you agree with this part of your statement/Do you think it's okay to do this??

biberrie:

Making him seem like an enhancement to your life by “taking time out of your busy schedule” to spend with him will make him feel special. Or What do you think?

@ poster

Ok,nice

hey, nothin is written on stone. people shuld learn 2 relate wit their partners differently. it depends on d attitude of the guy, some dudes would b very much interested in a girl they find hard 2 catch. others wuld b put off by d chase.

i 4 1, wont have my woman make out time 4 me like im part of her schedule, i shuld hav my time like i would always drop everything to be wit her when its necessary and important (not conveinent)

MHC(my humble contribution)

As per limiting yourself, i'll walk because i like 100% attention from my partner.
I hate surprises, I'm very unpredictable when it comes to surprises, i could like it or hate it so best not to try at all.
Everything u said, sound like the stereotyped naija relationship sort of thing, its got to be mature when it comes to my own view-point. I respect a woman that shows intimidating maturity and confidence from the onset, like my babygurl, it makes u get easily comfortable with dealing with her.

For instance, why do the initial gra-gra when its all u want? Why form for a guy when u really want him? Especially when the guy fine pass u by far? Things like that change my view of a woman, degrading her status by a chunk.

Guys like me, we ask once and then we walk, if u wait for me to chase u all over the place, u will wait forever.

biberrie:

Make him miss you. Offering a man every bit and piece of you will potentially extinguish his interest in a shorter period of time than if he were fed bread crumbs along the way. Limiting your availability at the onset will also raise your value in his eyes, as it indicates that you have a sense of independence. The elements of surprise and mystery work well in keeping him intrigued. Making him seem like an enhancement to your life by “taking time out of your busy schedule” to spend with him will make him feel special. Or What do you think?

this is great for some people but could ultimately back fire on you. Power in a relationship should be shared not held by one person alone (only matured people would get this)

@ post, this might work for some people and might not work for others.

My babe stays with me every single day. There is never a dull moment with her. Neither does she lose value before me.
Hence the poster's game of 'making a man miss you by making yourself scarce' does not work with me.

@ whitlexi

thats a nice post. agree with u all the way.wish women cud just understand that aspect of "dating"

what about: "MAKE HER MISS YOU"?


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nonsense, the poster may just be crying because her boyfriend just dumped her

Not when u r playing with a boss player who understands d rules of d game better than u do. U will then hv ur own gamed turned on u.
Point is its different strokes 4 different dudes.Would advice dt u tk time 2 study ur man.Rmbr two (& a half)can alwayz play dt game,

If you have to try make your man miss you, You most probably aren't missable,

@poster you are right!