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How To Keep Love Alive In Your Marriage. by paralysis: 11:52pm On Aug 02, 2014
The wife that wins all arguments with
her
husband is not wise. The home is not a
law court.
2. The wife that uses sex as a weapon in
the
home - placing embargo, going to bed in
jeans
shorts and trousers - lacks wisdom.
3. The wife that uses the modern trends
and laws
of "women's rights" to insult or ridicule
her
husband simply makes a fool of herself.
4. A woman that makes her home devoid
of peace
through bickering, nagging and quarrels
needs
help. A man should be eager to run away
from
office to be at home, for that should be the
safest
and coziest place on earth for him.
5. Modern-day equality in marriage does
not
mean competition. It simply means
partnership.
Taking advantage of such equality to turn
around
and become the de facto head of the home
and
oppress the man is tantamount to playing
with
fire. If you destroy your home, soon you
will be
the boss of an empty home.
6. A wise wife makes the man feel so good
that
he assumes that he is the head. Once he
gets that
feeling, the woman gently wields her
power and
the head actually turns to wherever the
neck
wants without a protest.
7. A wife that does not pull herself away
from
friends' influence and advice or even from
the
control of her mother and father will have
herself
to blame.
8. When a man is looking for a wife, he
bypasses
women of different shapes and sizes to
choose a
wife. But soon after childbirth, many
women hide
under the excuse of childbirth to let go of
themselves. Many stop bothering about
their
looks, shape, dressing, etc. Within 5 years
of
marriage, people start wondering if the
wife is the
man's aunt, even though she is 7 years
younger.
Her defence is that if he truly loves her, he
should
love her the way she is. But when looking
for a
wife, he saw people like the present YOU
and
ignored them and settled for the former
YOU.
Today, you go to bed smelling of onions
and ogiri.
You go to bed wearing grandmothers'
clothes.
Why are you playing with your marriage?
Love is
not about looks - we know

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Re: How To Keep Love Alive In Your Marriage. by Bunchersstab(m): 12:08am On Aug 03, 2014
God bless you & your entire generation.

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Re: How To Keep Love Alive In Your Marriage. by Lolaabokoku(f): 12:27am On Aug 03, 2014
True talk
Re: How To Keep Love Alive In Your Marriage. by OmoAlata1(f): 3:02am On Aug 03, 2014
This post is so sexist

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Re: How To Keep Love Alive In Your Marriage. by ELVG: 7:19am On Aug 03, 2014
Nice
Re: How To Keep Love Alive In Your Marriage. by Dyt(f): 11:14am On Aug 03, 2014
so its only women that can keep love in marriage?
what happens to both participating to mke it stronger?
what happens to special treatment and admiration the wife needs to hear often?

so women are the only cause a marriage collapse ehn
aiye manika oooo

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Re: How To Keep Love Alive In Your Marriage. by LaRoyalHighness(f): 12:00pm On Aug 03, 2014
And what will the man be doing when they woman is busy doing all these?

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Re: How To Keep Love Alive In Your Marriage. by Bunchersstab(m): 12:17pm On Aug 03, 2014
Dyt: so its only women that can keep love in marriage?
what happens to both participating to mke it stronger?
what happens to special treatment and admiration the wife needs to hear often?

so women are the only cause a marriage collapse ehn
aiye manika oooo
Sister, you are not in a competition with your husband...
We the male folks have agreed to play our part to ensure our marriages works.

*Dnt 4get women are emotional being while men are logical*
Re: How To Keep Love Alive In Your Marriage. by Dyt(f): 12:43pm On Aug 03, 2014
Bunchersstab: Sister, you are not in a competition with your husband...
We the male folks have agreed to play our part to ensure our marriages works.

*Dnt 4get women are emotional being while men are logical*

which of my posts did u see competing with u men folks?

have u not seen submissive women bn treated like thrash?
abi what i wrote is too much for men to do?

u men act like the world evolves arnd u, we are only ur helper ooo
without the neck, forget the head

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Re: How To Keep Love Alive In Your Marriage. by Dyt(f): 12:44pm On Aug 03, 2014
LaRoyalHighness: And what will the man be doing when they woman is busy doing all these?

he will be busy maltreating her na
thats the essence of the post
slavery

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Re: How To Keep Love Alive In Your Marriage. by Bunchersstab(m): 12:49pm On Aug 03, 2014
Dyt:

which of my posts did u see competing with u men folks?

have u not seen submissive women bn treated like thrash?
abi what i wrote is too much for men to do?

u men act like the world evolves arnd u, we are only ur helper ooo
without the neck, forget the head
"Neck abi" neck wants to compete wit d head.
*We still luv u pipu*
Re: How To Keep Love Alive In Your Marriage. by Dyt(f): 12:53pm On Aug 03, 2014
Bunchersstab: "Neck abi" neck wants to compete wit d head.
*We still luv u pipu*

lemme jor arakunrin
carry forward ur compete
u sound so much like a man with too much ego and pride and always reminding ur woman her place is only in the kitchen n makin ur bed

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Re: How To Keep Love Alive In Your Marriage. by beeevan: 12:55pm On Aug 03, 2014
who ever said men aren't emotional too is either just yarning Opata or repeating what some one else said undecided.


@ Topic,as usual, women are the ones who crucified Christ, the kidnapped chibok girls are all women's fault. The useless men that have been constituting nuisance all over the place are women's fault. Women are the reasons divorce is souring higher and men are the ones who have been relentlessly working towards their marriages , thank you!! We have heard undecided.

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Re: How To Keep Love Alive In Your Marriage. by Bunchersstab(m): 1:20pm On Aug 03, 2014
grin wink kiss
Dyt:

lemme jor arakunrin
carry forward ur compete
u sound so much like a man with too much ego and pride and always reminding ur woman her place is only in the kitchen n makin ur bed
kiss Nay, on d contrary i cook 4 her often...
i luv/respect & adore my woman wit all i gat.
*Baby come and testify*
Re: How To Keep Love Alive In Your Marriage. by khiaa(f): 1:46pm On Aug 03, 2014
Bunchersstab: grin wink kiss kiss Nay, on d contrary i cook 4 her often...
i luv/respect & adore my woman wit all i gat.
*Baby come and testify*

I hear you Daddy. cheesy
Re: How To Keep Love Alive In Your Marriage. by Bunchersstab(m): 1:55pm On Aug 03, 2014
kiss
khiaa:

I hear you Daddy. cheesy
kiss Thats what am talking about...
my most beautiful just confirmed it.
Dyt are you there
Re: How To Keep Love Alive In Your Marriage. by Dyt(f): 2:21pm On Aug 03, 2014
Bunchersstab: kiss kiss Thats what am talking about...
my most beautiful just confirmed it.
Dyt are you there

clears throat
Re: How To Keep Love Alive In Your Marriage. by chinebu(m): 2:34pm On Aug 03, 2014
Dyt:

he will be busy maltreating her na
thats the essence of the post
slavery
As you make your bed, so you will lay on it my dear.
Re: How To Keep Love Alive In Your Marriage. by Dyt(f): 2:36pm On Aug 03, 2014
chinebu: As you make your bed, so you will lay on it my dear.

yimu

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Re: How To Keep Love Alive In Your Marriage. by LaRoyalHighness(f): 3:02pm On Aug 03, 2014
cheesy
Dyt:

he will be busy maltreating her na
thats the essence of the post
slavery
Re: How To Keep Love Alive In Your Marriage. by Bunchersstab(m): 3:22pm On Aug 03, 2014
wink
Dyt:

clears throat
wink
Re: How To Keep Love Alive In Your Marriage. by Nobody: 3:48pm On Aug 03, 2014
The women on this thread ain't smiling ooo grin grin grin cool
Re: How To Keep Love Alive In Your Marriage. by egopersonified(f): 4:29pm On Aug 03, 2014
Dyt:

lemme jor arakunrin
carry forward ur compete
u sound so much like a man with too much ego and pride and always reminding ur woman her place is only in the kitchen n makin ur bed

forget all they type here ohh, I have dubbed it nairaland pride and ego, when you see them offline, they are as humble as they come, they just come to nl to let out that recessive gene in them.

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Re: How To Keep Love Alive In Your Marriage. by bukatyne(f): 4:36pm On Aug 03, 2014
egopersonified:

forget all they type here ohh, I have dubbed it nairaland pride and ego, when you see them offline, they are as humble as they come, they just come to nl to let out that recessive gene in them.

I think I agree with you because if it is like this in real life, wahala dey!
Re: How To Keep Love Alive In Your Marriage. by paralysis: 9:00pm On Aug 03, 2014
Bunchersstab: God bless you & your entire generation.
AMeeeeeeeeen
Re: How To Keep Love Alive In Your Marriage. by paralysis: 9:11pm On Aug 03, 2014
My fellow nairalander,especially ladies,i ddnt put up this thread to establish superiority or junior,i only created it to remind all ladies the power they have over us men,ladies think they are emotional but i bet you, men are more.we actually say men are the head of d home but to tell u d truth women are,the problem is that so many women leaves the real thing and focus on shadows,a woman who knows her husband not minding his egos will always have her way to control him(not wt sex though).so ladies learn ur man,he is though on the outside but d man inside is more soft than u can imagine.

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