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Why Shouldn't A Lady Ask A Guy She Wants Out??? by MarshRiley(m): 11:23am On Aug 07, 2014
This issue of ladies not permited to ask guys out should now be a thing of the past,I mean if you see a guy you like,what's wrong with telling him you like him?abi na only us(guys) suppose dey talk always?
Angelina Jolie proposed to Brad Pitt....so me no see wetin dey wrong for there.........and guys,if she ask you out,don't look down on her,you don't know what it took her to say it!

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Re: Why Shouldn't A Lady Ask A Guy She Wants Out??? by Danhumprey: 11:28am On Aug 07, 2014
The problem is with girls. They are shy to do that. Beside society\culture has place an unnecessary barrier on the female folks such that it's considered a taboo when a female ask a male out.

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Re: Why Shouldn't A Lady Ask A Guy She Wants Out??? by Nobody: 11:43am On Aug 07, 2014
Danhumprey: The problem is with girls. They are shy to do that. Beside society\culture has place an unnecessary barrier on the female folks such that it's considered a taboo when a female ask a male out.
They are not shy but too proud,they always think that itz d man that is supposed 2 do it

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Re: Why Shouldn't A Lady Ask A Guy She Wants Out??? by LaurelP(m): 11:51am On Aug 07, 2014
Norms and stereotypes

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Re: Why Shouldn't A Lady Ask A Guy She Wants Out??? by Tallesty1(m): 12:05pm On Aug 07, 2014
Danhumprey: The problem is with girls. They are shy to do that. Beside society\culture has place an unnecessary barrier on the female folks such that it's considered a taboo when a female ask a male out.
Lols, they are not shy, fact is they can't handle rejection.

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Re: Why Shouldn't A Lady Ask A Guy She Wants Out??? by Danhumprey: 12:12pm On Aug 07, 2014
Tallesty1: Lols, they are not shy, fact is they can't handle rejection.
They can't handle rejection,but they can reject guys anyhow? Smh.

Talk of double standard.

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Re: Why Shouldn't A Lady Ask A Guy She Wants Out??? by Danhumprey: 12:15pm On Aug 07, 2014
edozie04: They are not shy but too proud,they always think that itz d man that is supposed 2 do it
Well,let them keep being proud and thinking that it's a man that should do the wooing,while they are dying in silence at the guys they are crushing on/admiring who are being wooed by other girls. Smh.

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Re: Why Shouldn't A Lady Ask A Guy She Wants Out??? by olasmith10(m): 1:21pm On Aug 07, 2014
while I think its a good idea as it lightens d guys worries and burden, I still condemn it cos of this singular fact that a lady who isn't really into u will tell u either stylishly or point blank that she isn't interested.. but most guys won't reject such offer if its vice versa . They will simply smile and cook up a lie that they also had it in mind.. but truth is, he's got no feelings for d lady.. d relationship will nose dive immediately he sees someone he loves..
then we will now c a thread with d legendary "y guys don't love who loves them "

nb: its Not in all case like this. some actually feel each others vibes.

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Re: Why Shouldn't A Lady Ask A Guy She Wants Out??? by Nobody: 1:59pm On Aug 07, 2014
olasmith10: while I think its a good idea as it lightens d guys worries and burden, I still condemn it cos of this singular fact that a lady who isn't really into u will tell u either stylishly or point blank that she isn't interested.. but most guys won't reject such offer if its vice versa . They will simply smile and cook up a lie that they also had it in mind.. but truth is, he's got no feelings for d lady.. d relationship will nose dive immediately he sees someone he loves..
then we will now c a thread with d legendary "y guys don't love who loves them "

nb: its Not in all case like this. some actually feel each others vibes.

this absolutely untrue! First, not all guys sleep around. We also have ladies who would say yes to anyone with a bit more cash. What should guys with cash and looking for love do then? Should they just sit back and not ask ladies out just becos many ladies would say yes to him for him money and not out of true love?

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Re: Why Shouldn't A Lady Ask A Guy She Wants Out??? by olasmith10(m): 2:44pm On Aug 07, 2014
craziebone:

this absolutely untrue! First, not all guys sleep around. We also have ladies who would say yes to anyone with a bit more cash. What should guys with cash and looking for love do then? Should they just sit back and not ask ladies out just becos many ladies would say yes to him for him money and not out of true love?

"absolutely untrue " are u sure.. is it a fact or a conjecture?
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Re: Why Shouldn't A Lady Ask A Guy She Wants Out??? by MizMyColi(f): 3:35pm On Aug 07, 2014
The woman is wired to be pursued, not pursue.

But then, in today's world, anything can happen cheesy
Re: Why Shouldn't A Lady Ask A Guy She Wants Out??? by Blockus: 3:36pm On Aug 07, 2014
LaurelP: Norms and stereotypes


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Re: Why Shouldn't A Lady Ask A Guy She Wants Out??? by Blockus: 3:38pm On Aug 07, 2014
MizMyColi: The woman is wired taught to be pursued, not pursue.

But then, in today's world, anything can happen cheesy



Dont Thank Me, Its the Lords doing.

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Re: Why Shouldn't A Lady Ask A Guy She Wants Out??? by MizMyColi(f): 3:53pm On Aug 07, 2014
undecided Like the man is taught to be the Head of a family?


Tradition, when successfully handed down to a generation becomes Culture

Culture: The ideas, customs, and social behaviour of a particular people or society. - wikipedia

Now you know why the topic in question is considered absurd. But then undecided anything can happen.

Don't Thank Me, Its the Lords doing.



Blockus:



Dont Thank Me, Its the Lords doing.
Re: Why Shouldn't A Lady Ask A Guy She Wants Out??? by Nobody: 3:58pm On Aug 07, 2014
For wat! If a guy I like doesn't ask me out den simple he doesn't want me so y shuld I waste my time wen dere r millions running after me. Plssssssssz
Re: Why Shouldn't A Lady Ask A Guy She Wants Out??? by Ranchhoddas: 7:41pm On Aug 07, 2014
rozzay: For wat! If a guy I like doesn't ask me out den simple he doesn't want me so y shuld I waste my time wen dere r millions running after me. Plssssssssz
millions?plssssssssz ...i'm sure they aren't up to 1.5#na joke oo#
Re: Why Shouldn't A Lady Ask A Guy She Wants Out??? by jnrbayano(m): 8:27pm On Aug 07, 2014
Op,

Someone just answered the question you posed. She said that millions go after her, so why do you think she should ask a guy out?

The solution lay with those "millions" who run after her, and they are guys like you and me. If you can get them to stop the running-after, you might have succeeded in turning the tables, because a single girl needs a single guy to lean on. Blame nature for that.

But can you do the bold? It's no brainer, you can't, and therefore, Statusquo ante.

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