rozzay:
Uve been noticed by me. Thank u

If it's in good faith, I accept.

jideomowunmi:

Of cos he is never useless...am sure he will definitely have a man stuff to attend too..maybe take his car to d mechanics or prolly do something else..and besides..i stated we r help mates..so he can decide to wanna help out in d kitchen too..i wasn't saying we ladies shoud do d whole stuff...am saying while doing some..d so called husband too shud join in and help..at least I av an elder brother dat just sits on d chair and watch football all day on Saturday and whenever he is at home knowing his wife will do all d necessary stuffs..maybe dats why I don't even pray to marry a man like him...

ahaha!

Its alright ma, I got your points

jnrbayano:

Maid is a househelp that earns a leaving from performing the tasks assigned to her by her master/mistress

She is always on a servant capacity.

A househelp is someone that assists the home, have a general compensation package and treated often as a member of the household. She can be a relation, a friends child etc

Anyhow you see it, I believe I have explained my action.

Once again, maid is not a derogatory word. Even a servant is not derogatory too. Some folks can call her a househelp and look at her with disdain while others will call her a maid and treat her with respect.

No wonder some Nigerians crucify Tonto Dike whenever she calls that girl "her maid".

Op, would have loved to see your topic read: Is it right when the wife washes her husband's and children's clothes?

jmoore: It is wrong!! It is a crime against humanity!! The woman should also not cook for her husband, she is not a cook but an equal partner.

Op, how old are you?

Best response!! Me thinks people are taking this civilisation a tad too far.

Very soon, they will ask if its right for a wife to sleep with her hubby.

Until people stop seeing marriage as a business deal but partnership, we will keep entertaining these kinda questions.

Who am I to decide what is right or wrong? ... I wash my husband's cloths when I have the time... plus there is a laundry dude and washing machine.

if I dont wash my partners clothes he will think it is an end time things
Mine doesn't know how his clothes gets washed or ironed but they magically appears neat in his wardrobe.
He is a senior network engineer for Barclays and only bread winner while I work part time and save most of my money.
I have been with one oloriburuku of a yahoo guy in the past who always beat me when maga never pay so you see why i appreciate my hubby and feel washing his clothes is the responsible thing to do? Or maybe i am wrong sha

PS THIS IS VIA A WASHING MACHINE THO I JUST STUFF THEM IN AND EVEN LOAD THEM IN THE DRYER AFTER. ONLY STRESS IS PRESSING. HOW ABOUT IN NIGERIA HOW DO PEOPLE WITH NO MACHINE DO THEIR LAUNDRY THE HANDS WILL BECOME SO STRONG JESUS. THANK GOD FOR HOUSEHELP

If you love your husband, washing his clothes and cleaning up after him will come to you naturally, no one forces anyone to wash clothes.

I will take care of my baby in every way possible. I will wash his clothes, his shorts, his hankies. I will make him meals which name, he cant even pronounce.


And...he will take care of me, spoil me too in his own way.

There is absolutely nothing wrong with a wife doing the laundry for her husband. This does not make her a servant.

Acidosis:
you mean you'll wash my clothes?

**dancing awilo**

Go and sit down joor

Acidosis:
you mean you'll wash my clothes?

**dancing awilo**

Go and sit down joor!

Even oyinbo that you are trying copy feminism from do laundry for their husbands
. ... honestly I don't just understand some ladies argument these days

SirAweezy: Even oyinbo that you are trying copy feminism from do laundry for their husbands
. ... honestly I don't just understand some ladies argument these days

Which ladies are you talking about?

Machine Wash yes,Hand wash and iron No. I think ironing is stressful and should be done by the man

carefreewannabe:

Which ladies are you talking about?

"Some". honestly i just couldn't understand so many debates from some extreme feminist trying to equate marriage, there is never equality in marriage it's not a theory... it's a way of life. most ladies of this generation comes up with so many ambiguous questions about what a lady's right is etc.. the whole thing is sounding like there is a revolution against Norm and Men. imagine a question like this thread.. it's funny really.

And it's unbelievable, this could be coming from a man. well maybe a teenager anyway...

Yemlizzy:
Go and sit down joor!

If you don't wash it who will? Ask am to iron when you Don wash finish. Equal partner things.

jmoore: It is wrong!! It is a crime against humanity!! The woman should also not cook for her husband, she is not a cook but an equal partner.




Op, how old are you?

The woman should not be made to give birth. Subjecting her to bondage for 9 months is very wicked.

When they told me they had a ganja market in Nairaland.Me no believe.

SirAweezy:

"Some". honestly i just couldn't understand so many debates from some extreme feminist trying to equate marriage, there is never equality in marriage it's not a theory... it's a way of life. most ladies of this generation comes up with so many ambiguous questions about what a lady's right is etc.. the whole thing is sounding like there is a revolution against Norm and Men. imagine a question like this thread.. it's funny really.

And it's unbelievable, this could be coming from a man. well maybe a teenager anyway...

Yet this thread was created by a male and majority of females before you answered it was ok to do hubby's laundry hence my question.

I wash only his inner wears and datz it. Anyother cloth apart from these goes 2 d laundry house. But if he decides 2 wash by himself, no prob I will help him fix d water and get detergent .
I already have loads of work on my hands.

andromida: If she wants to i guess its O.K.

My sister, it is not a matter of if she wants. It is her responsibility. If she likes, she may cede it to a washer man.

snazzylove: I wash only his inner wears and datz it. Anyother cloth apart from these goes 2 d laundry house. But if he decides 2 wash by himself, no prob I will help him fix d water and get detergent .
I already have loads of work on my hands.

Since u think u av too much to handle, don't u equally think that ur man needs a second wife to reduce ur load of responsibilities. Will that solve the problem?

I am now beginning to know why the rise in divorce cases.

Benez:

My sister, it is not a matter of if she wants. It is her responsibility. If she likes, she may cede it to a washer man.

When she cedes it to the washer man she does not want to. The end point is clean clothes. Washer man, washing machine,washing wife. Whatever will work for her.

Benez:
Since u think u av too much to handle, don't u equally think that ur man needs a second wife to reduce ur load of responsibilities. Will that solve the problem?
I am now beginning to know why the rise in divorce cases.

[quote author=Benez]

Instead of solving the problem he brings home another wife, what if the new wife does not like washing his clothes what then?

Husbands wash their wives' clothes too.
So no there nothing wrong with the wife washing her husband's clothes too.

Acidosis:
and while the wife is doing all these, the husband would be asleep, right?

The way some women describe the role of the woman ehn, one would think the man is useless in the home.

How about you give us a list of what men do without exaggeration? That'll be nice....

Benez:

Since u think u av too much to handle, don't u equally think that ur man needs a second wife to reduce ur load of responsibilities. Will that solve the problem?

I am now beginning to know why the rise in divorce cases.

Look how bitter you sound over how a stranger chose to run her home. She even seems happy sef n while you're all squeezed up... #justsaying


Not all households must operate the same way.

Stephenem: I have seen marriages in which wives wash their husbands' clothes regularly. This makes me wonder if that's right. In my humble opinion, I feel that it's unfair when the wife is the one who washes for her husband. A wife is not a servant, but an equal partner. Anyway, I may be wrong. So let's hear from you, is it right for a husband to give his wife his clothes to wash? Bless you?

@ bolded, wives and husbands are equal partners however, clothes must be washed when there is no washing machine .

There is nothing wrong for a wife to wash her husbands' clothes and vice versa. The person readily available should do it.

I guess you are coming from giving wife clothes to wash... hmmm

It depends on the dynamics of the home

Adaeze003:

How about you give us a list of what men do without exaggeration? That'll be nice....

Was going to ask that

Lets assume two working spouses

Benez:

Since u think u av too much to handle, don't u equally think that ur man needs a second wife to reduce ur load of responsibilities. Will that solve the problem?

I am now beginning to know why the rise in divorce cases.

Its people like you dat turns their wives to househelp and still see nothing wrong with it

Adaeze003:

How about you give us a list of what men do without exaggeration? That'll be nice....

1. Thinking, providing, strategizing (landlord wahala, bills, Generator, electric stuffs, plumbing works, relocation plans, etc) & financial planning

2. Laundry

3. Risk taking (CEOs earn millions/billions for simply taking risks, while entry level workers earn averagely for working tirelessly).
Armed Robbers target CEOs and husbands.

4. Cooking

5. S E X: eja. culating does in fact cause a loss of what the Chinese Taoists call chi. Chi is the life force energy that gives us our passionate nature in life-passion for everything we do. Imagine a man depositing his life force energy 4, 5, 6 rounds times per night; and the woman just lie there laughing, grinning and speaking in foreign languages (I call it unexplainable excitement).

6. Comforting

7. Et Cetera.

8. Not applicable to all men