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Top 10 Ways To Make Women Chase You by Mosino95(m): 2:45pm On Aug 15, 2014
We did a small poll during one of
our extended lunch sessions-that
of asking who’s the “man of the
moment”. All we men came up
with various stories of our winning
over women. Some success stories
included approaching like a
gentleman, talking her into his
charms within minutes of meeting
and dropping compliments with
panache much before dropping
her home. But not one story was
about how they made those
gorgeous lasses chase them. And
the prettier sex agreed too: they
love it when their man is not so
easy to get and they have to chase
him. So we devised 10 simple ways
to make the ladies swoon and
follow us!

Make Your First Impression
Count


DO NOT fumble. The fact that most
guys act nervous on the very first
date itself kills the entire essence
of the purpose. There can be
nothing worse than not having to
say anything to each other the first
time you come across a woman.
Act confident and don’t say
anything stupid to show that you’re
braving a storm inside your head.
Let her take cues, guess answers to
your questions and call it a night
leaving her wanting to know more.

Be A Challenge

Instead of doing the hard work,
create situations where she has do
the chasing instead. Don’t be the
desperate, needy, and always-
eager-to-please guy. Come across
as a powerful guy, who has a lot
going on his life and wouldn’t go
after a woman. Instead, build the
mystery factor and draw them
towards you.

Ask The Right Questions

You are doomed forever if your
opening statement is “Do you have
a boyfriend”. Period. Women
generally think of us with a one-
track mind, and this is your chance
to prove them wrong. Never get
into silly questions or details.
Instead, ask her what’s her
equation with pets. Or what’s her
favourite genre of music and that
you could play the song once she
agrees.

Don’t Linger

Too much of anything is bad. And
trust us, women don’t like men
hovering around them all the time
and “Baby’-ing them. Give them the
chance to yearn for you. Stay close,
but stay away. Let them come after
you when you make yourself
scarce. In other words, use
absence to make her heart grow
fonder.

Pay Attention To Small Details

Buying her a bouquet of roses
everyday or dropping
obvious compliments aren’t going
to earn you any brownie points.
Women are suckers for details. Tell
her how her dress reminded you
of your favourite love story writer,
or drop her a text about how she’s
in your thoughts even when you
are not around. She will definitely
come back for more of those.

Know Where To Draw The Line

You like her, she likes you back.
Next thing: You ask her out on a
date. And again. And again. Stop
doing that right away. Give her the
chance to miss you. If she asks you
out for dinner one night, play
around a bit. Tell her you are not
sure, you might have to check. Of
course, don’t keep refusing her
every time; else you might lose the
bird in hand. Figure out the real
way and you could be the real
boss!

Test Her

In an interview, the balance strikes
when both parties have doubts and
both their doubts are clarified. Do
not go on blurting out everything
about yourself without asking her a
single thing. Find out what her likes
and dislikes are, and whether she
fits the bill too or not. It’s crucial to
do so, as this gives women an
assurance that you are equally
interested to take matters forward.
Add a pinch of humour to the
questions and you are on the right
path, my friend!

Know The Difference Between
‘Cocky’ And ‘Funny’


If you can make a woman laugh,
she will be yours. And we don’t
doubt this fact one bit. But there’s
a huge difference between being
funny and being cocky. Don’t ever
try to demean her (especially in
front of others by trying to prove
how sarcastic you can be), or she
would never be yours. Crack her
up with good humour and that will
keep her thinking more about you.

Hold On To Your Cards

Transparency is good. But mystery
is better. At least in when it comes
to wooing women and let them
follow up on that front. Don’t be an
open book. Build some suspense
and create some mystery. These
are foolproof ways of creating
attraction-an attraction so strong
that she can’t resist chasing you.

Stop Chasing

There are only few ways that you
can be different. Don’t go chasing
her like any other guy out there.
Let her take the first step, for a
change. Use the above tips and
make sure you are not the one
standing outside her balcony every
night like Romeo. It’s time for
some role reversal, bro!

Source: nollywoodnice.com/?p=11998

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Re: Top 10 Ways To Make Women Chase You by Nobody: 2:52pm On Aug 15, 2014
Noted!!!!!! Hope it works in Naija sha?

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Re: Top 10 Ways To Make Women Chase You by Nobody: 3:02pm On Aug 15, 2014
Some niggas go cram d above tips 2 secure dem babes not rememberin dat som of dem babes dey change gameplan & formation 2 handle d niggas til tears of joy comot 4 dia eyes grin grin grin

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Re: Top 10 Ways To Make Women Chase You by PROCTOR: 3:07pm On Aug 15, 2014
Ok
Re: Top 10 Ways To Make Women Chase You by moscobabs(m): 3:17pm On Aug 15, 2014
get rich ..could be by any means
Re: Top 10 Ways To Make Women Chase You by Nobody: 3:17pm On Aug 15, 2014
Guys of nowadays lack confidence, hence the reason why they think they can buy love, not knowing money only buys sex.

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Re: Top 10 Ways To Make Women Chase You by Snoggy(m): 3:39pm On Aug 15, 2014
Please, how can I make men chase me? sad
Re: Top 10 Ways To Make Women Chase You by stinggy(m): 4:04pm On Aug 15, 2014
Snoggy: Please, how can I make men chase me? sad
Niqqar you're gay
Re: Top 10 Ways To Make Women Chase You by Mosino95(m): 4:06pm On Aug 15, 2014
Snoggy: Please, how can I make men chase me? sad
undecided
Snoggy: Please, how can I make men chase me? sad
Re: Top 10 Ways To Make Women Chase You by hatux: 5:02pm On Aug 15, 2014
And why should women chase you, when you ain't having ebola
Re: Top 10 Ways To Make Women Chase You by Awho(m): 6:00pm On Aug 15, 2014
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Re: Top 10 Ways To Make Women Chase You by Nobody: 6:28pm On Aug 15, 2014
Living an expensive lifestyle attracts women and makes them crave for you like the drug that treats Ebola
Re: Top 10 Ways To Make Women Chase You by lusciouslex: 8:02pm On Aug 15, 2014
eighTHREAD: Guys of nowadays lack confidence, hence the reason why they think they can buy love, not knowing money only buys sex.
. Show me one girl who would say no to wealth? The trips overseas, the cash flow, the cars, the clothes, the mansions and the class. People can always adapt and adjust to the situation they find themselves. Besides, Lust breeds love with time.
Re: Top 10 Ways To Make Women Chase You by jnrbayano(m): 8:26pm On Aug 15, 2014
I don't want women to chase me.

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Re: Top 10 Ways To Make Women Chase You by Rooneyboy(m): 3:39am On Aug 16, 2014
lovely tips! book marking
Re: Top 10 Ways To Make Women Chase You by fyneboi79(m): 6:35am On Aug 16, 2014
Mosino95:

Source: nollywoodnice.com/?p=11998
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