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Will My Coming To America Or Uk Make Me Stingy? by ridimic1: 12:09am On Aug 18, 2014 |
i am intending msc student whose plan is to later settle in the us,i am also a staunch giver(didnt mean to brag ). from what i have gathered is that when you are living abroad ,ur spending is limited and are always proper. a dollar or pound is always meant for something..i also heard people hardly pay tithe and they pay little offerings and all these leading to stingyness..so im asking those in diaspora...will my coming abroad affecting my already built spending nigeria culture, those who are givers ,did it affect you ?becos i dnt wna loose d giving attitude while abroad..thanks |
Re: Will My Coming To America Or Uk Make Me Stingy? by Skillz02(m): 1:07am On Aug 18, 2014 |
Google it out since you dey doubt your self 1 Like |
Re: Will My Coming To America Or Uk Make Me Stingy? by dytbabe: 1:42am On Aug 18, 2014 |
U can only give when u have na Those that are stingy don't have ni 4 Likes |
Re: Will My Coming To America Or Uk Make Me Stingy? by VantagePoint: 2:26am On Aug 18, 2014 |
dytbabe:WORD! |
Re: Will My Coming To America Or Uk Make Me Stingy? by Allohrandy(m): 3:50am On Aug 18, 2014 |
not everybody is rich in America. how can you give if you don't have money? Nigerians living abroad are not stingy. most are living pay check to pay check and are struggling to pay their bills. |
Re: Will My Coming To America Or Uk Make Me Stingy? by ridimic1: 11:27am On Aug 18, 2014 |
U don't wait till u get before u give,,u first of al give so that u will get inorder to gv.. So its clear dat it changes people giving culture..nawa o |
Re: Will My Coming To America Or Uk Make Me Stingy? by Omojayejaye(m): 9:36pm On Aug 18, 2014 |
OP..when you get there..your eyes go open..continue dashing your mo#£¥ out in the name of tithe..Mr.father xmas... |
Re: Will My Coming To America Or Uk Make Me Stingy? by ridimic1: 12:53am On Aug 19, 2014 |
tithinh is not dashin of money.......and dis goes to show people abroad dont pay tithe |
Re: Will My Coming To America Or Uk Make Me Stingy? by oncolor1: 2:16am On Aug 19, 2014 |
ridimic1: tithinh is not dashin of money.......and dis goes to show people abroad dont pay tithe Bro, wise up, God does not have a bank account. You are doing Father Christmas to whoever you are giving your tithe to. 1 Like |
Re: Will My Coming To America Or Uk Make Me Stingy? by Mystiqme: 12:47pm On Aug 19, 2014 |
ridimic1: U don't wait till u get before u give,,u first of al give so that u will get inorder to gv..I don't understand this sentence. Will you then steal to give? If you don't have, how can you give? Anyway, that's a generalization. People in the USA pay tithe and send money to Nigeria. In 2011, Nigerians sent a total of $20 billion from the USA, ranking 5th in the world with regard to remittances. http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2271455/Revealed-How-immigrants-America-sending-120-BILLION-struggling-families-home.html 1 Like |
Re: Will My Coming To America Or Uk Make Me Stingy? by GboyegaD(m): 4:50am On Aug 20, 2014 |
Oga, you give what you have. Truth is when you live at a place where you pay bills, you pay your bills first and then give from the excesses. We give but only when the need is reasonable. I believe people say those abroad are stingy because they want us to fund their excessive lifestyle back home. |
Re: Will My Coming To America Or Uk Make Me Stingy? by clemmonce(m): 1:19pm On Aug 20, 2014 |
dytbabe:and who told those that give have enough? let me tell you something givers give even when they don't have enough it is in them . while stingy people don't give because they feel they don't have enough so they don't need to give. and I have come to realise that givers are actually the most successful in the world . one of the keys to success is you must learn to give I mean give even when you really have enough . for your info giving is not always sweet because you have to forgo something to give. people that have something to do with their resources but they decided to give. To the Op as fae you have been giving ever since then no situation can change you . even if you get your money by working 22hours it won't atop you from giving. it is your kind of person . I am sure it because of your giving attitude that you are were you are today. No be you wan travel so? goodluck. 2 Likes |
Re: Will My Coming To America Or Uk Make Me Stingy? by dytbabe: 1:21pm On Aug 20, 2014 |
clemmonce: and who told those that give have enough? let me tell you something givers give even when they don't have enough it is in them . while stingy people don't give because they feel they don't have enough so they don't need to give. and I have come to realise that givers are actually the most successful in the world . one of the keys to success is you must learn to give I mean give even when you really have enough . for your info giving is not always sweet because you have to forgo something to give. people that have something to do with their resources but they decided to give. To the Op as fae you have been giving ever since then no situation can change you . even if you get your money by working 22hours it won't atop you from giving. it is your kind of person . I am sure it because of your giving attitude that you are were you are today. No be you wan travel so? goodluck. Sobs So sweet Sniffs |
Re: Will My Coming To America Or Uk Make Me Stingy? by Enahi(f): 3:56pm On Aug 20, 2014 |
ridimic1: i am intending msc student whose plan is to later settle in the us,i am also a staunch giver(didnt mean to brag ). from what i have gathered is that when you are living abroad ,ur spending is limited and are always proper. a dollar or pound is always meant for something..i also heard people hardly pay tithe and they pay little offerings and all these leading to stingyness..so im asking those in diaspora...will my coming abroad affecting my already built spending nigeria culture, those who are givers ,did it affect you ?becos i dnt wna loose d giving attitude while abroad..thanksYes you will become very stingy,I don't know what country to place first sef between Americans and Europeans. My Mum is very stingy . |
Re: Will My Coming To America Or Uk Make Me Stingy? by justwise(m): 4:03pm On Aug 20, 2014 |
ridimic1: U don't wait till u get before u give,,u first of al give so that u will get inorder to gv.. I'm not sure you are a true giver, if you truly are then you wouldn't have started this thread. Genuine givers don't announce it, they don't expect something in return or want to be praised. |
Re: Will My Coming To America Or Uk Make Me Stingy? by esere826: 4:29pm On Aug 20, 2014 |
ridimic1: i am intending msc student whose plan is to later settle in the us,i am also a staunch giver(didnt mean to brag ). from what i have gathered is that when you are living abroad ,ur spending is limited and are always proper. a dollar or pound is always meant for something..i also heard people hardly pay tithe and they pay little offerings and all these leading to stingyness..so im asking those in diaspora...will my coming abroad affecting my already built spending nigeria culture, those who are givers ,did it affect you ?becos i dnt wna loose d giving attitude while abroad..thanks I'm not sure if your ascription of "GIVING" is: 1) meant soley within the christian tradition of church related giving or 2) if it also encompasses your 'above average' generosity to all (both religious and others) I'll assume is the second and make suggestions based on this. You'll learn to be wiser with your money if in the UK... so you can easilly continue with your giving if you are ready to deprive yourself of some little comforts. For example, you can walk instead of taking the bus or train, save on heating, cook always, avoid nigerian foods that are expensive, buy cheap basic clothing etc But while doing this, avoid using your credit card to sponsor your genorosity. Along the line, if you have a good source of income (either through God's reward, luck, or smartness) you can then afford to be both generous and spendthrift in luxury 2 Likes |
Re: Will My Coming To America Or Uk Make Me Stingy? by ronaldreagan26: 4:37pm On Aug 20, 2014 |
justwise:. Gbam, well said. |
Re: Will My Coming To America Or Uk Make Me Stingy? by anonimi: 5:00pm On Aug 20, 2014 |
esere826: The bottomline however is not to GIVE one's money anyhow to lazy, able bodied relations & friends who will enjoy (on owambes, parties, frolicking etc) the result of one's self-deprivation that resulted in the savings itself. Better to channel it towards education and health initiatives for clearly under-privileged children towards a better society overall. |
Re: Will My Coming To America Or Uk Make Me Stingy? by esere826: 12:00am On Aug 21, 2014 |
anonimi: over the years i've learnt not to advice people on the technicality of giving, except they seek such opinion or I suspect that their actions are ruled by hypnotic fear from which they at least faintly desire to unlock themselves from some folks actually feel fulfilled only when they hollow themselves out to others some parents fry akara in order to give their teenage sons money to buy beer so the sons don't suffer from inferiority complex 2 Likes |
Re: Will My Coming To America Or Uk Make Me Stingy? by Lexusgs430: 12:09am On Aug 21, 2014 |
That is probably the problem, the level of expectations vis a vis the grey line in the ethics of giving. You need to sight examples of giving, so it can properly be analysed. And secondly, you can only give, when the pot has something in it. I also hear that in the western world, their is nothing like free money. As we know in Nigeria, due to our level corruption and lack of accountability, the former is plentiful. When you eventually relocate, your thought - process might change or not, when you realise that every penny spent is earned!!!!!! |
Re: Will My Coming To America Or Uk Make Me Stingy? by ridimic1: 8:45pm On Aug 24, 2014 |
justwise: im not ere to anounce if im a true giver or to impress people..didnt u read my starting message..i said i didnt mean to brag....my main aim of starting dis thread is because...i jus wna kn how spending feels like in d uk or us as a diasporan..becos i learnt every one abroad esp in the uk are very stingy(akagum ).. if im anouncing my myself then i wil probably be teling u al about any charity work i have done or how i have given to people or so.. or so,,,dats wat we call anouncing |
Re: Will My Coming To America Or Uk Make Me Stingy? by ridimic1: 8:47pm On Aug 24, 2014 |
clemmonce: and who told those that give have enough? let me tell you something givers give even when they don't have enough it is in them . while stingy people don't give because they feel they don't have enough so they don't need to give. and I have come to realise that givers are actually the most successful in the world . one of the keys to success is you must learn to give I mean give even when you really have enough . for your info giving is not always sweet because you have to forgo something to give. people that have something to do with their resources but they decided to give. To the Op as fae you have been giving ever since then no situation can change you . even if you get your money by working 22hours it won't atop you from giving. it is your kind of person . I am sure it because of your giving attitude that you are were you are today. No be you wan travel so? goodluck. well said..its nice to know that living abroad wont change someones giving attitude |
Re: Will My Coming To America Or Uk Make Me Stingy? by ridimic1: 8:50pm On Aug 24, 2014 |
pls if u can push dis to front page...thanks |
Re: Will My Coming To America Or Uk Make Me Stingy? by justwise(m): 10:06am On Aug 25, 2014 |
ridimic1: ridimic1: i am intending msc student whose plan is to later settle in the us, i am also a staunch giver(didnt mean to brag ). from what i have gathered is that when you are living abroad ,ur spending is limited and are always proper. a dollar or pound is always meant for something..i also heard people hardly pay tithe and they pay little offerings and all these leading to stingyness..so im asking those in diaspora...will my coming abroad affecting my already built spending nigeria culture, those who are givers ,did it affect you ?becos i dnt wna loose d giving attitude while abroad..thanks You bragged already by telling us that you are a staunch giver 1 Like |
Re: Will My Coming To America Or Uk Make Me Stingy? by dridowu: 11:32am On Aug 25, 2014 |
Givers Never Lack
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Re: Will My Coming To America Or Uk Make Me Stingy? by ridimic1: 8:19pm On Aug 25, 2014 |
only GIVERS knew i wasnt bragging |
Re: Will My Coming To America Or Uk Make Me Stingy? by Nobody: 12:47am On Aug 26, 2014 |
You can't give what you don't have. Anyways if you decide to live in America then prepare to be stingy. Those people get paid peanuts 1 Like |
Re: Will My Coming To America Or Uk Make Me Stingy? by ridimic1: 1:45am On Aug 26, 2014 |
jennykadry: You can't give what you don't have. lool wot of uk...i tink d uk is strict n stingy,,from wat i heard sha.....america is still giver friendly.... |
Re: Will My Coming To America Or Uk Make Me Stingy? by Nobody: 1:51am On Aug 26, 2014 |
ridimic1: Naaa. UK offered me better pay but America that's a story for another day . Hubby has his American roots intact and I hope he doesn't ask us to move someday seeing that he has a lot of commitments there . I no go gree |
Re: Will My Coming To America Or Uk Make Me Stingy? by ridimic1: 1:53am On Aug 26, 2014 |
lol which country r u |
Re: Will My Coming To America Or Uk Make Me Stingy? by Nobody: 1:54am On Aug 26, 2014 |
Australia |
Re: Will My Coming To America Or Uk Make Me Stingy? by ridimic1: 1:59am On Aug 26, 2014 |
oh nice...do u guz receive much over der to be givers |
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