If you want to know how women really choose men, don't
bother asking a woman.
True, when it comes to relationships, women are in charge
of the selection process because they control access to
sexuality — they let men "in" — so you'd think they'd know
exactly why and how they choose their partners. But the
problem is, women lie. They lie to men; they lie to
themselves (and they are perfectly capable of believing their
own lies).
If you ask any woman what she's looking for in a man,
she'll come out with a long list of ennobling qualities: a
sense of humor; a guy who's nice to her and treats her
well; good values; a strong moral character, etc.
Uh huh. Right. And she'll leave footprints all over Mr. Sense
of Humor as she scrambles to be first in line when an
arrogant, philandering, single doctor roars up in his Ferrari.
woman, please
Let's be honest — if women really chose men based on
what they say they're looking for, then every nice, average
guy out there would be besieged with females trying to go
out with him. But nice, average guys generally stay home
on the weekends with a date from the back room of the
local video store.
Many women lie. They are experts at self-deceit because if
they ever admitted to themselves what they really want from
men, then they'd be forced to acknowledge that they don't
really want a "nice" guy.
The most important reality a man can understand about
female behavior is this: never pay attention to what a
woman says — watch what she actually does .
truth is in her actions
And what does she actually do? When it comes to choosing
men, she heads straight for the cash. What women want
most from men — and therefore the criterion most
significant to them in selecting a mate — is money.
For the majority of women, dating and marriage are
businesses. Women marry up, not down. A man will marry
a woman who scrubs the floor at a slaughterhouse if she's
nice and pretty enough — but if she's nice and she's pretty
and she's working at the slaughterhouse, you can rest
assured she's there because she's got her eye on the owner
of the company.
When a woman says all the good ones are taken, she
means all the ones with money. The man who changes her
oil or checks her groceries might very well be a great guy
capable of loving her dearly, but she wouldn't even consider
him as a potential suitor because he doesn't have enough
earning power.
Some women are blatant about their mercenary choices,
openly choosing men with substantial material assets that
they can sex-ploit . But most are subconscious hypocrites,
screening out less successful men without admitting it to
themselves. They publicly announce that all they want is a
nice guy, but privately disregard any men who don't meet
their elevated standards for money, success, and status.
There's proof that all they want is money

In one breath they proclaim, "I don't care how much money
a man makes. I can make my own money," and in the next,
"But whoever I date has to have a status (read: money)
job." All other men without this "status job," no matter how
nice, intelligent or funny, will be ignored.
The flagrant hypocrisy is brushed under the carpet. The
only reason a woman will choose a man without money is if
he's on the fast track to a high-earning career — she views
this as an investment of her time and a payment plan for the
use of her female goods.
Clinical studies, conducted by Robert Trivers et al., show
that women value financial prospects about twice as highly
as men do, having higher standards regarding financial
prospects at all stages of a relationship. In fact, in any given
year, American men who marry generally earn 50% more
money than men of the same age who do not marry.
woman want status
Women place a high value on a good education, the
assurance of a promising career, and ambition, all of which
indicate potential for making money. The socioeconomic
status of males has a decisive influence on female sexual
response at all levels of intimacy, even offsetting male
unattractiveness. In one study, college women were shown
photographs of handsome and homely men in three different
attires:
Blazer, shirt, designer tie, and Rolex watch (these men
were described as doctors)
Plain white shirt (these men were described as teachers)
Uniform of a Burger King employee.
The women viewed the photographs with their descriptions
and stated their willingness to engage in relationships with
the men. The study found that the women were significantly
more willing to engage in relationships with high status/
homely males than with either the medium or low status,
handsome males.
So money — or the assurance of money in the future — is
the single most significant criterion in how women choose
men. The blame for this phenomenon lies in our society — a
society which promotes female arrogance and the
manipulation of men; a society which panders to females
across the board.
In a day and age when women are screaming about equal
rights, can there be any excuse for the hypocrisy of female
mercenary behavior? When women earn as much — or
more — than men, why should guys be forced to hand over
their hard-earned cash to women? And why should men
allow themselves to be chosen primarily on their ability to
earn?
men love sex
The reason is simple: because men want sex, they let
women get away with this — giving free rein to female sex-
ploitation . Men are brought up by their mothers to cater to
women, to bring them flowers, to hold open doors, to act as
chauffeurs — and to pay for access to sex.
Most women will not allow access to that sex unless the
man has first shelled out quite of bit of money for drinks,
dinners, entertainment, etc. A woman expects a free ride just
because she is biologically female; she expects men to pay
for sex. She will vehemently deny this. But she chooses
men in the first place precisely because of their ability to
pay.
This is wrong. Dating should be about partnership , not a
LovePeddler/john relationship. It should be about two people
getting together because they like each other and enjoy
each other's company, not because a man is paying for a
woman's time. Women need to learn to respect men, not
use them and ruthlessly sex-ploit them.
But if male-female relationships are going to change for the
better, it's entirely up to us to enforce the change. If we stop
paying for women, then women will be forced to choose us
for qualities other than the size of our wallets.
Resource:
http://psychology.unn.ac.ukz

soo how much did she ask u to give her??

Babes be like judas, dem too like cash

some babes don't knw what they want.........

pweedyuz: soo how much did she ask u to give her??

See one of them here o

Men are cunny.

GodsDivinefavor: Men are cunny.

Yes men are cunny but women are cunnier.

True , true. But on a personal observation why do men see every pretty fair girl as a potential runs girl. I don't understand this.

nellaluv: True , true. But on a personal observation why do men see every pretty fair girl as a potential runs girl. I don't understand this.

Hahahaha, you wanna know why?

Joenice: Hahahaha, you wanna know why?

yeah. I wanna know

naija girls are the most guilty. some are fond of sex-ploiting men at every opportunity.

That is if I notice her dirty nyash...

No one is indispebsible.

But girls love status, that's their number one criteria ( banker, doctor, oil company staff ). Whether he is gateman or admin staff, they no know.

It is only a girl who has dated any of these in her past, can go for anything less.

That's where fish brain comes to play..

girls are so selfish

This post is on point

women want a guy that will love them unconditionally , while they are very calculative when it comes to love matters .

Very very true o...even though the girl might not ask for money directly (she might be busy making her own o) but she still need to feel financially secured with the man she is dating


Everything sha lead to one thing


You can't lose women chasing money
Buh you can lose money chasing women...

#chasethemoney

This one na serious booking. lemme conclude the reading..

nellaluv: True , true. But on a personal observation why do men see every pretty fair girl as a potential runs girl. I don't understand this.

Insecure men.

Long article/thread, u should've write women looks for MONEY before they date.

Women are selfish.

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Nice writeup brother!!

If I add my own, ladies will be hating.....

It seems all women are d same , fish brain thinking only forward

Add me up 29680E6E

.kkkk

nellaluv: True , true. But on a personal observation why do men see every pretty fair girl as a potential runs girl. I don't understand this.

Fair beautiful chic ..are u a potential runz babe ?? na question o

kendrababy: Add me up 29680E6E

I dey fear all dis babe wey just dey drop pin anyhow

Sometin seems amiss...make I no say anytin sha


Make I no spoil market

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bosun11:


Fair beautiful chic ..are u a potential runz babe ?? na question o

O gba du

Dubby6: Babes be like judas, dem too like cash

coming from a guy who doesn't have it, to spend it obviously

This is an epistle written by paul 2d philipians...