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My Boyfriend Has To Beat Me Up Before He Gets An Erection – Lady Opens Up by Whogoknow(m): 2:33pm On May 15, 2017
Popular Lagos-based Psychologist and Relationship therapist, Joro Olumofin, has taken to his Instagram blog page and shared the story of a lady who is experiencing one of the worst s*xual experience ever in her relationship.
According to the lady, her boyfriend has to beat her up before he gets an erection during their intercourse and she is asking if this is natural or another type of the growing domestic violence?
Here’s the message he sent to the Love Doctor;

For more tori please visit

http://whogoknow.com/2017/05/09/my-boyfriend-has-to-beat-me-up-before-he-gets-an-erection-lady-opens-up-on-problematic-sx-life/

Re: My Boyfriend Has To Beat Me Up Before He Gets An Erection – Lady Opens Up by Nobody: 2:35pm On May 15, 2017
grin

Lets not jump into condemning and nailing the man. Its a Psychological Problem only a few will understand.

Just as most women don't enjoy sex until they are beaten or hurt but their spouse.

When he comes to apologize, it becomes the best time to have sexual intercourse.

Am i lying girls? grin grin grin grin grin
Re: My Boyfriend Has To Beat Me Up Before He Gets An Erection – Lady Opens Up by Nobody: 2:39pm On May 15, 2017
Sadistic mofo

Better run for your life, he'll eventually do to you what South Africans did to my igbo brother

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Re: My Boyfriend Has To Beat Me Up Before He Gets An Erection – Lady Opens Up by Nobody: 2:48pm On May 15, 2017
neoShinto:

Sadistic mofo

Better run for your life, he'll eventually do to you what South Africans did to my igbo brother
shocked shocked shocked

Meeehnnn..this is scary sha cry cry cry

I no wan like this kinda pishure...

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Re: My Boyfriend Has To Beat Me Up Before He Gets An Erection – Lady Opens Up by Samiking(m): 2:52pm On May 15, 2017
and u nid advice?
Re: My Boyfriend Has To Beat Me Up Before He Gets An Erection – Lady Opens Up by Lastpharoah33: 2:58pm On May 15, 2017
He's still young and have to beat to get a hard on, [i][/i]who knows what will happen to you when he approaches 50 shocked
Re: My Boyfriend Has To Beat Me Up Before He Gets An Erection – Lady Opens Up by Amiano(m): 2:58pm On May 15, 2017
I tot dey said men ar moved by sight?
Re: My Boyfriend Has To Beat Me Up Before He Gets An Erection – Lady Opens Up by Nobody: 3:05pm On May 15, 2017
More like byforcefuck undecided
Re: My Boyfriend Has To Beat Me Up Before He Gets An Erection – Lady Opens Up by heykims(m): 3:08pm On May 15, 2017
It is a mental disorder
Interestingly, that's d topic I presented during my psychiatry posting in med school, PARAPHILIA..
This is called masochism. Some will even have to be beaten or humiliated before they have d urge for sex, sadism. Sadomasochism is sometimes acted out in porn movies.
That guy needs to see a mental health physician, not a psychologist..

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Re: My Boyfriend Has To Beat Me Up Before He Gets An Erection – Lady Opens Up by 3DCYCLOPS: 3:15pm On May 15, 2017
I once had a gf who told me her dirty sexual fantasy was getting beaten up a lil during sex

and she loved a$$ spanking cheesy
she could orgaasm from it grin


















These hoes ain't normal
Re: My Boyfriend Has To Beat Me Up Before He Gets An Erection – Lady Opens Up by Nobody: 3:20pm On May 15, 2017
Some do get turned on by the use of violence as a form off pre-intimacy it is a fetish that is actually not that unusual however in S&M usually the man is the one that is the submissive party.
Re: My Boyfriend Has To Beat Me Up Before He Gets An Erection – Lady Opens Up by Nobody: 3:28pm On May 15, 2017
Whogoknow:

According to the lady, her boyfriend has to beat her up before he gets an erection during their intercourse and she is asking if this is natural or another type of the growing domestic violence?

The guy needs mental evaluation.

Some may call it "kinky" sex, but let's not justify brutality just because it's happening in the bedroom.

The lady also needs to review her attitude to life. Must she keep seeing herself as a victim?

How is she putting up with all the beating in the name of "love"?

Maybe she's expecting "sexual healing"..
Re: My Boyfriend Has To Beat Me Up Before He Gets An Erection – Lady Opens Up by Jaynom(m): 4:22pm On May 15, 2017
sa·dism
ˈsāˌdizəm/
noun
the tendency to derive pleasure, especially sexual gratification, from inflicting pain, suffering, or humiliation on others.
(in general use) deliberate cruelty.
Re: My Boyfriend Has To Beat Me Up Before He Gets An Erection – Lady Opens Up by DONFASZY(m): 4:52pm On May 15, 2017
Crazy lv can turn some educated people senseless
D question is most likely can b revise as if my bf stab me wit sharp knife Wil I die
Stay dere dey wait make e dey beat u black n blue bfor intercourse for d next 5yr n check ursef on d mirror if u r normal again
Re: My Boyfriend Has To Beat Me Up Before He Gets An Erection – Lady Opens Up by hernandson(m): 5:14pm On May 15, 2017
3DCYCLOPS:
I once had a gf who told me her dirty sexual fantasy was getting beaten up a lil during sex

and she loved a$$ spanking cheesy
she could orgaasm from it grin


















These hoes ain't normal
if that she died when spanking her,u would be eating watery beans by now in kirikiri
Re: My Boyfriend Has To Beat Me Up Before He Gets An Erection – Lady Opens Up by 3DCYCLOPS: 5:17pm On May 15, 2017
hernandson:
if that she died when spanking her,u would be eating watery beans by now in kirikiri

die from me spanking her a$$??

nor be Me kill her be that...she don die b4 she rch my house

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Re: My Boyfriend Has To Beat Me Up Before He Gets An Erection – Lady Opens Up by snipesdam(m): 5:44pm On May 15, 2017
I used to know a girl back in school days. She told me she wouldn't do it if I don't force her or spank her little bit, that she likes it rough. Later found out that her BF in same lodge with usually quarrel with her often in the evening which always lead to the deed.

Some folks shaa. Psychos Everywhere

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Re: My Boyfriend Has To Beat Me Up Before He Gets An Erection – Lady Opens Up by Nobody: 5:48pm On May 15, 2017
it is not a fetush but abnormal an a mental./behavioral/spiritual problem undecided

Now,I know the story is a farce but not unlike real life abuse scenarios
Re: My Boyfriend Has To Beat Me Up Before He Gets An Erection – Lady Opens Up by Psychodavidovic(m): 6:11pm On May 15, 2017
When you watch too much fifty shades of Grey
Re: My Boyfriend Has To Beat Me Up Before He Gets An Erection – Lady Opens Up by Jfrankination(m): 7:16pm On May 15, 2017
TrapQueen77:
shocked shocked shocked
Meeehnnn..this is scary sha cry cry cry
I no wan like this kinda pishure...
Re: My Boyfriend Has To Beat Me Up Before He Gets An Erection – Lady Opens Up by stevecantrell: 8:14pm On May 15, 2017
Ive met a few females on NL who request for this treatment. Dont worry...I wont mention names kiss
Re: My Boyfriend Has To Beat Me Up Before He Gets An Erection – Lady Opens Up by Hyicene(m): 8:18pm On May 16, 2017
some galz lyk dix method sha.. brutal sex nd all dat,
Re: My Boyfriend Has To Beat Me Up Before He Gets An Erection – Lady Opens Up by meobizy(f): 9:01am On Feb 12, 2019
[O]joro and his lies.

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