Caracta: Allergy?

Hian!

Bootybuttchic: hello everyone,ever since i knew about social networking,ever since i registered,i find it difficult to chat .....its not that i hold boring conversations o,cos at first whenever i go online e.g facebook'and meet any of my pals we chat,laugh,can talk for hours,which i always liked,....but later i began staying offline even when i could be there just viewing the names of those online,and if one person sends me message i contemplate for hours before reading it ,my heart beats atimes,and it not like its a death message oo .....i dont open mails too most times,i dont whatsapp,bbm nor nimbuzz.....even when i was using my blackberry,with all the hype of the bbm,the love people had for it,plus the contact list competition my freinds talk about,i had just eight contacts ,and i chatted withh just one person,i didnt even have my freinds on my list,just mum,and sis i had left,cos six names dissappeared without my notice ......and when some of my old freinds from highschool request my phone mumber or pin from the only freind i had left,i always told her to tell them i had no phone that it had been stolen .....we have been apart for six months now,but she still tell them i had no phone or she had to ask me ,she understood my fears ,.......even at a time i hated my phone ringimg but that has stopped now.....but my chatting with people palava hasnt stopped.....i only browse with my phone cos am inquisitive,and loves reading....part of the reasons i love NL
Note:am a shy person naturally,but i can talk alot when i become familiar with people around

and is there anyone like this too,and if you arent what do you think i can do ?

Mskrisx: Booty baby it happens sometimes bt u nid to stop and get over wateva phobia or anytin dat it is.But one tim am gon say to u is dat surely u wil b fyn

Abduletudaye:

Sisi me, as you rightfully said. Its some kind of phobia. But I dnt get it. What are you afraid of? U can reply people and if they talk trash, you bone their side.

Life is simple and you can enjoy it a lot in a lot of ways. Chatting is not just for people who are loquacious. Its also a way of socializing. For instance, am following u on NL and I got ya update and decided to reply. You see, its no biggie. It really takes nothing from if you chat with people now and then. Am quite sure you would snap out of it coz I know its no medical issue.

Bootybuttchic: dont u have anything to contribute apart from picking out my mistake ...

Caracta:

Mistake? Didn't even realize that. But now that you mention it, let me read again.


I was afraid when I saw the title. Allergy is a bit strange to Africans. But now I understand the "allergy".


Well...not everyone is cut out for social media. It shouldn't bother you. I'm lazy when it comes to that too. The only thing you should address ASAP is the fear connected with it.

Afghanistan: Ex-commando. Remember me? I'm back for you again in another body. Well in response to your problem, you just need to come out of shell and be expressive. Flaunt your flair, be yourself and have that mind set that whatever action you take, you did it purposely for your own good and not the good of others. Above all, never have that fear of regret.

Bootybuttchic: new delhi u followed me down here abi


yes thank you...i will try that...*hits chest* all iz well,kill the fear

Bootybuttchic: yes thank u....i try to do that atimes,and its works,i become happy that very moment but after few days ,i start dodging again

Abduletudaye:

Why? No one wants your head.
Its ok to be shy but not this shy

Its alright when you say hi and hello there and then. You are causing no harm what so ever. Or maybe you feel sad most times or maybe you have been disappointed by certain people before but hey look on the bright side, not everyone is untrustworthy. Try to look at things using other positive angles and am sure you would be right as rain

Bootybuttchic: hello everyone,ever since i knew about social networking,ever since i registered,i find it difficult to chat .....its not that i hold boring conversations o,cos at first whenever i go online e.g facebook'and meet any of my pals we chat,laugh,can talk for hours,which i always liked,....but later i began staying offline even when i could be there just viewing the names of those online,and if one person sends me message i contemplate for hours before reading it ,my heart beats atimes,and it not like its a death message oo .....i dont open mails too most times,i dont whatsapp,bbm nor nimbuzz.....even when i was using my blackberry,with all the hype of the bbm,the love people had for it,plus the contact list competition my freinds talk about,i had just eight contacts ,and i chatted withh just one person,i didnt even have my freinds on my list,just mum,and sis i had left,cos six names dissappeared without my notice ......and when some of my old freinds from highschool request my phone mumber or pin from the only freind i had left,i always told her to tell them i had no phone that it had been stolen .....we have been apart for six months now,but she still tell them i had no phone or she had to ask me ,she understood my fears ,.......even at a time i hated my phone ringimg but that has stopped now.....but my chatting with people palava hasnt stopped.....i only browse with my phone cos am inquisitive,and loves reading....part of the reasons i love NL
Note:am a shy person naturally,but i can talk alot when i become familiar with people around

and is there anyone like this too,and if you arent what do you think i can do ?

Afghanistan:
Lol how did u know? U know sey na u Bleep up na. We no suppose dey fight. And don't think I've stopped tracking your IP address o

Bootybuttchic: why wont i know you ,even if u change to mumbai....kip tracking me....am behind you

Bootybuttchic: i dont know why tooo.......i will start trying,and praying i change...thank you

hollajay: Wow....bootybuttchic just described Me

Afghanistan:
Lol...I don't mind if we get in touch o. Mail me ur phone number.

Bootybuttchic: can i see wat i complained about

Bootybuttchic: i dont know why tooo.......i will start trying,and praying i change...thank you

Bootybuttchic: haaa so ur in dis shoe too ....do u like it

MrCork: ..i think her phobia are this homebased nairalanders...its very difficult to understand ther grammmar despite usin spell check, google check or dictionary..even me sef cant uderstand them (no offense)

..anyways..BootybuttChic is one of ma favourite people,s though. ..love her!

OohMpa: Sweery, ooh Mpa understands your internet wahala...

You prefer guys coming to your house stark nakëd, right?
Well, expect a few inches knocking on your door by 11:59pm with roses on one hand and rubber on the other...

#Sai

Justeenaleo: Sweetie
You gon be fine

Bootybuttchic: dont worry i will help you find ur meds

Sweery, please this time leave your back door open. Ooh Mpa no want another nyash bite from your bingo

hollajay: . I love it