u would agree with me that the one we love may not necessarily b d right person.

I think most pple don't end up marrying whom dey love...I wonder why anyway..& it's always sad...

It is a very sensitive matter actually nd believe me it is very common these days.I often wonder why it is like that though but your decision is nt a bad one.i wish i had done that when i met this very good girl,well educated,calm,respectful,intelligent but the love was not just there as i expected.i dated the girl and was always praying God should make me love her more(If that;s His will).I had this belief that it's very important to love ones wife and after about a year,i ended the relationship because the distance was not helping and she's not getting younger.i never wanted to keep hoping and make her feel dumped at the end of the day(we were not having sex though).It was difficult for me leaving her nd was feeling that could be a very big mistake.Some people say love grows,but one should at least have this level of love that can sustain the relationship during the hard times.If the love gets better,good and if not,u have something you can cope with.That's my 2cents sha,wish you all the best.