Mskrisx: Love is good

stingbreed: you can say that again dear

stingbreed: There are things we expect from our partner when in a relationship and sometimes when this expectations are not met we become disappointed,,, this in turn could lead to depression..
So what is love?
Love is patience
Love is tolerance
It is kind
Love is not wicked
Love does not break one's heart
Love does not hurt
It's not painful
Love is enduring
It gives without expecting returns
Love is wonderful..
So what exactly causes all the hurt and pain
It's lust
Inordinate passion
Greed
Excessive want
All these things break d heart,, uncontrollably passion for sex always leave much to be desired,, selfishness, pride, unforgiveness and revenge, all this things break the heart,,.
So next time you hear someone under estimate the power of love tell him/her this truth.. Love conquers all

Please feel free to comment but don't derail the thread,, ,have a nice day

andromida:

In romantic love this is not realistic.

zoeee: Love is generous
Love is not selfish

stingbreed: why do u say so

andromida:

The idea is unconditional love i just love you for love, yeah its good to love the homeless,disadvantaged,friends etc like that but in a romantic love you'd like to be loved in return,you'd like to be appreciated for who you are so i don't see how you expect nothing in return.

stingbreed: you have a point but have you ever been in a romantic relationship with someone that is an embodiment of love..?
My point is, we should learn to show love irrespective of what we get in return because our expectations can lead to disappointments when not met.

zoeee: Love is generous
Love is not selfish

stingbreed:

stingbreed: why do u say so

stingbreed: you have a point but have you ever been in a romantic relationship with someone that is an embodiment of love..?
My point is, we should learn to show love irrespective of what we get in return because our expectations can lead to disappointments when not met.

loswhite: can u continue to love a girl that is not in luv with you

loswhite: when it comes to romantic love, it is always conditional. Anybody that claims other wise is Js lying

stingbreed: the fact that you love someone don't mean you have to be with him/her,,,, show love, let people feel free around you, a thought of you should spark excitement in them..
Believe me if you show people love,, they won't be able to do without you.. Believe that

stingbreed: if a lady isn't romantically inlove with me I would breakup with her but that doesn't mean I will stop loving her,,

loswhite: did u see this in my post "romantic love"? In your village is romantic love about people ? Wetin concern ppl to be free around you with romantic love? You are probably confusing romantic love with other types of love