Danhumprey: Love take time to grow! Any 'love at first sight' bullshít is fake and don't last! Love is not instinctual! You say you are inlove with someone you just met,a total stranger probably,that's bullshìt! Real love isn't like that!

Tallesty1: I think growing in love is better because it involves maturity. Many of us mistake love to be only a feeling. Thats why when they feel some connection to somebody they automaitcaly assume they are in love. Love to me is a DECISION. When I feel I'm connected to somebody emotionally I will first of all plant the seed of friendship and watch it grow. It is during that time that one will discover the other side of the person. If they are what you can put up with then it's time to make your decision.

You have heard that it was said, 'You shall love (agapēseis) your neighbor and hate your enemy.' But I say to you, Love (agapāte) your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, so that you may be sons of your Father who is in heaven; for he makes his sun rise on the evil and on the good, and sends rain on the just and on the unjust. For if you love those who love you, what reward have you?
—Matthew 5:43-46, RSV "

Sanchez01: I take my cue from Andrew Marvell's poem, "To His Coy Mistress", where he described his love for the mystery lady as 'vegetable love'... The expression 'Fall in Love' is totally wrong! We don't fall in love, rather, we grow in love. We appreciate beauty, personality, similarities and the differences in others with each passing day. Love takes time, it is not arrived at. One beautiful reason why love is considered ultimate is because it is infinte; we appreciate it more with each day.

Those who fall in love fall out right back, while those who grow in it remain in it. Enough with my fantasies...

Danhumprey: Love take time to grow! Any 'love at first sight' bullshít is fake and don't last! Love is not instinctual! You say you are inlove with someone you just met,a total stranger probably,that's bullshìt! Real love isn't like that!

Tallesty1: I think growing in love is better because it involves maturity. Many of us mistake love to be only a feeling. Thats why when they feel some connection to somebody they automaitcaly assume they are in love. Love to me is a DECISION. When I feel I'm connected to somebody emotionally I will first of all plant the seed of friendship and watch it grow. It is during that time that one will discover the other side of the person. If they are what you can put up with then it's time to make your decision.

djeezy: The love at first sight is just an attraction of the physical beauty. An assessment of the eyes only. As you get closer to the person, the loves grows like a grain of mustard seed, growing faster and larger than unwanted weed.

MisterLongman: You are so on point bro...... The bottomline is that love at first sight is nothing but infatuation

marieolae: What I've actually learnt about nigerian guys is that after the second date they begin to believe they are in "love". Most nigerian guys don't actually know the meaning of love. Love is normally a lifetime thing. Its not every fisayo,bolu and yinka that you fall in love with. Love takes time. It normally occurs once or twice in a lifetime. Nigerian guys are misusing this word and it sickens me.

Deshannel:
you're reasoning beyond average IQ level. that's y I followed u.

Deshannel:
you're reasoning beyond average IQ level. that's y I followed u.

marieolae: What I've actually learnt about nigerian guys is that after the second date they begin to believe they are in "love". Most nigerian guys don't actually know the meaning of love. Love is normally a lifetime thing. Its not every fisayo,bolu and yinka that you fall in love with. Love takes time. It normally occurs once or twice in a lifetime. Nigerian guys are misusing this word and it sickens me.

marieolae: What I've actually learnt about nigerian guys is that after the second date they begin to believe they are in "love". Most nigerian guys don't actually know the meaning of love. Love is normally a lifetime thing. Its not every fisayo,bolu and yinka that you fall in love with. Love takes time. It normally occurs once or twice in a lifetime. Nigerian guys are misusing this word and it sickens me.

andromida: See guys waxing lyrical

Love is like babies in the womb

Love is a decision

Love grows like mustard

Love conquers all.

dmcdad:
Nigerian guys? Why such exclusivity? FYI it's not about Nigerian guys. It's a general misconception the world over. Nigerian girls are guilty as much. So also the westerners and the rest of the world. My point is; it's not exclusive to Nigerian guys alone, but to people (male and female) round the world.

The concept of love is no longer understood as people are kinda disorientated about what real love is. Today, infatuation and/or like is what looms around. And people even go as far as misinterpreting attraction/lust for love.

Real love is unconditional and sometimes uncomfortable(if you know what I mean). Infact, if I say make I talk about love, today go finish I go still dey on the matter. It's that broad a subject that it can NEVER be fully covered.

marieolae: no this is actually me talking from experience. I don't really think its necessary for me to mention this, but I've lived out of nigeria for some years. And I've dated some. And I've come to realise that's it actually only a trend in Nigeria.

dmcdad:

andromida:

What is it?

dmcdad:
Nothing.

marieolae: What I've actually learnt about nigerian guys is that after the second date they begin to believe they are in "love". Most nigerian guys don't actually know the meaning of love. Love is normally a lifetime thing. Its not every fisayo,bolu and yinka that you fall in love with. Love takes time. It normally occurs once or twice in a lifetime. Nigerian guys are misusing this word and it sickens me.

Dmcdad:
Nigerian guys? Why such exclusivity? FYI it's not about Nigerian guys. It's a general misconception the world over. Nigerian girls are guilty as much. So also the westerners and the rest of the world. My point is; it's not exclusive to Nigerian guys alone, but to people (male and female) round the world.

The concept of love is no longer understood as people are kinda disorientated about what real love is. Today, infatuation and/or like is what looms around. And people even go as far as misinterpreting attraction/lust for love.

Real love is unconditional and sometimes uncomfortable(if you know what I mean). Infact, if I say make I talk about love, today go finish I go still dey on the matter. It's that broad a subject that it can NEVER be fully covered.