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Reasons Why Men Cheat by chrisexy(m): 8:53am On Sep 03, 2014
It’s vaguely understandable why a man would cheat in a troubled relationship. When the juice is sucked out of the relationship and what’s left is nothing but constant fights, he might seek comfort in the arms of another that isn't you. On the other hand, it’s disturbing why a man would want to ruin a beautiful relationship he enjoys with a woman he obviously loves and wants to be with forever....

Over the years, it’s been argued that men are biologically inclined to cheat. Do you agree with that? Well, that’s what evolutionary psychologists say, and it’s based on research. But using that as an excuse to cheat is a new low.

5 Reasons Why Men Cheat

Understanding why men cheat isn't a piece of cake…but these reasons will help make it easier.

· Greed
When it comes to women, the average man isn't content with just one; he wants to have as many as he can get. In a day, a man can approach up to three girls that catch his fancy. He knows they are too much to handle, but he wants to have them just because he can.

· Boredom
When a man’s relationship isn't as fun as it used to be, seeking that fun elsewhere seems like the best thing to do. His once adventurous woman suddenly turns to a conservative woman who finds it difficult to experiment new things in and outside the bedroom. And when all efforts to make her the woman he fell in love with fails, cheating is just a step away.

· Available Opportunity
It’s an open secret that 99% of men can’t say no to getting laid. For some genetic reasons, men can hardly turn down an offer of that few minutes of pleasure. Ordinarily, even the most handsome guy doesn't always receive offers to get laid, so when the rare opportunity presents itself, letting it go would make a man feel so stupid, and no man likes to feel stupid.

· Ego booster
The knowledge of being able to seduce a woman into getting in-between her legs make men feel like they are the best thing to have happened to the world. And they feel obligated to return the favour to the woman who finds them sexually attractive by doing the deed. It’s a win-win situation for both parties.

· It’s exciting
Men love to play hide and seek. The whole process of hooking up with someone else behind their woman’s back and not getting caught makes them feel like a hero in an action flick. Funny enough, when they get caught, the excitement disappears and they begin to wish they never sort for it.

When a man cheats on a woman, it doesn't necessarily mean that he doesn't love her; even the most unfaithful men have cheated at some point. And no, it’s not your fault as a woman. However, making it very clear that you won’t tolerate cheating from your man will to a large extent make him reconsider any attempts to cheat on you, if he truly loves you and doesn't want you lose you.

Are there more reasons why men cheat? Please, share your views and experiences in the comments section for others to learn from it. Let’s discuss!

Source: http://diaryoftheblackchild..com/
Re: Reasons Why Men Cheat by Nobody: 9:04am On Sep 03, 2014
Some men cheat cos they are confused!!
Re: Reasons Why Men Cheat by chimerase2: 9:21am On Sep 03, 2014
MEN will always CHEAT
Cus cheating is in their or our DNA
Their is sometin in our body called eluelu dat dangles even wen de spirit is not willing but oga is willing den we succumb
S.ex has always been overated, too much of hyping of s.ex made men to start cheating with passion
Associating with men that flirt always corrupt the good one and they become cheater sori cheat
So ma dear it will be hard to see a less cheating man
Re: Reasons Why Men Cheat by Ezedon(m): 9:32am On Sep 03, 2014
Women are the main cause of cheating in men, if woman is not playing her role wella the guy must cheat
Re: Reasons Why Men Cheat by Beckybeky(f): 9:37am On Sep 03, 2014
Men think with dia organs
Re: Reasons Why Men Cheat by rawpadgin(m): 9:38am On Sep 03, 2014
op u nailed it! mostly with the BOREDOM, AVAILABLE OPPORTUNITY & EGO BOOSTER
Re: Reasons Why Men Cheat by rawpadgin(m): 9:39am On Sep 03, 2014
Beckybeky: Men think with dia organs
& what do women think with?
Re: Reasons Why Men Cheat by bamvik(m): 9:46am On Sep 03, 2014
Why do women cheat... Coming Soon
men easily get aroused than women bcoz their organ is outside and so those who cant control it wil cheat
Re: Reasons Why Men Cheat by Beckybeky(f): 9:47am On Sep 03, 2014
rawpadgin: & what do women think with?

Go ask ur mother or sister
Re: Reasons Why Men Cheat by chrisexy(m): 10:19am On Sep 03, 2014
Harbosede02: Some men cheat cos they are confused!!
You are not far from the truth. Some Men cheat because they are confused in the sense that they don't know what they want.
Re: Reasons Why Men Cheat by chrisexy(m): 10:22am On Sep 03, 2014
chimerase2: MEN will always CHEAT
Cus cheating is in their or our DNA
Their is sometin in our body called eluelu dat dangles even wen de spirit is not willing but oga is willing den we succumb
S.ex has always been overated, too much of hyping of s.ex made men to start cheating with passion
Associating with men that flirt always corrupt the good one and they become cheater sori cheat
So ma dear it will be hard to see a less cheating man
I understand where you are coming from. But really, is cheating in our DNA? Putting it that way is like saying it's acceptable to cheat. Don't you think so?

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