I have a good Lady friend who is always checking on me everytime,asking me about work and how my day went and she is in her finals now,but I don't feel anything for her now because I don't want to break her heart later in the future, I still have a lot to achieve in Life because am a career guy,also in my middle 20's, Do I tell her to wait or should I Lie to her that am in a Courtship?.... Please need mature advice

Checking on you means either of the following: she likes your person and asking after you clearly means she wants to get a message across to you that she wants your attention, and wouldn't mind to continue with her acts (even though its not a guarantee that she is a caring type) that's women for you. In anycase try and be friends with her and if luck is on your side, you will end up liking her as much as she does you.

Why do you want her to wait? Do you want to spend the rest of your life with her?

askakim: I have a good Lady friend who is always checking on me everytime,asking me about work and how my day went and she is in her finals now,but I don't feel anything for her now because I don't want to break her heart later in the future, I still have a lot to achieve in Life because am a career guy,also in my middle 20's, Do I tell her to wait or should I Lie to her that am in a Courtship?.... Please need mature advice

How can you tell her to wait when you don't feel anything for her?

You don't need to lie just tell her you know she will like a serious relationship and you cannot give that to her. Free the gal its not every woman that comes your way you must hook up with leave it as friends.

andromida:

How can you tell her to wait when you don't feel anything for her?

You don't need to lie just tell her you know she will like a serious relationship and you cannot give that to her. Free the gal its not every woman that comes your way you must hook up with leave it as friends.

bless you

[quote author=Rexphobia]Why do you want her to wait? Do you want to spend the rest of your life with her? [/I am this spiritual person because I have gone through a lot back then in my undergraduate days... Any babe I will court must be ok spiritually..tnx

askakim: I have a good Lady friend who is always checking on me everytime,asking me about work and how my day went and she is in her finals now,but I don't feel anything for her now because I don't want to break her heart later in the future, I still have a lot to achieve in Life because am a career guy,also in my middle 20's, Do I tell her to wait or should I Lie to her that am in a Courtship?.... Please need mature advice

friend zone her asap

Thanks, really appreciate that... But She still believe I will someday get to like her..

[But I hope I won't hurt her if I tell her that]

How can you tell her to wait when you don't feel anything for her?

You don't need to lie just tell her you know she will like a serious relationship and you cannot give that to her. Free the gal its not every woman that comes your way you must hook up with leave it as friends.[/quote]

askakim: Thanks, really appreciate that... But She still believe I will someday get to like her..

What do YOU believe?

@andromida, I believe she might be right because she has introduce me to some of her fwds when she was doing her siwes recently and they think something is going on btw both of us...... You know there is something in my Spirit man that still tells me take her just as a friend for now......tnx big 4ur advice

askakim: @andromida, I believe she might be right because she has introduce me to some of her fwds when she was doing her siwes recently and they think something is going on btw both of us...... You know there is something in my Spirit man that still tells me take her just as a friend for now......tnx big 4ur advice

Soooooo its not that you don't have feelings for her its just that you are not sure you want her ........yet. Anyway listen to your spirit and kindly tell her friends only you know how a woman can begin to imagine things that are not there.

@andromida... Tnx for your maturity, will follow my inner man mind..

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@houseofglamour07.... You are funny. Do we knw frm somewhere?

askakim: @houseofglamour07.... You are funny. Do we knw frm somewhere?

Do we?

Lemme go ask akim.

@houseofglam07...I know you know me from the way you talk but can't imagine from where?

Give me her number let me warn her..