true!!

you didn't read my post but you still quoting what i wrote.  anyway, who are the ladies facing opposition and adversity? give names and i'll advise

Peace

Pap:

@ Cayon
Your post was too long.I didn't read through it.
But instead of glorifying your internet achievements here, why don't you offer some real time suggestions to the ladies who are facing opposition and adversity.

No write-ups please.
Cheers and God Bless.

this is not totally true, everything boils down to who you marry.guys back home take care of their families too,they help and do chores,but you have to put culture and environment to play.here guys help,lets put it at 80%,i know guys who spent more time messing around than been there for their spouses.

damiso:
I just replied to a post about a really cool husband who takes a very active part in the raising of his children.I think its really nice when a man chips in to help his wife around the house both with the kids and also with household chores.But i have noticed that the naija husbands that live abroad are more prone to this attitude than their brothers back home.

I have noticed over the years when i used to stay over with couples abroad,you find the husband seeing nothing wrong in cooking,cleaning doing the laundry and even bathing for and feeding the kids.But those ones at home just carry on as if the woman is superwoman(my father and most of the males in my family are guilty of this).

I guess it's the enviroment and  maybe the fact that domestic helps cost an arm and a leg.
I have decided that if my hubby refuses to help me with the kids,we will get an aupair which HE would have to pay for(to be fair sha he does help around the house now,at least far better than my Dad)Gosh my father is one example of someone i never wanted to marry when it comes to domestics, HAA the man is or should i say was a DISASTER.

Bump.


Whaaaaat?

Lol... Females think of themselves as fantastic undercover schemers.
*smirk*